Married, Straight, Curious Looking

Abnofy3050

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I find this whole thing a bit perplexing. I am happily married, kids, and great sex. Yet I find myself looking for a bro like in college, where we could just hang, put my arm around them or vice versa, and it not be weird. If we happen to jerk off to porn together ok, but that’s not what I’m looking for. Grindr was a bust, most of the guys on there sorry to say are desperate and gross. I also find there are many more people who do not take care of themselves on that app than those who do. Yes looks are important. And thoughts would be appreciated.
 
I find this whole thing a bit perplexing. I am happily married, kids, and great sex. Yet I find myself looking for a bro like in college, where we could just hang, put my arm around them or vice versa, and it not be weird. If we happen to jerk off to porn together ok, but that’s not what I’m looking for. Grindr was a bust, most of the guys on there sorry to say are desperate and gross. I also find there are many more people who do not take care of themselves on that app than those who do. Yes looks are important. And thoughts would be appreciated.
Im kinda confused here. Do u want a male friend or something more like fwb or simple male companionship?
If these thoughts are starting to eat at u,i'd suggest getting therapy to find out what exactly u need.
 
I find this whole thing a bit perplexing. I am happily married, kids, and great sex. Yet I find myself looking for a bro like in college, where we could just hang, put my arm around them or vice versa, and it not be weird. If we happen to jerk off to porn together ok, but that’s not what I’m looking for. Grindr was a bust, most of the guys on there sorry to say are desperate and gross. I also find there are many more people who do not take care of themselves on that app than those who do. Yes looks are important. And thoughts would be appreciated.
Consider Adam4Adam for looking. I find those I've connected with there are not too pushy. And have the patience for back and forth chat e. Many are just like you (and I).