Mutual Masterbation And Mental Health

[PorknBeans19]

Hey All,
Just curious, does anyone think or have any experience with group masterbation, with a best friend maybe or something like that? Straight, gay or bi? Doesnt matter.

I've been going through a rough few years mental health wise. As a result I am taking antidepressants, etc. In the last year or so, my libido kinda dropped. I can get hard, but trying to climax is just ridiculously impossible for me. I know I need to jerk off and relieve some stress. But it's just insanely difficult everytime.

I read a few posts on different forums about people who have masturbated, in the company of others. Best friends, college room mates and such. I was curious to know if it would help? I also heard it's a great way to bond between friends and really get to know another person.

I am gay. And I have a best friend who I trust wholeheartedly and love like a brother. He's a straight guy. We talk about everything. We play video games together, talk about sex, experiences and what not. We've gotten changed around each other many times in gym locker rooms, etc. He is aware of my situation with mental health. And that I've been having problems achieving climax.

I was thinking of asking him would he be open to jerking off together. No touching or any kind of intimacy. Just two guys beating their meat together watching porn. I'd even watch straight porn and just watch the guy. He can even cover up with a blanket and I can do the same if he wants. He knows I'm gay and he says he's fine with that and comfortable about his sexuality which is why we can discuss anything. But I also at the same time dont want to ruin anything between us or for him get the wrong idea and make him think I'm trying to lead him on. And it terrifies me to think I might lose him. I'd appreciate anyones thoughts on this.

Please try not to be rude. This is not a gay fantasy I'm trying to question. Theres no question of labels here. Just a query from myself to those who have had this experience Any rude comments will be reported and blocked.

 

[Hairylegs]

Your issue isn't "mental", it's chemical. The mainstream antidepressants, the SSRIs, tend to turn off the ejaculatory reflex. They are great drugs to treat premature ejaculators for that reason, but when you want and need to shoot, it can be very rough. I urge you to talk to your DOCTOR or psychiatrist, explain the sexual problem, and ask if drugs can be changed, doses altered, or possibly even skipping an occasional dose so that you can perform the natural or unnatural act. As for wanking with your best straight friend, I counsel against it. It can be taken the wrong way, and if he is married or has a girl friend, you could very well put an end to it. If he were to broach the subject, well that's something else, but straight friends and active gay sex, you are playing with a live bomb. Best of luck to you, and like I said, CALL YOUR DOCTOR!

 

[Lynx]

Thanks for sharing your story. I would suggest joining us here tomorrow for our Zoom session, there you can jerk with all of us or just watch. I would suggest not bringing up the masturbation idea with your friend, it will most likely not go well and youll risk the entire friendship.

 

[PorknBeans19]

Thanks for the comments guys. I appreciate it. I've changed medication multiple times already. Previous medications and moods I wasnt even able to get hard without viagra and then found it hard to finish.
Finally settled on this current medication which has dealt with the issue of getting hard. But still not able to finish.

Regarding my friend, I was talking to him today. Was feeling pretty low in myself and we talked for a good while. He said I can always talk to him and ask him stuff and he'll never be offended. But if he does feel uncomfortable about something, he'll tell me and we wont make a big deal about it.

Hes currently abroad in Asia and has been for the last few years but hes hoping to be home later this year and said we can go on a trip for a few days together. Catch up and if I need to talk to him about anything or ask him anything, he has no problem with it. We've always been there for each other even though he's abroad, even if he has issues, I'd call him or talk to him on a party chat on console just between the two of us. So regarding asking him or bringing up that subject, I dont think I'll have that issue anymore.

But I would like to know if anyone else has had group experiences where things like this have helped? Thanks.

Thanks for sharing your story. I would suggest joining us here tomorrow for our Zoom session, there you can jerk with all of us or just watch. I would suggest not bringing up the masturbation idea with your friend, it will most likely not go well and youll risk the entire friendship.

Thanks for the offer of the zoom chat group session. I appreciate it but that's not something I'm into. Thanks though