my str8 gym crush is “killing me”

[HunkReinolds]

I’m so glad I didn’t mention the thread, tysm for the advice, guys! Now I can think clearly, it made so much sense not to show him this. At least not rn. It could definitely freak him out.

soooooo I’ll just update you on what happened last night and what we’ve talked about since the last post.

To answer a few of your questions, yesterday when we first hooked up in the parking lot, it was kinda clunky and all over the place, since we were so horny and waiting so much for that moment. It’s important to mention we were in a public place, even tho no one else was there. But yeah, I blew him and later jerked him off, both times he came very intensely, but he didn’t do anything to me at that moment. That’s why we decided to meet up and spend the night, it had to be done yesterday!

he got here by the end of the night. He was so fucking handsome, all dressed up in black, his hair looked amazing, it was all so good! From the moment I closed the door, we simply couldn’t keep our hands off each other. We started hardcore making out, (he’s a very good kisser). After a few minutes, I can only remember we had moved to the couch and were both shirtless, and I started undoing his pants. Then he just stopped me and said he was feeling a bit anxious about what was going to happen.

I knew what the problem was. He had never been a bottom. I asked him and he confirmed, and I could see in his eyes he was worried about my reaction. That moment was incredible. Not only because I felt he was very honest with me, but also I could see his eyes from a very up close. I felt he just wanted that to be an amazing experience for us. I asked him if he had been with a guy, like ever. He told me it had happened a really long time ago, while he was in college. Basically he fucked a guy once at a drunken party and that was it. He told me he was experiencing and after all, he realized hooking up with men didn’t make sense for him at that moment.

me myself, I definitely wouldn’t label me as a bottom. From my last experience with a guy, I actually didn’t do it that many times, I was usually the top. So I told him it was absolutely no pressure. I knew what he was feeling, I’ve been there (side note, Idk if that happens to every guy who at some point of their adult lives, realizes they are bisexual. But for me, it was very confusing and conflicting. At first I didn’t wanted to be fucked. I felt if I did, I would be less of a man. I guess that’s just the toxic masculinity in our society talking).

Anyways, I just wanted to be intimate with him, no matter what would happen. After that intense moment, we just continued to make out and I pulled down his pants and started to suck him. Blowjobs clearly are his thing, he moans a lot, it’s amazing. After a while I couldn’t help not to kiss him again, he had that beautiful horned up face, it was killing me! I ended up kissing and licking every inch of his chest, armpits and abs. Then I asked him to suck me and to my surprise he looked really eager to do that. OH MY. That moment will be imprinted on my mind forever. It was so fucking hot. I have this kind of sensitive spot in the back of the head of my dick, and he noticed that. Fuck me!

At some point I just stopped him and asked him to fuck me. long story short, it was so fucking good. He knew what he was doing. His expression, his body sweating and dripping all over me, the grunting and moaning. I don't think I’ll ever forget that. At some point I remember he kept whispering in my ear “I can’t believe I’m fucking you”. I completely lost myself then. After he came, he sucked to orgasm. I straight up think I convulsed for like a whole minute. It was very intense.

after we cooled down, all we could do for a few minutes was just laugh and smile at each other. It was really cute

(I’m gonna do another post cause this got a bit long)

 

[MarkyMark86]

Yay xD congrats...you getting laid today hehehehehe

 

[HunkReinolds]

After all the sex, we talked a lot about the flirting we did, and how it was for each one of us. You guys were right, he was going through the same things as me!! He told me he was very curious about how interested I seemed. he also said he noticed how I blushed when I first saw him naked in the locker room (he even remembered the boner lol). I told him I almost died when he first slapped me in the ass. Talking about all that stuff with him was very nice.

Then he started to tell me about his relationship with his wife, which by the way is his girlfriend. The are not officially married, they just wear a ring. He said it’s barely a relationship at this point. They havent had sex in a very long time, and he knows she’s having an affair. They just didn’t ended things yet because of their families, and how chaotic that would be. But he said this would probably happen soon.

anyways. He didn’t spend the night so we agreed to meet up at the gym in a few hours. And we’re probably gonna be together tonight. I’ll keep you guys posted!

 

[HunkReinolds]

Yay xD congrats...you getting laid today hehehehehe

Tysm! And Fuck yeah

 

[HunkReinolds]

Just got back from the gym, and how much fun was it today!

We met right outside the entrance of the gym, and he greeted me with this incredible hug that lasted a bit long. I could feel he breathed heavily while doing it, kind of like a relief. That was very nice!

The chemistry between us was incredible, like we were completely in sync. Everywhere I went, he went right next to me. At some point, we hanged with 2 of his workout buddies, and while we were all talking, he kept giving me this looks and smirking. That was so sexy! To think his friends had absolutely no clue what is going on between us, its so hot! I feel like this kind of mystery and chemistry only happen when I’m secretly hooking up with a guy. The rush, no one knowing about it, it’s so exciting! I don’t get that in my relationships with girls. That’s definitely a plus, Perks of being bi

As we were in the locker room undressing, the smirks and smiles got out of control, we couldn’t help it. We were completely checking each other out, and I could only remember what his body was capable of. that really turned me on. Too bad there was some other guys in the shower area, otherwise I would totally jerk off for him. But that’s ok, since we are meeting up again in a few hours.

today I kept thinking a lot over what he said last night about being a bottom, and what I could do to help him and gain his trust. I thought about maybe trying to play with his ass as we’re making out, or maybe rimming him, something like that. What do you guys think, any advice on what you would do in a situation like this? I really want to experience the other side, and for him to feel what I felt last night, but I definitely don’t want to pressure him. Online friends, help me!

 

[blackstud703]

Close your legs to married men. Shame on everybody in this thread who is encouraging the OP.

 

[Grapplr16]

This is an amazing thread. Thanks for sharing this incredible story. I’m captivated! Those who disagree with your actions don’t have to keep reading.

 

[dreamer20]

what he last said about being a bottom, what could I do to help and gain his trust. I thought maybe trying to play with his ass as we’re making out, or rimming him, something like that. What would you do in this situation? I really want for him to feel what I felt last night, but I definitely don’t want to pressure him. Online friends, help me!

You already have his trust. Simply keep communicating with one another. That's how you found you were compatible. Be an enthusiatic, sexually experienced teacher for your sexually inexperienced pupil. Tell, and show, your pupil the things that bring you sexual pleasure. Find out if he wants to try those things too - what interests him, what he fears, dislikes or might be unwilling to do. Relax and enjoy yourselves. I look forward to seeing the next update.

 

[sought]

I want to live something like that someday, but it's so hard. I used to flirt with my boss; he stared at my ass many times and said that I have a big one. However, I was always afraid to try something with him, so he got fired, and we haven't seen each other since then.

 

[HunkReinolds]

Last night was definitely one of the best nights of my life, for several reasons. He stayed over so we had plenty of time for us. And not just for sex, I felt he really wanted to spend some time with me. At some point after a few hours together, he just asked with the sweetest face ever “can I stay over?”. It was so cute lol

the sex. I can definitely say it was one of my top 5 experiences ever. We started as usual, making out a lot. He suggested we listened to this playlist of very sexy songs and oh my, that was genius! (Now that I got to listen to some of the songs again, they remind me so much of him and the amazing time we were having). I could notice he was a little bit more aggressive in his moves this time. while we were kissing, he kept hugging me very hard, and as his hands were sliding through my body, they were very heavy and strong. that was building me up like crazy. Also the heavily breathing was setting us on fire. To the point when we actually started fucking, we were completely soaked. He ended up fucking me from behind this time, and it was so much better for me. The feeling of his chest and torso touching my back, and he whispering some dirty talk to my ear, oh wow!

Side note, I’ve been trying to work on my prostate for a very long time, cause I’m fascinated about having a prostate orgasm, and I had never been able to. But last night I think it happened a little bit, cause what I felt while I was cumming wasn’t normal. My whole body took a hit it was crazy, and I was barely touching my cock. Idk, maybe I was so horned up to the point my orgasm felt stronger. Anyways, it was intense. Im so glad I didn’t bring the subject “wanna try to bottom?”, otherwise I would’ve probably missed that orgasm. Also, he noticed how my whole body was reacting and how it took me a few minutes to come back to earth. That gave me a great opportunity to mention how bottoming could be pleasurable. Who knows, maybe we can try it soon.

After the fooling around, we talked about a lot of stuff, I got to know him so much better. He told me about his family, his childhood, how he was raised. It was nice discovering all this stuff about him, I feel like our friendship got way stronger. Then we talked a lot about our situation. He asked me so many questions about my sexuality, how it was when I found out I was bi, how long has it been, he even asked me if I ever had sex with a guy and a girl at the same time. I guess he’s trying to figure some stuff out about himself, and being able to help him somehow is really cool.

He also told me about the day he realized he maybe wanted to try something with a guy again. It happened while he was in a club with his friends a few months ago, and he noticed this very good looking guy staring at him. It was funny cause he mentioned how back then he thought it was normal finding a guy attractive, but to quote his words “this guy was something else”. And the thought of such a handsome men being interested in him sparked something.

anyways. Waking up to him was incredible. This morning we also agreed to keep our thing casual and a secret (tbh being sneaky actually makes it way more interesting for me). Also this got me the opportunity to think that rn is not the best time for me to openly come out as bi, I definitely some stuff to figure out.

So today I ended up working a double shift so I had to skip gym, but we agreed to meet up tomorrow for our workout and maybe some beer after (we still haven’t got to the bar yet lol)

 

[HunkReinolds]

This is an amazing thread. Thanks for sharing this incredible story. I’m captivated! Those who disagree with your actions don’t have to keep reading.

I gotta say. This morning I felt incredibly discouraged to keep posting due to “a specific comment”. But then I got to think I’m not the only person in this situation, the guy I’m hooking up is a free adult men and is not being forced to do anything. Anyways, thanks for the support!

 

[HunkReinolds]

Last night was definitely one of the best nights of my life, for several reasons. He stayed over so we had plenty of time for us. And not just for sex, I felt he really wanted to spend some time with me. At some point after a few hours together, he just asked with the sweetest face ever “can I stay over?”. It was so cute lol

the sex. I can definitely say it was one of my top 5 experiences ever. We started as usual, making out a lot. He suggested we listened to this playlist of very sexy songs and oh my, that was genius! (Now that I got to listen to some of the songs again, they remind me so much of him and the amazing time we were having). I could notice he was a little bit more aggressive in his moves this time. while we were kissing, he kept hugging me very hard, and as his hands were sliding through my body, they were very heavy and strong. that was building me up like crazy. Also the heavily breathing was setting us on fire. To the point when we actually started fucking, we were completely soaked. He ended up fucking me from behind this time, and it was so much better for me. The feeling of his chest and torso touching my back, and he whispering some dirty talk to my ear, oh wow!

Side note, I’ve been trying to work on my prostate for a very long time, cause I’m fascinated about having a prostate orgasm, and I had never been able to. But last night I think it happened a little bit, cause what I felt while I was cumming wasn’t normal. My whole body took a hit it was crazy, and I was barely touching my cock. Idk, maybe I was so horned up to the point my orgasm felt stronger. Anyways, it was intense. Im so glad I didn’t bring the subject “wanna try to bottom?”, otherwise I would’ve probably missed that orgasm. Also, he noticed how my whole body was reacting and how it took me a few minutes to come back to earth. That gave me a great opportunity to mention how bottoming could be pleasurable. Who knows, maybe we can try it soon.

After the fooling around, we talked about a lot of stuff, I got to know him so much better. He told me about his family, his childhood, how he was raised. It was nice discovering all this stuff about him, I feel like our friendship got way stronger. Then we talked a lot about our situation. He asked me so many questions about my sexuality, how it was when I found out I was bi, how long has it been, he even asked me if I ever had sex with a guy and a girl at the same time. I guess he’s trying to figure some stuff out about himself, and being able to help him somehow is really cool.

He also told me about the day he realized he maybe wanted to try something with a guy again. It happened while he was in a club with his friends a few months ago, and he noticed this very good looking guy staring at him. It was funny cause he mentioned how back then he thought it was normal finding a guy attractive, but to quote his words “this guy was something else”. And the thought of such a handsome men being interested in him sparked something.

anyways. Waking up to him was incredible. This morning we also agreed to keep our thing casual and a secret (tbh being sneaky actually makes it way more interesting for me). Also this got me the opportunity to think that rn is not the best time for me to openly come out as bi, I definitely some stuff to figure out.

So today I ended up working a double shift so I had to skip gym, but we agreed to meet up tomorrow for our workout and maybe some beer after (we still haven’t got to the bar yet lol)

Talking more about the sexy playlist, there’s this specific song which I remember was so hot. Every time I listed to it now, it gets me lol

the song is “Sweat” by ZAYN.

 

[The_Quiet_One]

I gotta say. This morning I felt incredibly discouraged to keep posting due to “a specific comment”. But then I got to think I’m not the only person in this situation, the guy I’m hooking up is a free adult men and is not being forced to do anything. Anyways, thanks for the support!

You're not doing anything wrong in this thread, just ignore the bitter betties.

 

[tuabuela]

I gotta say. This morning I felt incredibly discouraged to keep posting due to “a specific comment”. But then I got to think I’m not the only person in this situation, the guy I’m hooking up is a free adult men and is not being forced to do anything. Anyways, thanks for the support!

That comment triggered me to write a response, but then I realized it’s so mean and judgmental that does not deserve any kind of acknowledgment. That person lives in a sad reality, where they browse sex/porn blogs AND hates on people who participate in them. Pathetic.

Anyway, do you think this thread is approaching its end? I keep feeling that now that you have figured out who your guy is and what he’s into, the original motive for writing this stuff has kinda faded away. I feel like from now on, you may want to live your relationship privately. Thoughts?

 

[HunkReinolds]

That comment triggered me to write a response, but then I realized it’s so mean and judgmental that does not deserve any kind of acknowledgment. That person lives in a sad reality, where they browse sex/porn blogs AND hates on people who participate in them. Pathetic.

Anyway, do you think this thread is approaching its end? I keep feeling that now that you have figured out who your guy is and what he’s into, the original motive for writing this stuff has kinda faded away. I feel like from now on, you may want to live your relationship privately. Thoughts?

Yes!! I felt the same thing today. I find every single moment I’m living with him extremely exciting, and sharing the beginning stages with you guys was incredible. I really appreciate the support from all of you! But now on I think I won’t keep posting that much about our intimacy, cause that can be kinda creepy and maybe not fair to him (He still doesn’t know about the thread and I legit think I’m not gonna bother him with it)

 

[The_Quiet_One]

Glad we could all share this experience with you.

 

[wikke1]

This is the most amazing thread!
Also, I'm living vicariously through you

 

[Subzero45]

I gotta say. This morning I felt incredibly discouraged to keep posting due to “a specific comment”. But then I got to think I’m not the only person in this situation, the guy I’m hooking up is a free adult men and is not being forced to do anything. Anyways, thanks for the support!

You are exactly right. People choose their own destiny. Some people have open marriages.

 

[ManlyMan62]

Truly a great journey from start to finish, thank you so much for sharing your wonderful experience.

 

[badgerfun]

Thanks for sharing! Enjoyed the story and best of luck moving forward!