My wife very clearly loves very big toys, but at times gets out of it mentally - advice?

[otherwise_door]

As a guy with a very average, on the thinner side cock, I LOVE it that my wife has gotten into large dildo play. It's the biggest turn on in the world for me. And the reason that it's a turn on is that she enjoys it - I wouldn't be turned on if she didn't. She really does get off on when I use them on her, but at times she gets turned off by the "plastic" experience - it takes her out of it.

In fact the other night she got totally turned off and asked me to stop. Then while I was in her, enjoying our sex, in the middle of it, she asked me to use the toy. Nothing could be more of a turn on. Nonetheless, I want to help her enjoy it.

Any thoughts on keeping her interested?

 

[MickeyLee]

Umm no? If she ain't into it respect her perv and her agency.

 

[Tight_N_Juicy]

I'm most turned on by the fact that my fella doesn't try to force my horny. He just accepts it the way it cums.

Let her enjoy herself and the sex you have with her at her pace and how she prefers.

My pussy would slam shut if I expressed that I did or didn't want something done to me during sex or masturbating and he tried to convince me of the opposite. His dick would stay dry for awhile if he did that.

 

[otherwise_door]

I'm confused but it may be because I didn't communicate this properly. I am only into this if she is. She really enjoys the large toys, she's had harder orgasms and has explained that she likes "feeling the pressure" inside when she cums. However, there are times that she thinks about the dildo as a plastic object and gets out of the mood. Was just asking for any advice on helping her in those moods - trust me if she doesn't want something I have zero interest in it.

 

[Holly Doors]

Have you thought about experimenting with sleeves or strap ons @otherwise_door ?
A lot more intimate, also look at products made from medical silicone rather than plastic or rubber.
Another tip, warm the toys before use, leave them in warm water.

 

[Tight_N_Juicy]

I'm confused but it may be because I didn't communicate this properly. I am only into this if she is. She really enjoys the large toys, she's had harder orgasms and has explained that she likes "feeling the pressure" inside when she cums. However, there are times that she thinks about the dildo as a plastic object and gets out of the mood. Was just asking for any advice on helping her in those moods - trust me if she doesn't want something I have zero interest in it.

Thank you for clarifying.

I don't have any advice unfortunately but if I cum up with some I'll share.