Hey, I consider myself straight. I get massages frequently but to be honest women just don't give as good of a massage as men. Here's the problem. I get a boner every time, whether I'm getting a massage from a girl or a guy. I generally start face down and I'm fine until they do my glutes....by the time I turn over the table is soaked with precum and my cock is rock hard. Does this happen with any other straight guys.
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as a therapist this is a normal reaction doesnt mean anything, just how grappling people get aroused doesnt make it turns them it just a hormone reaction, now if you was to act upon than yes that be another matter.
I have jacked off when they've left the room to make it go down...lol
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It's simply a physical reaction. I think it happens to a lot of (or most) guys.
Personally, I think I've had better massages from women, though I've only had a couple from guys and lots from women. I get erections often but not every massage.
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First off, almost every massage I had was for therapeutic reasons and the only item I took off (and was allowed to take off) was my shirt. Only when getting a couples massage was I almost naked (I elected to keep my underwear on). Although they all felt pleasurable to one degree or another regardless of the gender, but they were strictly professional and I was more likely to fall asleep than get sexually aroused while it was going on.
The only exception was when I was receiving one of the injury treatment massages from a woman I found attractive and while she doing my neck I reflexively looked up from the hole in the table my face was in to find her crotch just inches from my face. While I got more of a semi, than full on erection, but that was enough to concern me when she announced she was done and I could get up when I was ready. I elected to lay there a few minutes on my stomach till I deflated, especially given I was wearing fairly tight fitting jeans.
So yes, it can happen and it's not so much that one gets an erection, but how one deals with it. Since I consider such massages professional and wouldn't want to give the wrong impression, I would do everything possible to hide any erection, however unintended, just as I did in that one instance.
While I'd obviously be far more prone to getting an unintended erection from a female, but otherwise have no preference as to the sex of the therapist. As far as who gives a better one, I found it depends on the circumstance. For a general massage or mild discomfort I do somewhat lean towards the finer touch of most women; but if a firmer treatment for serious or localized pain is needed, than I have found most men having a stronger grip and can go deeper into the muscle and thus they can prove more effective.
The only exception was when I was receiving one of the injury treatment massages from a woman I found attractive and while she doing my neck I reflexively looked up from the hole in the table my face was in to find her crotch just inches from my face. While I got more of a semi, than full on erection, but that was enough to concern me when she announced she was done and I could get up when I was ready. I elected to lay there a few minutes on my stomach till I deflated, especially given I was wearing fairly tight fitting jeans.
So yes, it can happen and it's not so much that one gets an erection, but how one deals with it. Since I consider such massages professional and wouldn't want to give the wrong impression, I would do everything possible to hide any erection, however unintended, just as I did in that one instance.
While I'd obviously be far more prone to getting an unintended erection from a female, but otherwise have no preference as to the sex of the therapist. As far as who gives a better one, I found it depends on the circumstance. For a general massage or mild discomfort I do somewhat lean towards the finer touch of most women; but if a firmer treatment for serious or localized pain is needed, than I have found most men having a stronger grip and can go deeper into the muscle and thus they can prove more effective.
Well had a massage yesterday by a new guy...great deep tissue massage and again, raging boner. I just think I'm wired that if another person is touching me...in even a mildly erotic way I get hard. I noticed most of the responses have said they don't get undressed. I've never kept anything on during a massage with a girl or a guy. Women generally drape me..but men usually say its optional.
Yeah bud, I get a boner every time with chicks or dudes giving me a massage, it's totally natural mate. When I'm face down I always leave a little wet patch too. I think you'd find most dudes are the same before they roll over because it's not only hot, it just feels fucking amazing when you are in that headspace and zone. When they hit my glutes that's when I really bar up!
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Got a massage from a female masseuse and I had a pretty rock hard erection. She was 100% professional, but I can't lie I would have enjoyed a good stroking after she was done
I've only had massages in very high-end spas, always those attached with a high-end hotel or resort. Been naked under a sheet or towel. Never any touching which resulted in a boner and certainly never a happen ending (damnit!).
Would love to get a nice relaxing full body massage with a happy ending.
Would love to get a nice relaxing full body massage with a happy ending.
No precum in my experiences. But boners and massages go hand in hand, pun intended. It is more than hormones or whatever. There are nerves in your leg that when pressed trigger this reaction. The boner is involuntary when that happens and unavoidable. Different guys will have different experiences due to different body compositions and due to the nerves being at different depths. Keep in mind too that for a dick to get hard arteries relax, allowing blood to flow in and fill’er up. Relaxing mentally, as happens with better massages, can also trigger boners. Stronger masseuses, whether a man or woman, are more likely to press the nerve and trigger a boner. I typically roll with it and don’t acknowledge it. One time I got a massage in a bath house where all the men were required to be naked. It was awkward, because it was a wide open place with pools everywhere and massage area on the side, which I didn’t know when I was booking a massage my first time there. And I booked a long massage and salt scrub. Woops!!!
So…I was laying there an hour, thankfully half the time face down! It was an amazing massage, the best I ever had, but half the time everyone in the room could see my flag pole from 150ft away. It was absolutely not sexual and felt embarrassing. But then after my massage I looked over at the massage area from time to time as I relaxed in the therapy pools, and most guys were also flying high. So it’s very very normal. Just enjoy the moment. That being said my one rather public massage experience I wouldn’t recommend.
So…I was laying there an hour, thankfully half the time face down! It was an amazing massage, the best I ever had, but half the time everyone in the room could see my flag pole from 150ft away. It was absolutely not sexual and felt embarrassing. But then after my massage I looked over at the massage area from time to time as I relaxed in the therapy pools, and most guys were also flying high. So it’s very very normal. Just enjoy the moment. That being said my one rather public massage experience I wouldn’t recommend.
Happens all the time. Doesn't depend on who, male or female, attractive or not.
I used to get embarrassed when it happened, then when it didn't. Most professionals have pretty good ways of coping and almost expect it. (A sheet or a towel to flip things around and out of the way and maintain coverage is the most common).
Personally sheets soaked with precum doesn't happen to me. And the erections tend to come if I am nervous or when there is pressure in erogenous places like stomach, flutes, or quads. And they sometimes go just as quickly when I become less nervous.
Some massage therapists give a relaxed nonjudgmental vibe when it happens and that is great. Most are just silent about the whole thing which is a little weird but okay. I mean can we just talk about the elephant in the room?!
Of course I am just joking about the elephant. Licensed therapists can lose their livelihood from a bad event, or feel unsafe, and both of those would be devastating. So as much as I have fantasies about a massage therapist just not being able to resist themself, it isn't cool to put a licensed massage therapist on the spot. IMHO.
I used to get embarrassed when it happened, then when it didn't. Most professionals have pretty good ways of coping and almost expect it. (A sheet or a towel to flip things around and out of the way and maintain coverage is the most common).
Personally sheets soaked with precum doesn't happen to me. And the erections tend to come if I am nervous or when there is pressure in erogenous places like stomach, flutes, or quads. And they sometimes go just as quickly when I become less nervous.
Some massage therapists give a relaxed nonjudgmental vibe when it happens and that is great. Most are just silent about the whole thing which is a little weird but okay. I mean can we just talk about the elephant in the room?!
Of course I am just joking about the elephant. Licensed therapists can lose their livelihood from a bad event, or feel unsafe, and both of those would be devastating. So as much as I have fantasies about a massage therapist just not being able to resist themself, it isn't cool to put a licensed massage therapist on the spot. IMHO.
are they doing it right if it doesnt go stiff at least once?
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I just had a massage from a married straight dude - legit LMT with awesome in-home studio. But here goes guys, no boner for me and no happy ending. It was literally one of the best f'n deep tissue massages I have had in years. He was literally having to crack his knuckles three or four times during the 90 min massage. I was in heaven. No sheet draping, but he had a towel he moved around...it was definitely not always covering everything but I paid no attention to it. I would go back weekly if he were not 30 mins from me. Love giving and getting massages....have always wanted to finds dudes to swap legit body work with.
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All but 1 of the massages I've received were from women. I was naked in all cases, but draped with sheets or blankets on the massage table. There was nothing sensual about any of these massages in any way, so I never became aroused during any of them. There was a truly stunning woman who massaged me on 2 separate occasions, and yes, my mind did fantasize more than massage, until she started massaging me. She was very good, very thorough, and believe me there is nothing sensual about a therapeutic message!
Sensual massages are a completely different story!
Sensual massages are a completely different story!
i find it the other way, i have had many massages from both, and found that i didnt get any erections when being massaged by a man but if i get a good female masseur (good at her job, not looks wise or anything) then the relaxation and the different way she touches me can often give me an erection.
Dude, I always get a boner every time getting a massage. Especially laying with my face downwards, I rod up straight away. My ass, thighs, and back being pressed hard makes me get a rager so hard that I leak pre fuck sauce every where. 99% of all guys are the same, 1% lie hahaha.... I bar up harder when they hut my upper thigh. I don't get hang-ups easy, so if it happens it happens.
