I started a conversation with him back in the shower, and invited him to meet my wife, who was on campus elsewhere, with me. I think she decided to go for a run, I can't remember why she wasn't in the pool at that same time. He was interested and came over to the Student Union next door and joined us for a short visit. I came right out and told him we had been thinking about trying sex with a 3rd person and I think he even kind of beat me to the punch suggesting it as I was halfway into the sentence. He was so natural and thought nothing of it, it made the whole thing fun and harmless. We exchanged phone numbers and names and I never really thought we would see him again but it had been fun to meet him and have the funny experiences in the pool with the women glaring at him and how he was so uninhibited about walking right in with the more-than-half boner, etc.
About two weeks later he called us up and announced that he was going to come up and visit us for the weekend! He didn't ask, he just presumed. We lived four hours away in another major Midwestern city. He jumped on a Greyhound bus and was there on Friday evening... We took him to a movie on campus (we were also still on a campus, my wife is younger and was still a student) and when we got back to our apartment the fireworks began. He was wearing these cutoff shorts all raggy with several revealing holes in them, no underwear, huge balls and dick showing as he got easily more than half hard again. What surprised me was, I had NO interest in doing anything but seeing and sucking dick, but he was totally bi and so natural about it and assumed it was what we would do, so he launched right in to kissing both of us, alternating and together, all 3 of our heads interacting with one another, hands and mouths all over one another's bodies, etc. It felt amazing and fun and I was surprised I was able to enjoy it as much as I did, because I had not anticipated or fantasized about anything like that. We all orgasmed together that first time.
I found myself enjoying his whole body along with my wife's whole body as we explored and caressed and felt and kissed and etc. each other, I should say ONE ANOTHER, because it was totally a THREE way, equally for all 3 of us, very balanced and equal and fully shared and erotic and fun. And HOT! I actually found that this was the ONLY way I really enjoy sex and get lost in it! Whenever I tried being with just a man or just a woman, before or since, I always had a really hard time just losing myself and enjoying it thoroughly. I was always needing to do a lot of fantasizing along with the reality sex. I think the way I felt with both a male and a female partner simultaneously is probably the way MOST people feel with just one partner of the gender of their choice!
We got together with him several more weekends but it kind of fizzled when he got the most rancid flatulence I ever smelled and had a really BAD case of it... kind of funny in retrospect but not at the time. He also did a few things that made it clear we would never be compatible outside of the bedroom, including suddenly going very "bitchy" on us with his attitude, which was weird and I had no need for that kind of crap, and I just decided, this is not going to work. (We had been hoping to lead up to an actual bigamous kind of "marriage" of all 3 before that.) He also hated the city we lived in and we felt we were stuck there for some years to come. So I gently told him this isn't goint to work as hoped, and we ended the relationship after a little more distant occasional nonsexual friendly contact.
The other male we tried 3ways with was married, I was now 35 years old and felt it was my last chance to get the experience I wanted under my belt. I actually ran an ad in a swingers magazine and got mostly awful replies but there was one polaroid photo and note from this guy and he was a sweet, endearing bisexual man 27 years old and had a really nice hot thick cock, 7 inches (I measured once). On LPSG, everyone acts like seven inches is small, but in reality it is VERY hard to find anything even that big in real life, or especially was back then before the internet... Anyway, we tried a few times having 3ways with him and the first time or two were like "beautiful music together" where we were all 3 very gracefully interacting like with the farm boy above, but by the third get together it was getting super boring and he was not as hygienic as he had been at first. The get-togethers were too far spread out, too, so it was impossible to get into the feeling of being with him. Initially he wanted to swing, have me be with his wife and he with mine, but his wife was a total turn-off, not a good body, not attractive, and laid there like a limp rag.