Last night i experienced my first sexual act with a guy but i feel bad since i have a girlfriend. I can’t deny last night was the most intense pleasure I’ve ever had. Is it wise to tell my girl the truth or not?
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Why would you do that? It may be a one time thing - it maybe you are bi - you may find you are gay.
But there is no reason to tell someone (who might tell others) until you figure it out for yourself.
But there is no reason to tell someone (who might tell others) until you figure it out for yourself.
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Don't jump into making any big decisions yet. Maybe it was a one-off or maybe it's something you need to think over.
Take your time and work out what this means for you
Take your time and work out what this means for you
it depends on how understanding your girlfriend is. If you don't feel like she'd be understanding then you better not tell her.
I think you need to decide what that encounter means yourself first before you decide what to do about your girlfriend.
Either way, I wouldn't admit to what happened. Really, you should have come to a decision before stepping outside the relationship.
Either way, I wouldn't admit to what happened. Really, you should have come to a decision before stepping outside the relationship.
My first sexual years were with women. While I had no problems doing it, it pales into insignificance compared to the first time I put a dick in my mouth. It was like Christmas and the fourth of July going off in my brain all at once.
For me, my first gay experience was the first step in coming out to myself as being a gay man.
For me, my first gay experience was the first step in coming out to myself as being a gay man.
Give it some time, it will help you to understand if it is a one-off or there is something more there. Don't feel bad about it, but don't string her along either if you feel that you want to have sex with guys.
My girlfriend noticed I wasn't so into her after a couple of weeks and eventually I told her, she wasn't happy but we are still close
No. Mostly i think about girls kicking me in the nuts when im jerkin.
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Well, that took an unexpected turn.
While most on here say to wait and see if there's something before telling her, but I'm on the opposite side.
If you're feeling guilt about it with her, that shit is going to eat you up until you confess.
If you did anything risky with that guy, she should have a right to know.
My 2 cents.
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