Today was definitely an exciting day, guys! We worked out together for the whole time, and this gave me more opportunities to engage in conversation. I found out he’s a car enthusiast just like me, we talked a lot about it. He just bought his new BMW so he wouldn’t shut up about it, it was fun!

I tried to be a little bit more obvious while checking him out, just to see his reaction. For about 2 times he was talking to me and I was just agreeing while straight up looking at his crotch. He probably noticed, it was very obvious. Also, I got to check his ass from very up close while he was doing prone leg curls. He’s ass is amaaazing, oof! (I’m completely an ass guy)

After our workout, he had to leave without taking a shower. At first I found that weird and thought maybe the staring had been too much, but for my surprise he said we should workout together again tomorrow. He even asked what would be my workout program. I took the opportunity to ask for his number so I could text him and see what time we should meet tomorrow. Win!

So the bottom line, I had a lot of fun today! It was refreshing having a gym buddy and talking about stuff that I like with someone I admire. I feel like we can really be friends! Like a week ago, I would never thought this would happen!
 
Has he got a large cock?
I wouldn’t say large. I’d say he’s average for his body type (he’s sort of european/italian looking). What I really like about him tho are his balls, very big and low hangers.
 
I wouldn’t say large. I’d say he’s average for his body type (he’s sort of european/italian looking). What I really like about him tho are his balls, very big and low hangers.
Oh and also another thing that really gets me is that he doesn’t shave completely. He’s definitely not bushy, but also not smooth shaved.
 
Following.. while maybe nothing sexual comes from this all (though sounds like he’s a little bit curious?) I’d say don’t push things and enjoy having a friend that’s into the same stuff :)
I know! He’s a really nice guy, definitely someone I’d choose as a friend. And ppl may not agree with me but I find it normal to have a crush on a friend, cause this things usually go away.

On the other hand, sometimes I feel like he’s making moves just like I was in the beginning you know? And I’m a good looking guy I’d say, we share the same interests, so there’s no reason he wouldn’t push things if he was in fact interested.

Anyways. Human interactions can be quite confusing lol. I’ll see how things go, still not pushing too much as always.
 
Ended up working out for the entire time with him again today. He mentioned he drove his new car to the gym so I asked if I could have a look, and we ended up spending some time, probably like 20 min, talking outside the gym, that was really nice.

oh and one funny thing that it definitely worth mentioning, I decided to completely shave my chest and abs yesterday. Once I got naked and headed to the shower, I caught him staring at my body through the mirror. It was definitely not discreet lol. I was pretty hairy before so it made quite a difference in my overall look. He definitely noticed, and that felt nice! And I also saw him looking at another dude that was getting dressed at the same time as us. The locker room was kinda busy at the time, so it surprised me that he was staring so openly like that.
 
Ended up working out for the entire time with him again today. He mentioned he drove his new car to the gym so I asked if I could have a look, and we ended up spending some time, probably like 20 min, talking outside the gym, that was really nice.

oh and one funny thing that it definitely worth mentioning, I decided to completely shave my chest and abs yesterday. Once I got naked and headed to the shower, I caught him staring at my body through the mirror. It was definitely not discreet lol. I was pretty hairy before so it made quite a difference in my overall look. He definitely noticed, and that felt nice! And I also saw him looking at another dude that was getting dressed at the same time as us. The locker room was kinda busy at the time, so it surprised me that he was staring so openly like that.
Thought about wearing a jock or something provocative so when you strip down he’d have another thing to ponder??
 
The following is a post from last week, after a user asked for updates:

“So far I haven’t noticed anything different. He still shows up at the same time as me, and we’ve been naked in the locker room a few times by now, no embarrassment anymore by neither of us, at least is what I feel. It’s amazing how my confidence has built around him since the first time I saw him completely naked. Now I can even check him out while talking to him without blushing, even tho he is very very hot. And call me crazy, but sometimes I think he does the same. Maybe that’s my feelings talking idk lol. I’ll keep trying to know more and more about him, but it’s a bit hard for me. I’m not a very extrovert person.”

I'm glad that you overcame your embarrassment and had the confidence to talk to him. I wouldn't have followed the "play with your dick" in the shower/changing area of the gym suggestion, offered here, as that would be out of order/ inconsiderate of all of other people who have to come and go through that area IMO. I hope you can arrange to see him socially outside of the gym. Goodluck.
 
I'm glad that you overcame your embarrassment and had the confidence to talk to him. I wouldn't have followed the "play with your dick" in the shower/changing area of the gym suggestion, offered here, as that would be out of order/ inconsiderate of all of other people who have to come and go through that area IMO. I hope you can arrange to see him socially outside of the gym. Goodluck.
How is touching your own body behind the curtains of a shower stall, inconsiderate to others?
 
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does he knows that you're bi?
maybe it will give him the courage to talk about trying something if he's really curious
I really doubt he knows. I’m not a flamboyant kind of guy, many friends of mine have told me I give a very heterosexual vibe, so I’m not 100% sure he knows I’m also interested in men. I’m kind of hoping for an opportunity outside of the gym, maybe grabbing a beer with him or going to the beach, so we can talk more about ourselves naturally.