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Kyuhaku said:
If he ever came back unexpectedly, and couldnt get in, i would unlock the door and play it off like the door was broken or stuck.
And hide your 9.5 inch erection that is slathered up with lube? How did you do that?

I only had a roommate try to unlock the door once, and it took enough time to hide the porn and the lotion and get myself tucked away that I wouldn't have been able to get up to unlock the door and feign innocence.

One time I came home and the roomie had a nude lady on his computer screen and was reaching into my drawer where I stored my lotion. Tsk, tsk, tsk.
 

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i was in a fraternity at a school with a large greek system, so we rarely had any privacy. as a pledge i remember sleeping on a "porch" with ten guys and inevitably hearing the squeek of someone trying to jack off in the night, although we'd usually call it out and start flipping each other shit from our bunks. we had communal showers too, so that wasn't an option. after initiation i shared a room with two brothers with slightly different class schedules, so occasionaly i could sneak in some jack-off time, but not often enough.

being the closeted frat boy that i was, every few weeks i would go into the city and jack off to gay porn at one of those seedy video booth places--that is until i ran into a guy i knew from another fraternity who was there for the same reason, which soon became 'first love' for both of us, and a secret romance we carried on while at school for two years. after that i wasn't too concerned about finding places to jack-off (whew).
 

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I was so nervous about this when I left school. In HS I used to jack with some firends so I was not shy, but living together is different. I was so horny after about 4 days that I thought I might go insane (I was 17...you have all been there) so I just started jacking off in bed one night. My roommate asked me if I was beating off and I told him that I was horny as shit and I couldn't hold it anymore and that I thought he was asleep. He told me that he didn't mind if I didn't mind and that he would do it too as long as he didn't see me and I didn't see him. We worked it out and rubbed one out to one of his porns every night.

During my education I lived in 6 countries and had loads of roommates, in some places as many as 4 to a room...there is a universal truth...ALL guys jack off...it's not gay or straight or anything...ALL GUYS do it and understand your need to do it. Don't get me wrong...some guys will not come right out and circle jerk/mutual with their roommates/friends (some will), but most, no all the guys I have shared a room with have had their modesty overtaken by thieir urges on one noght or another...besides everyone knows why you are spending 15 minutes in the shower or the toilet stall and your roommate is never asleep when you think he is so you might as well be honest about it, do it in bed, take your time and enjoy it!
 

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Yeah. I have just become a college freshman. My dorm room is pretty small. But there is a HUGE ASS two-sided computer desk in the middle of the room which sorta acts as a divider as well. It really helps out with privacy.I just moved into college and at first I didn't jack off at all. That changed quick.

Just one night I did it under the covers and through the covers. Sometimes I'd whip the covers off, just for the added risk and to be able to se myself better (even though it was dark in the room at night). I sorta care if my roomate sees because I KNOW it'll probably create an awkward situation. :eek: I also just go and do it in the bathroom when he is away. Our room door is ALWAYS opened by the key. So, its not too safe to j/o in the room itself. He could walk in so suddenly withoutt warning! But the bathroom locks and if he tries to unlock the bathroom door while i'm in there, I can easily stop him by being like "Dude, WTF! I'm in here!".

I don't ever here or see him do it. He does take a lot of showers though. So, maybe that's it. IDK about him. But I do know what I do:

I remember one time I was showing off on a really hot webcam session with a friend. Everything was out in the open. I was completely naked. And I stopped early for tease effect. I put back on my clothes. And like 15 seconds later the door opened and my roomate came in! that was lucky! :biggrin1: Last night I got away with having another webcam session w/ a friend while my roomate slept.

Oh yeah, and I pretty much always wake up with morning wood. And all I sleep in are these nylon mesh basketball shorts from my college, and a shirt with cutoff sleeves. So, good thing he sleeps in late. B'cuz if you see in my gallery the magnitude of my erected tents... yeah, that would create an interesting scene. Although, sometimes in the morning as I walk around the room so scantily clad, and my erection tent is in full effect, I wonder if he is looking. Maybe he ISN'T really sleeping in late... maybe he's getting his jollies by watching me in the morning. (Oh well. He just woke up BTW. And I've been up since like 7:50 am CDT)

This is fun, though. It's like living on the edge. It's this risk taking (the thought of getting caught or being found out during), for me at least, that seems to make these inconspicuous j/o's so enjoyable and addictive. I just don't know if I'm ready for whatever may occur if he finds me out.
 

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noface60 said:
Last night I got away with having another webcam session w/ a friend while my roomate slept.
I always found it risky, but I jerked off to porn pics just twice, in two different situations with two different roommates, while they slept.

I guess the risky part was that I never was sure if I gave them enough time to actually get to sleep. If they got a show, good for them.
 
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ryanishung said:
I am experiencing this predicament right now. I love my roommate, he's a cool guy and we are hitting it off pretty great. However, I have not been able to masturbate since I've been here and it's been driving me nuts. I never liked doing it in the showers, but that may turn out to be my only choice. Perhaps he and I just need to have a talk about it, cause I'm sure he's feeling the grief as well!

Well, here's the update-

THANK goodness for conversation starters because I had no idea how to start it off. I had returned to the dorm after cleaning up in the restroom and he was changing and getting ready to go to bed as well. Going to our drawers, I opened up the top by accident (mine is the bottom drawer) and had accidentally discovered his porn magazine collection and jokingly asked him if it was his jerk-off material. His answer, "Hell yeah!"

He said he was hoping I would take longer so he could get some wanking in. I told him, "Thank God!" and gave him a huge hug and told him how I had been holding it in. He was completely cool with it and we laughed about it. We both agreed to just screw it and masturbate whenever we wanted. I'm really liking this guy.
 

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ryanishung said:
I told him, "Thank God!" and gave him a huge hug and told him how I had been holding it in. He was completely cool with it and we laughed about it. We both agreed to just screw it and masturbate whenever we wanted. I'm really liking this guy.
Sounds like there may be some even more interesting times ahead with this guy. :wink:
 

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Sounds like good news for you, Ryan. Let us know how things go.

I had a couple of college roomies who were not hung up about jacking off in the room. My first night in the dorm I woke up and my roomie was jacking like a madman. When he finished, I went at it--shot a big load that hit the wall. He must've jerked in the early morning most mornings, because I'd wake up to see him with a wadded-up t-shirt, dark red cockhead red and his foreskin pulled part way back.

A roommate, Keitih, was real cool. He was on the football team's scout team--he always played the part of the next opponent's QB in practices. One night when I got home around 2AM and horny as hell, I flopped on my bed and went at it, thinking he was asleep. After several minutes, he raised up on his elbow and asked what I was doing. Seeing the tent his sheet was making, I said, "Looks like the same thing you're doing," and he laid back down and kicked off his sheet to finish. Other than occasionally having a hand inside our pants while we studied, we never did it in the open with the lights on, but every night we'd get some much needed stress relief. Sometimes we'd chit-chat about events of the day, talk about sports, or watch TV in the dark while going thru a lazy stroke session.

Another roommate in an apartment would j/o every time he took a shower. One time his parents called about an emergency and I needed to take the phone to him in the bathroom. I yelled out for him to stop jerking and put his boner away when I was going in the bathroom--and his mom heard me say that over the phone. Oops!
 

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ryanishung said:
He said he was hoping I would take longer so he could get some wanking in. I told him, "Thank God!" and gave him a huge hug and told him how I had been holding it in. He was completely cool with it and we laughed about it. We both agreed to just screw it and masturbate whenever we wanted. I'm really liking this guy.

Cool, Ryan.

See, like I said ALL guys do it and most are totally cool with it because they understand the need. Glad you worked this out with your roommate...it will make sharing a room (and possibly other things) much easier and you both will enjoy your college experience so much more.
 

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Maybe I'm just not good at knowing what's going on around me, but I never knew of any of my roommates jerking off while I was in the room. (And I had 6 different roommates over a 6 year period while in college). Too bad, some of them were damn cute and I would've loved to catch them. :)

But I jerked off all the time. Sometimes I would j/o while my roommate was away - and had 1 walk in while I was trying to put the porn away and button my pants while he was unlocking the door. I would sometimes jerk off in bed with my roommates right there - one semester I shared a room with 2 other guys - they were in the bunk bed and I was in a single right next to them - I'd just go at it - they never said anything, but I'm certain they knew what was going one.

Of course while all this was going on, I was totally closeted, so although I didn't really care if anybody knew I was stroking, I had to be careful not to let them realize it was to pictures and/or thoughts of guys instead of girls. Kinda added to the excitement, actually.
 

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when i was in the navy i always went into the HEAD or restroom and jacked off....there were nothing but the duty guards that went around when they felt like it.....the others , i learned. jacked under the sheets in their bunks. we had no circle jerks. :rolleyes:
 

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tightnads said:
A few times we had backrub/jerk sessions of 3 or 4 guys in a 3-man room, but the backrubs were hasty and mechanical and the jerking was not very satisfying.
I'm wondering how widespread this kind of behavior is in fraternities.

There were some really hot guys in the frats at my school and it would have made a fun fantasy, but I thought those kinds of tales were all urban legends. You know, the circle jerk hazings, ejaculating on a piece of bread and the last to do it has to eat it, etc.
 

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In high school, I went on a roadtrip with some others in my grade. I ended up on a squeeky cot whereas my roomates ended up on squeeky beds. One fell asleep immediatly every night, the other masturbated right away, sometimes for two hours. I masturbated as well, but subtly, so he thought I was asleep. After noticing how he stared at me, I whipped the covers off and gave him a show. Sadly, he wasn't interested in anything more, and didn't reciprocate - although he was insanely loving it and jacked off with this wild grin on his face.
 

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freshman year I shared a room with one other guy. For the first few days I really tried to keep it in my pants but I love being nude and so basically we sat down I told him I don't like wearing clothes in the house and hope he didn't mind. He could if he wanted and since I was horny 24/7 I might every now and again need to wank off..
The house knew I was gay, so there was no problem there, in fact I was the go to guy for a while.
Anyway, my roommate and I got along fine. We ended up having jerk off sessions together and sometimes I was able to lend him a hand or a mouth or a ... :wink:
But basically, I have found that as long as I am up front from the start with some one about whatever, it's all good.
 

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hootie said:
I always wondered what guys in the military did about it. Did they wank in front of others, do it secretly, have circle jerks out on hikes?
Retired USAF officer here. In 22 yrs supervising 1 - 110 subordinates in a variety of assignments, and been privy to countless personal conversations on any/all topics, I can aver I've never, even ONCE, heard any military person talk about any aspect of masturbation, publicly. There was one case of autoerotic asphyxiation, which was looked on as tragedy, not JO, or stupid accident. Incidents of painting genitalia with biological stains, while drunk, were capers and not sex incidents.

Any discussion of/by anyone along these topics was always framed in a "joke" context. Don't ask, don't tell was in effect long before Clinton came up with the policy.

But talk about military sex by people with prior service. They're promiscuous, oversexed, and tell delightfully amusing stories!

Oh! Once in southeast asia, in my hooch, I woke up suddenly one night, at 3 AM. All was quiet, and I could hear the officer across my wall, (we were quartered in a hooch with no ceiling above!) making love to his palm. Pitch dark. I thought his stroke was quite slow. I was doubly amused because he was a self righteous prig who hated all the locals and disapproved of anyone partying with them. Who would believe he jacked off?

Most of all - who would you tell?
 

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I've heard this same thing from another friend (internet friend) that I met who has served 2 tours in Iraq. He said sometimes servicemen, on leave, will do whatever with any woman they can find....group sex, parties, couple sex, is very very common but masturbation was just never discussed. It does seem kinda strange, but maybe that's just how it is. Is it discussed during boot? Is it part of the training to become an officer that you squelch conversations that have to do with masturbation, and even squelch masturbatory behavior when possible?


Retired USAF officer here. In 22 yrs supervising 1 - 110 subordinates in a variety of assignments, and been privy to countless personal conversations on any/all topics, I can aver I've never, even ONCE, heard any military person talk about any aspect of masturbation, publicly. There was one case of autoerotic asphyxiation, which was looked on as tragedy, not JO, or stupid accident. Incidents of painting genitalia with biological stains, while drunk, were capers and not sex incidents.

Any discussion of/by anyone along these topics was always framed in a "joke" context. Don't ask, don't tell was in effect long before Clinton came up with the policy.

But talk about military sex by people with prior service. They're promiscuous, oversexed, and tell delightfully amusing stories!

Oh! Once in southeast asia, in my hooch, I woke up suddenly one night, at 3 AM. All was quiet, and I could hear the officer across my wall, (we were quartered in a hooch with no ceiling above!) making love to his palm. Pitch dark. I thought his stroke was quite slow. I was doubly amused because he was a self righteous prig who hated all the locals and disapproved of anyone partying with them. Who would believe he jacked off?

Most of all - who would you tell?
 

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As an undergrad, I never jerked off with my roommate in the room with me. Looking back, I think that I should have cleared the air the first week of school.

I mean, come on: We were 19 years old...and surely to God both of us were jacking off nearly every day. (At least I was - sometimes more than once per day.)

It would have been nice to have been honest and said to each other, "Let's not get freaked out by it."

Oh, well. Maybe in my next life!
 
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when i was in college i gave up trying to hide my jerkoff sessions, so one day i just pounded my meat without any hesitation...my roommate noticed what im doing but never said anything but in the next few days, we never bothered hiding our boners and would jerk off whenether we want to...