I'm not a bodybuilder per se, but have been lifting weights for over 25 yrs. Im 42 now. I have the powerlifter/football player/musclebear look at 5'10" 260lbs. Def no six pack cuz i like my food n beer lol. I however have had phases where I cut down to 180-200 and got lean. I do find women liked it a lil better when youre more toned, especially young chicks 18-22. But on the flipside in general being big beefy and muscular has def helped me get laid a lot. And now I'm doing webcams so this look definitely helps me with the gay/bi guys audience
In terms of other guys, the only part of a male that attracts me is a big cock. he can be tall, skinny fat short white black spanish, etc doesnt matter. I only look at the cock. However, its always cool to meet a fellow gym buddy that likes to meet up n workout n then go back to the house and have some fun, its like a good bonus friendship.