Hi, I've been with my boyfriend for the past 4 years and can't get over his sexual past. The is especially because I feel envious of his past experiences, mostly because he has been with well endowned guys, which is a fetish of mine that I have never been able to fullfil. I love him and want to stay with him, but the thought of not being able to make my fantasies come true creeps me. I also would not be ready for an open relationship, neither would he. I don't know if I watched too much porn, but the craving for big dick has been killing me recently. I really don't know how to get over it. I asked details about his past experiences and now I have made up images in my head that I can't stop imagining.
Need advice on getting over envy of boyfriend's sex past
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Why invest yourself in something that happened before you came along and you cannot change? It sounds like a waste of time and energy. Invest yourself in the relationship, not one you weren’t a part of.
try with toys, or bring in someone new to your bed together with him. its not open relationship. you both really need serious talk before, some ground rule, otherwise its gonna backfire badly.
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I think you have a problem that is completely normal for gay men. You are happy in a relationship but at the same time you have an enormous desire for sex with other men. But neither you nor your partner are ready for an open relationship.
Why don't have discrete sex dates with big dicked men? You know you want and that I will make you happy. Your partner doesn't have to know about it. As long he doesn't know it won't bother him. I know that many people think that this is immoral behaviour, but it is normal for gay men and it is one of the reasons why they seem to enjoy life more than straight people.
Why don't have discrete sex dates with big dicked men? You know you want and that I will make you happy. Your partner doesn't have to know about it. As long he doesn't know it won't bother him. I know that many people think that this is immoral behaviour, but it is normal for gay men and it is one of the reasons why they seem to enjoy life more than straight people.
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I am rather very well endowed. My partner early on in our relationship made the comment that I am the thickest he has been with, but not the longest. Recently I began playing the bottom position. It is my desire to be with someone at least my size to see how larger feels. We are in an open relationship so looking around is not a problem for me. The problem is those my size or bigger are few and far between. As far as his previous contacts are concerned like you I do fantasize a lot about being with bigger.
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Please don't invest emotion in something that you cannot change. This is one of the reasons that I don't discuss other sex partner with any man that I see on an occasional or frequent basis.
instead of worrying about bigger dicks you need to concentrate on being with your boyfriend ..
If your boyfriend has made it hard for you to be happy because your wanting to be with a guy that’s well endowed.. then is this something you are willing to break up a 4 year relationship..
What are you packing? And him?
Big dicks existed before you met him.. so it’s nothing.new …
Doesn’t he make you happy ?
What’s the biggest been with? What sizes does he say he’s been with?
If your boyfriend has made it hard for you to be happy because your wanting to be with a guy that’s well endowed.. then is this something you are willing to break up a 4 year relationship..
What are you packing? And him?
Big dicks existed before you met him.. so it’s nothing.new …
Doesn’t he make you happy ?
What’s the biggest been with? What sizes does he say he’s been with?
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