when are you supposed to meet him again in the gym?
He said he’s working out tomorrow. I’ll be doing some chores today so I’ll try and see if I can find some place to get a new jockstrap (the one I have is a little small since it’s been a while I used it)
 
Enjoy the flirting and the good energy this is giving you. You could be making a good friend regardless of the current 'crush' feeling you have. All guys like attention and believe me, he feels the energy you are emitting. He may not 'get it' that you have the crush, but he can feel the vibe that you are enjoying being around him at the gym.

Keep us posted. (following this one too)

Great thread man!
 
Member who suggested the jockstrap, you’re a genius!

So as I mentioned, we would workout together today. Everything went fine, we talked a lot while exercising. Then we went to the locker room. As we were undressing, I made sure I could see him through the mirror to get his reaction looking at my jockstrap. When I got a clear shot, I completely bent over (butt facing him) and removed my shorts. Then I pretended I was stretching for a bit, to stay longer in that bent position. My oh my, his reaction. He was definitely took by surprise. After that he didn’t talk much, but kept staring A LOT. He definitely liked the strap.

After showering, I asked what he’d be doing for the rest of the day, cause I was planning to go get some lunch in a restaurant. He unfortunately said he had plans. But we agreed to work out together tomorrow.

Bottom line. He is definitely curious, after today I have absolutely no doubt. Also, the way he checked my ass out felt really really good. I can’t stress how hot that men is. To have a men who I admire and have a massive crush looking at me like that was amazing. It’s been so long since I felt like this, I have to be honest. I already busted 2 times today just reliving the situation.
 
Are you openly gay?
No. And I’ve mentioned this before, my friends who know I’m bi say I give a very straight vibe for the most part. I grew up with a very macho/conservative dad and uncle, so I kinda learned to be like them.
 
No. And I’ve mentioned this before, my friends who know I’m bi say I give a very straight vibe for the most part. I grew up with a very macho/conservative dad and uncle, so I kinda learned to be like them.
But wearing a jockstrap isn't the same as being openly gay? I thought it was, my bad.
 
But wearing a jockstrap isn't the same as being openly gay? I thought it was, my bad.
Not at all, ppl still use jockstraps, not just gay men. It’s mostly used by someone who’s an athlete and practice sports. I remember back in high school it was pretty common, to be honest. Even the coach used to wear them sometimes.

I’m aware that ppl may think wearing a jockstrap it’s mostly a gay thing, and in this case that’s what I aimed for. I wanted him to be surprised and intrigued. And it worked lol
 
Is there any hope we see you in a picture together ? I am curious haha
I would really like to show you all how hot he is, but I can’t expose him and myself like that, unfortunately. At least not at moment.
 
Member who suggested the jockstrap, you’re a genius!

So as I mentioned, we would workout together today. Everything went fine, we talked a lot while exercising. Then we went to the locker room. As we were undressing, I made sure I could see him through the mirror to get his reaction looking at my jockstrap. When I got a clear shot, I completely bent over (butt facing him) and removed my shorts. Then I pretended I was stretching for a bit, to stay longer in that bent position. My oh my, his reaction. He was definitely took by surprise. After that he didn’t talk much, but kept staring A LOT. He definitely liked the strap.

After showering, I asked what he’d be doing for the rest of the day, cause I was planning to go get some lunch in a restaurant. He unfortunately said he had plans. But we agreed to work out together tomorrow.

Bottom line. He is definitely curious, after today I have absolutely no doubt. Also, the way he checked my ass out felt really really good. I can’t stress how hot that men is. To have a men who I admire and have a massive crush looking at me like that was amazing. It’s been so long since I felt like this, I have to be honest. I already busted 2 times today just reliving the situation.
You’re welcome!! Lol
 
I feel like something nice is about to happen!

So today was finally the day I started to see him making clearer moves. I got to the gym a bit later than him, and as I left the locker room to drop my stuff, I saw him hanging out with 2 of his gym buddies. As I was walking towards the group, he saw me and I could tell his face changed instantly. He had this smile that could make me do anything he’d ask me to lol. I politely greeted his buddies with a fist bump, and as I was turning to do the same with him, he kinda gave me this semi hug with one of his arms, and to my surprise he gave me a quick slap on the butt. My oh my. I still don’t know how I kept it cool, that was really hot. My heart raced so much I felt I was having a heart attack lol. I did my best to act like nothing special had happened, and focused all my strength not to get a boner.

After that we started working out and one of his buddies had a few similar exercises on his program, so the guy hanged with us for the most part. While we were talking, my crush mentioned he got a new set of tires for his BMW, and then he started to tell the guy some of the stuff we have been discussing about a few upgrades I’ve been doing on my car. I found that really nice. He remembered a lot of details I told him, like he was really paying attention to our conversations.

Once we finished our workout, I realized his buddy would probably be with us at the same time in the locker rooms, so I stalled for a bit, saying I’d want to do some cardio. Luckily his friend wasn’t in the mood, so he went ahead to the locker room, and my crush stayed with me.

After we were finished, we hit the locker room. I was wearing a jockstrap today too, and once again, he kept staring. A lot. Maybe butts are his thing too. While we were walking towards the shower, he didn’t wear his towel. That was a first, and it was really hot. During showers he made sure we kept talking all the time, and as usual, curtains fully opened. I caught a few glimpses of him staring at my junk. I stared a lot too, no fucks given.

As we were leaving, I was about to ask him again if he had plans for the night. But to my surprise he told me tomorrow is going to be his day off, so he asked if I wanted to grab a beer. I obviously said heck yes.

So I have this gut feeling something is going to happen tomorrow. There were some very clear signs he’s making a move. The way he greeted me, the slap on the butt, him practically asking me on a date. I’m very nervous lol, cause my last relationship was with my ex-girlfriend and it lasted almost 2 years, so its been a while since I’ve been with a guy.

I’d appreciate any suggestions and encouragement you guys could give me, cause I don’t want to mess this up! Also, please wish me luck!
 
I feel like something nice is about to happen!

So today was finally the day I started to see him making clearer moves. I got to the gym a bit later than him, and as I left the locker room to drop my stuff, I saw him hanging out with 2 of his gym buddies. As I was walking towards the group, he saw me and I could tell his face changed instantly. He had this smile that could make me do anything he’d ask me to lol. I politely greeted his buddies with a fist bump, and as I was turning to do the same with him, he kinda gave me this semi hug with one of his arms, and to my surprise he gave me a quick slap on the butt. My oh my. I still don’t know how I kept it cool, that was really hot. My heart raced so much I felt I was having a heart attack lol. I did my best to act like nothing special had happened, and focused all my strength not to get a boner.

After that we started working out and one of his buddies had a few similar exercises on his program, so the guy hanged with us for the most part. While we were talking, my crush mentioned he got a new set of tires for his BMW, and then he started to tell the guy some of the stuff we have been discussing about a few upgrades I’ve been doing on my car. I found that really nice. He remembered a lot of details I told him, like he was really paying attention to our conversations.

Once we finished our workout, I realized his buddy would probably be with us at the same time in the locker rooms, so I stalled for a bit, saying I’d want to do some cardio. Luckily his friend wasn’t in the mood, so he went ahead to the locker room, and my crush stayed with me.

After we were finished, we hit the locker room. I was wearing a jockstrap today too, and once again, he kept staring. A lot. Maybe butts are his thing too. While we were walking towards the shower, he didn’t wear his towel. That was a first, and it was really hot. During showers he made sure we kept talking all the time, and as usual, curtains fully opened. I caught a few glimpses of him staring at my junk. I stared a lot too, no fucks given.

As we were leaving, I was about to ask him again if he had plans for the night. But to my surprise he told me tomorrow is going to be his day off, so he asked if I wanted to grab a beer. I obviously said heck yes.

So I have this gut feeling something is going to happen tomorrow. There were some very clear signs he’s making a move. The way he greeted me, the slap on the butt, him practically asking me on a date. I’m very nervous lol, cause my last relationship was with my ex-girlfriend and it lasted almost 2 years, so its been a while since I’ve been with a guy.

I’d appreciate any suggestions and encouragement you guys could give me, cause I don’t want to mess this up! Also, please wish me luck!
Ah that sounds nice!, just make sure it’ll be just the two of you having beers, because if he’s planning to hang out with his buddies, that may not end up the way you’re envisioning. Maybe make a suggestion for a good place to have a drink and intimate conversation.
 
Ah that sounds nice!, just make sure it’ll be just the two of you having beers, because if he’s planning to hang out with his buddies, that may not end up the way you’re envisioning. Maybe make a suggestion for a good place to have a drink and intimate conversation.
Good idea! I just texted him the address of this place I had in mind, told him that’s a very cozy bar, let’s see if he can take the hint. But I’m pretty sure it’s going to be just the 2 of us. I remember he literally asked “wanna grab a beer with me?”