Mmf Threesome

[robbot]

Hey Guys,

Haven't posted for a while on here but things are getting interesting.

GF wants to have an MMF threesome with a mate of ours who is bi. It was discussed explicitly at a party recently but, thankfully, nothing came of it. I'm open to exploring but seriously nervous about it, being that I've never been with another guy before.

What are the rules here? Idea of touching a mates hard cocks is weird but also i'm excited about it.

Would be great to hear other's experiences of what happened. How did you feel?

Bob, Bristol, UK.

 

[Mratt27]

Hey Guys,

Haven't posted for a while on here but things are getting interesting.

GF wants to have an MMF threesome with a mate of ours who is bi. It was discussed explicitly at a party recently but, thankfully, nothing came of it. I'm open to exploring but seriously nervous about it, being that I've never been with another guy before.

What are the rules here? Idea of touching a mates hard cocks is weird but also i'm excited about it.

Would be great to hear other's experiences of what happened. How did you feel?

Bob, Bristol, UK.

have fun and make sure everyone is enjoying the vibe. That’s the whole point no shame zone. Doesn’t make you gay or bi. The label itself is just stating what you are attracted to sexually

 

[WadWorshipper]

Some MMF threesomes have very little contact between the guys: they are simply servicing the female at opposite ends, or taking turns, or one is kissing her while the other is eating her out, etc. Did your explicit discussion at the party mention what was going to happen between the guys? I can understand you being nervous about it, but it sounds like a great opportunity to try things out. As Mratt says, deciding you liked some male-male contact for pure pleasure doesn't make you gay, if that's what you're sweating. It's just what feels good. Most guys find the difference remarkable when a guy sucks their cock compared to the best woman that ever has, for instance. Your threesome should be about all of you having sexual fun with no judgment. Most down-sides to threesomes are the bf/gf aren't clear on what it means to their relationship to invite in a third: if you've worked that out, then just have fun!

 

[hzs3fg]

Some MMF threesomes have very little contact between the guys: they are simply servicing the female at opposite ends, or taking turns, or one is kissing her while the other is eating her out, etc..

That makes it an MFM, not MMF.

The position of the letters has meaning.

 

[WadWorshipper]

That makes it an MFM, not MMF.

The position of the letters has meaning.

Ahh, thank you. Didn't know that....

 

[AceWilde]

Something that might help you feel more comfortable is talking with your GF about what you're both interested in trying during an MMF, and what you think your soft limits (things you could be persuaded on) and hard limits are. And then present that to your friend before you start the event, and get some of his limits too (he's bi but he might not want to do EVERYTHING, and he might not want to do certain things with you specifically too). But when you're coming up with your list, think of some stuff you're excited to try, like jerking him off or having him suck you, things you're open to. But also make sure your GF is cool with it all. I've been the third to an MMF with a couple and shortly into it the lady decided that watching her boyfriend play with me was too much (even though she'd encouraged it) and we had to stop so he could go work on her issues. Very, very awkward situation. LOL Had to just kind of dress and see myself out.

 

[Motion-of-the-Ocean]

As has already been pointed out, how you arrange the letters describes what to expect and vice versa.

I've only been involved in MFMs in which both myself and the other guy just interacted with my (or his) wife. Aside from inadvertent, brief contact of bodies, necessary when maneuvering in a bed, there was no direct touching of intimate parts. Other than commenting on my size or that they liked watching my dick doing things to their wives, there was also no verbal emphasis on each other's genitalia.

However in a MMF threesome there is pretty much the expectation and agreement that the guys will interact sexually with each other on some level. The only agreement that needs to be made upfront is to the degree of that interaction and what each man is comfortable with, although if neither is careful or serious about keeping to that agreement, there is a high degree any rules could change in the heat of the moment.

So basically it is up to both you, your girlfriend and the other guy as to what you are seeking and what to expect. If you are not comfortable touching another man's cock, let alone doing anything else to it, then I suggest you be upfront about this and limit it to you both pleasing your girlfriend only, in which case it will be a MFM, not a MMF. Just having another guy join in servicing a woman at once can be an enormously satisfying experience.

If however you are interested in exploring any bi-curious side then you will obviously have to be comfortable with at least touching his dick at a minimum.

The only issue I ever had with this was during not a threesome, but a foursome. The other guy was openly bi and even though I made it clear I didn't wish any interaction between us, both him and his wife keep subtly trying to pressure me to change my mind to the point we had to break it off with them. Ever since that, I was leery about swinging with any male who professed or hinted that he was not totally straight, let only admittedly bi; although those feelings have changed in the years since. So this is important and if you choose to have a threesome with this bi friend you must be 100% sure he will respect your decision not to engage with him in any way if that is what you decide.

 

[steveh9]

either way, i looked foward to another guys dick too, our first was with a bi guy, and him and i were together as much as him and her

 

[Mount Phalic]

That makes it an MFM, not MMF.

The position of the letters has meaning.

I didn’t know that. I just thought it was a fact of life that MFM and MMF were the same thing. Have had dozens of MFM.

 

[DiamondJoe]

"Mmf" is the noise you make as you eat out your woman whilst I fuck you

 

[marc87jones]

let's turn this thread into a thing - anyone got hot MMF or MFM videos?

 

[thongboy]

Some MMF threesomes have very little contact between the guys: they are simply servicing the female at opposite ends, or taking turns, or one is kissing her while the other is eating her out, etc. Did your explicit discussion at the party mention what was going to happen between the guys? I can understand you being nervous about it, but it sounds like a great opportunity to try things out. As Mratt says, deciding you liked some male-male contact for pure pleasure doesn't make you gay, if that's what you're sweating. It's just what feels good. Most guys find the difference remarkable when a guy sucks their cock compared to the best woman that ever has, for instance. Your threesome should be about all of you having sexual fun with no judgment. Most down-sides to threesomes are the bf/gf aren't clear on what it means to their relationship to invite in a third: if you've worked that out, then just have fun!

On our mmfs, my girlfriend I have one rule. The second dude has to be bi or at least bi curious. That last thing I want is the other guy suddenly freaking out because he's getting too close to my hard cock.
Some of the hottest mmf positions have a definite bi component. Dp is an obvious one — our two cocks rubbing together while we're both inside my gf. And my best buddy loves to lower himself onto my hard cock until I'm balls deep inside him and then having Cindy suck him off. I love doing it too — getting intense pleasure in both places sends a dude over the moon.

 

[jtheimpaler]

Hey Guys,

Haven't posted for a while on here but things are getting interesting.

GF wants to have an MMF threesome with a mate of ours who is bi. It was discussed explicitly at a party recently but, thankfully, nothing came of it. I'm open to exploring but seriously nervous about it, being that I've never been with another guy before.

What are the rules here? Idea of touching a mates hard cocks is weird but also i'm excited about it.

Would be great to hear other's experiences of what happened. How did you feel?

Bob, Bristol, UK.

There are no rules, you set the boundaries

I’ve had plenty of mmf threesomes where there’s no contact between the guys, all focussed on the woman.

min order to max out the experiance everyone has to be on the same page, I’ve done threesomes with other guys where they’ve freaked out because my cum has hit them when I’ve fired or switching round on the bed my dicks brushed them… that for me kills the vibe, there’s nothing sexual in those moments between me and him it’s just cross fire and the gymnastics of having three people on a bed

I also prefer my sex organis and in the moment, so I don’t wanna be thinking about having a discussion of who is going where, do I have to be super careful because of c or y… get that all out the way whikst you have a beer before hand

 

[AceWilde]

On our mmfs, my girlfriend I have one rule. The second dude has to be bi or at least bi curious. That last thing I want is the other guy suddenly freaking out because he's getting too close to my hard cock.
Some of the hottest mmf positions have a definite bi component. Dp is an obvious one — our two cocks rubbing together while we're both inside my gf. And my best buddy loves to lower himself onto my hard cock until I'm balls deep inside him and then having Cindy suck him off. I love doing it too — getting intense pleasure in both places sends a dude over the moon.

Man, you're exactly the kind of couple I'm trying to find! LOL I'm bi but even if there's no bi component I wanna be able to, like, move the bodies around if needed. Some guys freak if you even put a hand on their leg as you get into position, and those are the worst to have an MMF with.

 

[marc87jones]

anyone got any hot MMF videos to share?

 

[AussieScooter]

I’d LOVE to have a MMF session as my first experience with a guy. I fantasise about my wife saying I’ll only fuck you if you stroke his cock...then while im doing that she can see I’m getting hard and she’s like ‘I’ll only fuck you if you suck him off...’ and so on. Great fantasy

 

[cuckboy]

"Mmf" is the noise you make as you eat out your woman whilst I fuck you

I love that. Lol

 

[Tazman66]

An MMF threesome is probably my biggest fantasy. My wife and I have discussed it but it hasn't gone any further than that. Not sure if it ever will.

 

[incher8]

The only two times I had sex were in mfm situations. Both of us guys were comfortable with touching each other. It was awesome fucking his girl while stroking him. If you know what you’re uncomfortable with, let the other guy no. You don’t need to script out what you’re going to do, but setting boundaries will make it more enjoyable for everyone.

 

[deleted471226]

I didn’t know that. I just thought it was a fact of life that MFM and MMF were the same thing. Have had dozens of MFM.

Same here! I had no idea the arrangement of the letters made a difference. When did this get so technical??