More married men than ever

[x911xxx]

A little about me to get started...bi, masculine, bottom here. I don't hook up a lot but like to dabble every now and then. I'm noticing a pattern of more married men than ever wanting to bang and I'm wondering if others are experiencing the same thing.

My last couple of hookups were with married men(save me your judgement) and I have a couple more that are interested. They're not shy about it either. They are very much into the male booty to put it bluntly.

It's obviously getting more acceptable. Anyone else experiencing this?

 

[MNpervert]

Yes over the years I would say my hookups went from 10% married to almost 80% I think just with the exposure on the internet and being able to find so many others in their situation guys are coming out more and more.

 

[kappsguy]

I was reading a forum several years ago, and an older British woman commented (paraphrasing) 'As my husband grew older, he started turning gay, as men do'
Which got me to thinking about how many married men are bi, but only act on it later in life? Maybe when their wives start to lose interest in sex, and now with smarts phones it's easy to find a NSA hookup.

 

[edonline]

I have so many buddies and FWBs who are/were married. Some were gay but married women, others were bi while there were a few who were either curious or simply didn't categorize themselves. Seems like in LA/SoCal there a lot of guys who play both sides of the fence as it were.

 

[AlextheRedhead]

Walk into any adult theater and you will see many married men

 

[Blondeblowjob7]

As a male cocksucker, I would say that the strong majority of men I've given blowjobs to over the years were men married to women. Men have told me that they like coming to me to receive blowjobs from me, because I'm very comfortable with the fact that I'm a slutty male cocksucker and cum lover. I absolutely love and adore everything about being a male cocksucker cum slut! Giving blowjobs is genuinely my favorite type of sex by far! My feeders have told me that when I'm bobbing my head up and down their cock it's very obvious to them just how much I love to suck dick.

I'm willing and very happy to do things when I'm giving head that their wife or girlfriend won't let them do. My feeders love the fact that I genuinely enjoy getting my face fucked balls deep. My feeders love the fact that I'm a cocksucker who would much rather suck dick than receive a blowjob. So unlike their wife or girlfriend, I don't expect anything in return when I'm giving a blowjob, except for having my head shoved down a nice cock balls deep. My feeders love the fact that I'm slutty cum lover who will do all sorts of slutty things with cum as a male cocksucker that their wife or girlfriend wouldn't do to them in a million years.

 

[krazioso13]

Just my humble opinion. A majority of my fun are with str8 guys with fiance/baby mama or well, as you stated, married men. the one thing ive noticed that its a mixture of things. in my opinion the younger ones are more likely bi and getting brave to try out the fun when they encounter someone they deem discreet/chill. for the older guys, i think its them exploring new things and/or finally being able to do so without a worry.

one extra opinion i have is, there's legit straight married men who dabble with guys outta some sort of desperation. they dont want to deal with women for sake of money and possible time wasted if nothing happens. sometimes i could really feel/see the gloomy feeling or appreciation/eagerness for a good orgasm thats nsa like it never happened

 

[bravesoldier]

Yes, huge discovery for me, I had no idea of how many guys are bi and gay on the down low and living secret gay lives. I never did a thing way back in the day, not one tiny thing with a guy, but was ostracized and labeled gay. I wasn't feminine or anything, but there were other aspects to me (I guess) that set me apart and you better believe I took hell during a different time in my life. But since I started playing, I'm dumbfounded at the guys who do all kinds of secretive things to get cock, get their asses fucked.

Seems I have heard some say there are more gays today than ever, but I have always believed there were just as many, only difference now is things are just a lot more relaxed. Many still not out but playing, loving it and married men seem to be in the high percentages.

Where I am men use hunting camps a lot to get gay sex.

 

[wslover]

Yes, huge discovery for me, I had no idea of how many guys are bi and gay on the down low and living secret gay lives. I never did a thing way back in the day, not one tiny thing with a guy, but was ostracized and labeled gay. I wasn't feminine or anything, but there were other aspects to me (I guess) that set me apart and you better believe I took hell during a different time in my life. But since I started playing, I'm dumbfounded at the guys who do all kinds of secretive things to get cock, get their asses fucked.

Seems I have heard some say there are more gays today than ever, but I have always believed there were just as many, only difference now is things are just a lot more relaxed. Many still not out but playing, loving it and married men seem to be in the high percentages.

Where I am men use hunting camps a lot to get gay sex.

So....you're saying I should take up hunting? Or at least the pretense of hunting?

I hear you about growing up knowing I was gay but too scared to do anything, but the label was there. Looking back, I think maybe I should have taken more chances - especially when so many straight-presenting guys seemed to be all into it based on everything I read here at LPSG.

 

[edonline]

So....you're saying I should take up hunting? Or at least the pretense of hunting?

I don't know about hunting but I can't tell you the number of camping trips with straight married guys which ended up with me sharing a sleeping bag with someone else - and both of us just happening to be naked.

 

[GottaLuvBB]

I am 58. Bisexual. Bottom sexually with men and Chubby. Married / divorced / played with a Swinger Couple for 2 years (discovered sucking and bottoming) then remarried. I quit all thing Bi after I got remarried but she was aware of that part of my life. @7 years ago my current wife and I quit sex altogether. We are very happy in our life, but I was left with a huge need and no avenue to fill it.

Then I discovered the gay/bi hookup apps. Well, that changes everything. I went for a 1:1 hookup routine with a gay top. That moved into having 12+ regulars in Orlando and trying to service them all as often as I can fit it in ( I have some VERY busy weeks). I travel regularly to Dallas and Las Vegas and have a few regulars there as well.

The local Men's Bathhouse is also a GREAT way to find fun with guys looking for the same thing.

50% are Bi men married to women. For the other gay 50% it is 1/2-1/2 single or married. I guess as mentioned by some above, I'm a "Safe Space" for them all. I don't want anything Long Term. Just fun/nsa/sex.

Some of the married guys began bringing their wives lingerie asking me to wear it when we played. That I found was a huge turn on for me as well. I've since purchased some items that are "for men" and now have more and more of the Bi and Gay guys asking me to wear it for them as well. I'm NOT a CD. I only wear the outfits when I'm alone and maybe recording/shooting pics for the various sites I post on, or when a guy says "hey, can you be in that red outfit I saw you wearing in a pic".

1st and foremost. Get TESTED and get on PreP, and ideally DoxyPreP. Although your partners may all seem like decent/regular guys, you don't know who else they are playing with.

I think in todays world sex is far more accepted, and sexual preferences are far more expanded. It is not M/F / MM / FF any longer. The door is open for mixing things up and trying something new. Especially for the 25-45 year old crowds. Us "older" guys face issues with our friends/family being very set in their ways. That is unfortunate, but a fact of life. Who knows what it will be like in 20 years when most of us are dead and gone and the 40yo are now 60yo and still playing in mixed company.