new fathers.... to cut or no?

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Personally, when I have kids I won’t make them get circumcised (unless it’s medically necessary). If later in life they decide they want it done then that’s up to them. Circumcised, uncircumcised as long as it does the job it doesn’t really matter.
 
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As an American who was not circumcised at birth, I always felt embarrassed in locker rooms among so many circumcised guys. In school locker rooms it seemed like it was the poorer kids who were uncut. Also it seemed it was the white kids as opposed to my brown race who were uncut.
I finally got cut as an adult at age 35, but I really wish I had been cut at birth and not had to endure being uncut among my peers. I thought their cut cocks looked better anyway. There was one guy who I thought especially had an awesome looking cut cock. I could hardly keep my eyes off of it when we were nude in the locker room. That was when I felt most embarrassed. I hated for him to see my uncut cock.
So for some of us not being circumcised is an important issue in our lives. So save your son embarrassment because you didn't have him circumcised. It was important in my life.

Why didn't you pull the skin back when you were younger? I know a guy that did that and trained his foreskin to be pulled back so now it kinda looks like he was snipped (or somewhat loosely snipped)

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I know multiple Jewish men who are not cut they are from Switzerland, Italy, Ukraine, Russia, Albania, and the USA.
I don't doubt it, I was just asking how many you know. I know a couple, but they are not very very common, that is why I ask. I just in another post that I personally know 2 that are not, and I know 3 porn stars that skipped the snip.
 

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New dads and future dads, spare your sons the unnecessary snipping. Let them for themselves decide as adults. Don't try what cannot be reversed.

Even for medical reasons, snipping isn't the one solution. From what I've read, Phimosis usually goes away on its own. Balanitis can be cured with creams.
 

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Thanks, Sam...but 'don't try what cannot be reversed' means no medical procedures of any kind... but, ultimately don't make any choices for your child..because you can't take any of them back once they've happened.

I've no doubt your comments are well-intentioned, but may I ask how many children you've actually raised?
 
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I’m cut but if I was to have boys, o would not circumcise. If medically necessary let it happen then
 
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Was cut at birth, had 2 boys, never cut them, told my wife it is their decision to make.
1 did, the other not, both are happy with their junk.
My youngest brother when he was born, mom asked for him to be cut. Doctor asked if this was for religious reasons, no health. Doctor refused, told mom to teach him how to keep his dick clean, he never complained about his helmet, in fact used to brag that he had more then us....
 
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I was in the delivery room for the birth of both sons. I quite honestly can't remember even being asked if I or my wife wanted the boys circumcised. It seemed like it was just part of the whole birth thing. As I remember, they were both taken aside, the circumcision performed, and then they were handed back to my wife (or me - can't remember).

I was circumcised at birth and have never known anything else. I'm glad that both my sons are circumcised as well.
 

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Was cut at birth, had 2 boys, never cut them, told my wife it is their decision to make.
1 did, the other not, both are happy with their junk.
My youngest brother when he was born, mom asked for him to be cut. Doctor asked if this was for religious reasons, no health. Doctor refused, told mom to teach him how to keep his dick clean, he never complained about his helmet, in fact used to brag that he had more then us....
It looks like you were really loosely circumcised.
 

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Thanks, Sam...but 'don't try what cannot be reversed' means no medical procedures of any kind... but, ultimately don't make any choices for your child..because you can't take any of them back once they've happened.

I've no doubt your comments are well-intentioned, but may I ask how many children you've actually raised?

James Bell, the medical procedures which are a necessity vs medical procedures who are really optional, circumcison stands in the midst. 'Don't try what cannot be reversed' was said for circumcision under non medical reasons.

I have no kids and raised none. If I ever have one, I'll not pursue circumcision for aesthetics, hygiene & sundry unproven reasons..
 

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James Bell, the medical procedures which are a necessity vs medical procedures who are really optional, circumcison stands in the midst. 'Don't try what cannot be reversed' was said for circumcision under non medical reasons.

I have no kids and raised none. If I ever have one, I'll not pursue circumcision for aesthetics, hygiene & sundry unproven reasons..

The worst decision as a parent is whether to let your kids have operations that might be helpful, but carry a little risk. If you’ve got a foreskin you’re more qualified than a father who’s never had one. IMO
 

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Uncut here. So is dad, 2 bros, nephews and son. Doc wanted to circ son “cleaner, look like his friends, last longer wink wink, “. Ill do it for free. No thank you. I’ll do you with son free, no thank you. I said. A boy will wash his dick in the shower til the hot water runs out. Just like you did doc… wink wink.
I believe perhaps parents don’t know what to do with a foreskin so they retract too early, they don’t do hygiene and the boy gets infection, doc says oh he needs a circ, when if they had left alone possibly no infection. As for aids/hiv studies, usa had high aids/hiv cases AND was 70,80,90% cut so there goes that logic. Women spend BILLIONS on hygiene products and yeast infections but a foreskin is “dirty”.

If you have cosmetic preference go for it. Or pull it back.
 
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I’m uncut and so glad I am. As a mature man with no sex partner, masturbation is my only relief and it’s so pleasant with foreskin’s help. No lube or jerk-off toys needed. I wouldn’t recommend circumcision to any new parent.