My Brother Wears Sweatpants With No Underwear

[7218031]

Hi Guys,

I live with my mum and dad and 3 brothers, one of my brothers always wears sweatpants with no underwear. Even if we are going out, I can see the full definition of his cock.

I’m gay but not out but also want to tell him that I can see his dick, but don’t want him to think why is he looking.

anyone else had or have this problem?

cheers

 

[ronin001]

What does being Gay, have to do with a sibling telling another sibling, there may ne a problem with their outfit

 

[Peter Wood]

Don't make it a problem.
He likes to dress that way and he accepts that others can see the full definition of his dick. Maybe he wants others to see his dick.

I can understand that it's difficult for you not to look at his crotch. Does it make you uncertain because you're a not-outed gay? By the way, what's your age and what's your brothers?
You never see each other in the nude?

 

[7218031]

That’s what I was thinking, but why would he want me to stare at it? Obviously he’s my brother but if anyone’s bulge was on show you’d look at it.

I’m 20 and he’s 18 and I’ve seen his dick floppy after we had football training a few times and around the house, but that’s about it.

I wanted to ask my other brothers if they’ve noticed it but again I’m scared they’ll find out I’m gay.

 

[Peter Wood]

I would say: leave it.
Look away.
At his age your brother knows very well what he's doing.

Why are you afraid to come out? (Maybe I should have asked that in a private message.)

 

[1224298]

I feel like I might have some advice/ relate to what you’re talking about. Just Shoot me a private message if you wanna chat.

 

[Squirrel1]

That’s what I was thinking, but why would he want me to stare at it? Obviously he’s my brother but if anyone’s bulge was on show you’d look at it.

I’m 20 and he’s 18 and I’ve seen his dick floppy after we had football training a few times and around the house, but that’s about it.

I wanted to ask my other brothers if they’ve noticed it but again I’m scared they’ll find out I’m gay.

Pretend someone else told you and you felt he should know.

 

[BIGBULL29]

I couldn't even dream to go outside in sweatpants without underwear. I would be arrested. I just cannot go commando.

 

[coxslover]

I couldn't even dream to go outside in sweatpants without underwear. I would be arrested. I just cannot go commando.

Ha, that’s what you think. Sure you could, it just takes a different mind set. I’ve seen your pics big bull, very nice, but you wouldn’t get arrested for freeballing. If someone can see your dick shape through your clothes, that’s fine, it’s not obscene. I say, try it if you want, take small steps like around your house and yard, work up to the grocery store or gas station. Unless you just don’t want to, then don’t!

 

[teddybaerli1]

I don't see any problem. As long your brother loves to wear grey sweatpants without underwear- what is the problem?

 

[HorseHung40's]

This is his issue, not yours.

Don't stare. Look away demonstratively, if you have to do so.

Eventually, even you will tire of this.

 

[dreamer20]

I respect that whatever my brother, or any other fellow, wants to wear is his prerogative and not my problem.

 

[royboy361]

I have to agree with others. Let it go and let him find out for himself. Perhaps your Parents will mention it to him.
Having been in the military years ago I can sort of understand as I have had friends that sported pretty impressive bulges all the time and never said anything to them. One guy in particular with especially hung with a down the leg bulge. We were still friends but I never mentioned it as they were grown adults who obviously know they show bulges.

 

[ruggerkit28]

I always wear sweats commando, and yes, I know my bulge shows. No big deal.

 

[6948221]

He wears clothes. It is therefore not illegal.

Clothing is used to "camouflage" what we like less about our body and highlight what makes us feel beautiful.
We shouldn't shame people about their bodies. They are made as they are made.

Women enhance their breasts. And their buttocks. It is as if they were in fact obligated: all women's clothes sold are made to mold their body. Why can't men show their bodies under their clothes? Double standard?