Hi everyone. I introduce myself . My name is Rosa and i'm italian. Six months ago for fun I downloaded grindr with a friend (the gay dating app). There I wrote to a man and told him I was a girl. He immediately told me he was bisexual and wanted to go out with me. We started dating but he never tried to kiss me or anything. A month has passed while he kept using gay dating apps and after giving me my first innocent kiss he confided to me that I was his first girlfriend in 34 years of life.
He told me he had two relationships with two men that tragically died, the both of them.
We kept dating, and he kept using gay dating apps ( sending is bottom pics to everyone there, he is a bottom) .
I told him that i didn't want an open relationship and that i wanted him to stop using the apps. He didn't seem to want to go further with me or be intimate. Anyway we continued dating and he became my boyfriend. We started to make love.at first once a week...then once a month and then nothing. I found him on the gay dating apps again sending pics.. i forgave him thousands of times. Then his lack of desire for me became a problem. I talked to him about that and he told me he is not that kind of person that needs sex, that he is in love with me and that is love, not sex. That he had a lot of sex with men ...but for fun, with me is different, is love! He told me i am obsessed about making love and i am not normal.
He told me that the fact that his boyfriends died was a lie. He told me he's been sexually abused by a man ( i think is a lie too) he told me he never really cheated on me but only on the apps. (In the apps he kept asking for places where to meet. And he used every kind of gay dating apps or site, never caught him searching for women) So..i asked him.. are you sure you are bisexual? And he replied..yes because I'm in love with you and i can't explain that. So ..it is possible?? To be bisexual and to don't want intimacy with the person you love and keep looking for men ?? I feel humiliated, sad and angry..and i don't know what to think. I hope someone has some suggestions. Thank you for reading.. bye everybody !!
He told me he had two relationships with two men that tragically died, the both of them.
We kept dating, and he kept using gay dating apps ( sending is bottom pics to everyone there, he is a bottom) .
I told him that i didn't want an open relationship and that i wanted him to stop using the apps. He didn't seem to want to go further with me or be intimate. Anyway we continued dating and he became my boyfriend. We started to make love.at first once a week...then once a month and then nothing. I found him on the gay dating apps again sending pics.. i forgave him thousands of times. Then his lack of desire for me became a problem. I talked to him about that and he told me he is not that kind of person that needs sex, that he is in love with me and that is love, not sex. That he had a lot of sex with men ...but for fun, with me is different, is love! He told me i am obsessed about making love and i am not normal.
He told me that the fact that his boyfriends died was a lie. He told me he's been sexually abused by a man ( i think is a lie too) he told me he never really cheated on me but only on the apps. (In the apps he kept asking for places where to meet. And he used every kind of gay dating apps or site, never caught him searching for women) So..i asked him.. are you sure you are bisexual? And he replied..yes because I'm in love with you and i can't explain that. So ..it is possible?? To be bisexual and to don't want intimacy with the person you love and keep looking for men ?? I feel humiliated, sad and angry..and i don't know what to think. I hope someone has some suggestions. Thank you for reading.. bye everybody !!
