Mutual Masturbation

[gaydude45]

Good evening Fellas,

Let's lay out all the cards on the table. Some of you engage in this for the sake of physical attraction, for others it may just be an idle bonding experience, and for the rest it may be a little bit of both.

Regardless, most of us have masturbated with another man at one point or another, regardless of our sexual preference. Take your selection in the poll, and let's discuss it.

For those who continue to regularly engage in mutual masturbation, please give a detailed reply, imcluding how you voted, and what the circumstances are that allow this to go on.

Happy New Year!

 

[Trekrider]

Mutual masturbation is how I achieve orgasm with men. I'm gay and have no interest in penetrative sex; something very rare in the gay world.

 

[BubbyGorf]

I voted yes and I am gay.

I’ve engaged in mutual masturbation probably over a hundred times with boyfriends and most of those times it was spur of the moment which always made it more fun.

I’ve also done it a few times with guys I wasn’t dating but those were few and far between. One of those experiences I can’t mention here so PM me for those details if you’d like.

 

[slick9876]

did it once quite a few years back and recently began looking for a stroke bud once again. met the guy online (craigslist) and he was around my age and divorced, we messaged a few times then met in public and headed to his place. small talk for a bit, nerves and all, then threw on some porn to get things going and things got serious quickly lol. clothes came off and we sat on the couch stroking ourselves before lending each other a helping hand. he wanted to go down on me at that point but I put the brakes on that as I was just looking to jo. it was pretty cool stroking each other off and we eventually helped each other to a nice hard cum. hoping to find a similar situation once again but doublelist is mostly unreliable. if you've got a recommendation for a site that helps mostly straight buy openminded guys find a jo buddy I'd be interested! sometimes even us hetero-flexible guys need a little cock time, lol.

 

[Ivor_Biggun]

I've done it with boyfriends, neighbours, landlords and flatmates... ;-)

 

[chrisrobin]

One of the joys of life enjoyed in so many different locations, cars, and and trucks spring to mind

 

[gaydude45]

I've done it with boyfriends, neighbours, landlords and flatmates... ;-)

Do go on! Tell your favorite tale.

 

[gaydude45]

One of the joys of life enjoyed in so many different locations, cars, and and trucks spring to mind

Tell your favorite tale, my good man.

 

[Ivor_Biggun]

I remember being in my bedroom with my boyfriend, my landlord was upstairs, and my flatmate and his boyfriend were in their room. It suddenly dawned on me that I had cum with every single one of them and that was such a horny realisation!

 

[gaydude45]

I remember being in my bedroom with my boyfriend, my landlord was upstairs, and my flatmate and his boyfriend were in their room. It suddenly dawned on me that I had cum with every single one of them and that was such a horny realisation!

Woof, nice. So they were jerking and banging?

 

[Ivor_Biggun]

We all were at various times ;-)

 

[justaguy5000]

Forgive the stupid question, but are we talking about jacking off with other guys or getting jacked off by other guys?

 

[gaydude45]

Forgive the stupid question, but are we talking about jacking off with other guys or getting jacked off by other guys?

With, meaning in the general presence of.

 

[ronin001]

I will answer the OP with detail


N > > O >> P>>E

 

[mushroomcap]

My ex gf and I used to masturbate together. She’d stay over and I’d wake up to find her playing with herself in the morning. At first, I’d take over and we’d have sex. But eventually, I’d just watch and jerk off next to her. And that progressed to either of us playing with ourselves whenever the need arose. While we were dating, I’d attend all male sex parties occasionally and she liked hearing about what went on which always got her started on playing with her pussy. There was lots of masturbating going on at those parties. There could be anywhere from 5 to 15 guys in a hotel suite all nude, engaged in some type of sex, from jerking to fucking. But everyone would try to hold off on cumming because we all wanted to stay hard for as long as possible. Great times and even better was being able to share the stories with my gf.

 

[Sagittarius84]

I'll do you one better, I don't really like to be in the same spaces with men where it's highly likely erections will happen. Haven't gone to a strip club with a guy since my early 20s, and I have always refused to watch porn with other guys. Don't have a desire to be in another man's sexual space, so to speak, and I will not tolerate another man in my sexual space.

 

[Batorlew32]

I'll do you one better, I don't really like to be in the same spaces with men where it's highly likely erections will happen. Haven't gone to a strip club with a guy since my early 20s, and I have always refused to watch porn with other guys. Don't have a desire to be in another man's sexual space, so to speak, and I will not tolerate another man in my sexual space.

So if you’re not interested in mutual masturbation or being anywhere near another guy then how do you satisfy your sexual desires with another man?

 

[ronin001]

So if you’re not interested in mutual masturbation or being anywhere near another guy then how do you satisfy your sexual desires with another man?

I think the poster before you was referencing that , he has straight

 

[techpump]

I do with my wife. We do it during foreplay in the lead up to sex. Sometimes we'll do it together if we aren't going to fuck, but that's rare. She usually wants to fuck once we start touching ourselves in each others' company! We'll plan to play with ourselves together and then she usually gets so hot wet and swollen that she needs me inside of her

I've never done it with a guy before. Never thought of doing it, don't see the need or want to do it, never have. I think my friends growing up probably did, but I was never a part of that.

 

[Sagittarius84]

So if you’re not interested in mutual masturbation or being anywhere near another guy then how do you satisfy your sexual desires with another man?

The same way I would go about fulfilling my hunger with dung; I don't, and I seek nourishment from appropriate sources. There's nothing a man can offer me sexually beyond a violation of my autonomy and consent, which should be par for the course for any man that identifies as straight. I think the issue is a lot of men utilize the plausible deniability their aversion to homoromanticsm provides to claim being "straight" when they're really bisexual and hetero romantic....
Which tends to give other non straight men the idea(and hope) that straight men's sexuality is accessible via covert means, i.e., satisfying sexual desires with another man somehow .