Need straight male input on female orgasm

[Fellatiator]

I know this site is dedicated to penises, but maybe you can help a girl out? I’ve been known to squirt, other times gush and occasionally neither, but always I get pretty wet. So this is the first video I have seen of myself ejaculate (I think this is correct terminology?) and it kind of shocked me because the timing does not match up with what I would consider cumming which I ASSUMED always happened during an orgasm.

Here’s what I mean: watch the gush of my cum release start at about 11 seconds in…but I did not have what I would consider an orgasm (intense pleasure, contractions and uncontrollable shaking) until about 3 minutes later. As you see and hear (…you would know if I was orgasming since I am unfortunately very LOUD), I am still working up to a climax.

Have you ever seen or felt this “mismatch” (for lack of better description) with your partner?

Until now I might babble (moan desperately) “I’m cumming” over and over during a world-shaking orgasm I experience, soooooooo now does my terminology need to change?

 

[PringlesGuy]

One of my girlfriends would do something similar. When she squirted she would moan, but every time she had an orgasm she would let out a sound like a giggle. I never really asked her about the different feelings as we were both enjoying every minute of it.

 

[Fellatiator]

Thank you for answering …I also enjoyed every minute of it… I always just assumed that both happened at once!

 

[justahornyguy174]

Women who I've been with have kind of gushed and it leaks out out in your video, it's been before her orgasm. When I've been with women who have squirted it's been when she was cumming. One woman I had a one night stand with squirted and she wasn't expecting it, the look on her face was so hot, just being out of control and squirting everywhere!
Not sure how useful my input has been but I have to say I very much enjoyed the video!

 

[cofrader]

I know this site is dedicated to penises, but maybe you can help a girl out? I’ve been known to squirt, other times gush and occasionally neither, but always I get pretty wet. So this is the first video I have seen of myself ejaculate (I think this is correct terminology?) and it kind of shocked me because the timing does not match up with what I would consider cumming which I ASSUMED always happened during an orgasm.

Here’s what I mean: watch the gush of my cum release start at about 11 seconds in…but I did not have what I would consider an orgasm (intense pleasure, contractions and uncontrollable shaking) until about 3 minutes later. As you see and hear (…you would know if I was orgasming since I am unfortunately very LOUD), I am still working up to a climax.

Have you ever seen or felt this “mismatch” (for lack of better description) with your partner?

Until now I might babble (moan desperately) “I’m cumming” over and over during a world-shaking orgasm I experience, soooooooo now does my terminology need to change?

Your name sounds a lot like the sherminator, I hope it was a coincidence.
Ask a woman or woman issue would be the right place for this question I never owned a pussy I just enjoy with it when I get the chance.
How do you feel about all you described?

 

[Evenflow618]

Try the njoy toy

 

[Fellatiator]

Women who I've been with have kind of gushed and it leaks out out in your video, it's been before her orgasm. When I've been with women who have squirted it's been when she was cumming. One woman I had a one night stand with squirted and she wasn't expecting it, the look on her face was so hot, just being out of control and squirting everywhere!
Not sure how useful my input has been but I have to say I very much enjoyed the video!

I'm glad you enjoyed the video! And yes, I have also only ever squirted when I was cumming - or fully engulfed with orgasam. This was a relatively small gush of fluid for me... as I can end up in a pretty big pool by the end depending on how many multiples I have...but the big thing for me here was the "WHAT IT HAPPENED WITHOUT THE ORGASM?" part LOL! Thank you very much for answering and again, I am glad you enjoyed the video. I went back-and-forth about posting it a bunch, but curiosity won.

 

[lapdog2001]

Have you ever seen or felt this “mismatch” (for lack of better description) with your partner?

I have never encountered this with any of the women I've been with. None of them squirted although they all got wet with foreplay and stimulation.

Until now I might babble (moan desperately) “I’m cumming” over and over during a world-shaking orgasm I experience, soooooooo now does my terminology need to change?

I've always associated the phrase "I'm cumming' to having an orgasm, for myself and any of the women I've been with. I would just call the squirting ahead of your orgasm as pre-cum like what happens with some guys. If you are having a body shaking, eyes rolled back, pelvic thrusting breast swelling orgasm, then you are 10,000% cumming!

 

[notthatguy]

I have found that women are vocal before and after her orgasm. Usually they are silent when having a good orgasm.

 

[RedDevilCock]

From the video I'd say you are like several ladies that I've been with over the years.
There's a difference in the Cummings and orgasms

From my side of things for an answer. Ladies who came/cum were able to relax more and enjoy intercourse with me and adapt.
The orgasm was during Intercourse that was triggered by actually penetration and/or stimulation as well.
For several the Cumming first intensivited the sex. As a couple stated they loved a quick fuck but enjoying and cumming helped with the intensity of the orgasm they got afterwards.

The vocal part is completely different with each lady!
I've had gals just breath in a different tone to full on screaming/giggling and crying due to intense feelings.

How they were raised or learned to allow it to they can't help it and especially when you do things to them they've never had done and it makes for an amazing sexual experience!

 

[deleted18278]

Have you ever seen or felt this “mismatch” (for lack of better description) with your partner?

Yes. from my limited experience it is not uncommon. 2 of 5 women I've been with have had a similar response, with a significant "ejaculate" prior to orgasm. One of them followed it up with squirting orgasms.

 

[ViewingPleasure]

I love this thread sooo much…

 

[Fellatiator]

I love this thread sooo much…

Tell me what you love about it. Exactly. In detail, preferably.

 

[ViewingPleasure]

Tell me what you love about it. Exactly. In detail, preferably.

Oh, absolutely! Love that these guys are enjoying and paying attention to their women’s orgasms. I think the general perception is that a lot men don’t care about whether or not women cum, though I’ve never believed that myself.

I also like the fact that this conversation is about your pussy (or it at least started out that way) and it’s a good possibility that you’re getting more than a little wet because of it.

 

[XL_Lingam]

I know this site is dedicated to penises, but maybe you can help a girl out? I’ve been known to squirt, other times gush and occasionally neither, but always I get pretty wet. So this is the first video I have seen of myself ejaculate (I think this is correct terminology?) and it kind of shocked me because the timing does not match up with what I would consider cumming which I ASSUMED always happened during an orgasm.

Here’s what I mean: watch the gush of my cum release start at about 11 seconds in…but I did not have what I would consider an orgasm (intense pleasure, contractions and uncontrollable shaking) until about 3 minutes later. As you see and hear (…you would know if I was orgasming since I am unfortunately very LOUD), I am still working up to a climax.

Have you ever seen or felt this “mismatch” (for lack of better description) with your partner?

Until now I might babble (moan desperately) “I’m cumming” over and over during a world-shaking orgasm I experience, soooooooo now does my terminology need to change?

 

[XL_Lingam]

There's no mismatch. You're just doing your thing. It's part of who you are. Everything's fine, you're a gorgeous person enjoying pleasure. It doesn't have to be any certain way. You can gush without cumming, or cum without gushing, or do both or whatever. Just have fun and love yourself and those who love you.

 

[cofrader]

The more I read this post the more reminds me of admiral ackbar.
Which woman would call her orgasm female a ferengi? Would post a video out of the blue? Would actually need advice from men having friends?
Mayor labia?

https://imgur.com/9k9lzpz

 

[Fellatiator]

There's no mismatch. You're just doing your thing. It's part of who you are. Everything's fine, you're a gorgeous person enjoying pleasure. It doesn't have to be any certain way. You can gush without cumming, or cum without gushing, or do both or whatever. Just have fun and love yourself and those who love you.

Thank you for this !!!

 

[XL_Lingam]

Thank you for this !!!

You're welcome!!

 

[ViewingPleasure]

I have found that women are vocal before and after her orgasm. Usually they are silent when having a good orgasm.

Ehh, I’d say it really depends on the woman… and a handful of other reasons.