New to anal

[yumyam]

Hi!

First and foremost, I’m a virgin and only have been playing with myself for years. Recently, I’ve been very much wanting to play with my hole (and also to prepare myself if I get down to the real stuff in the future) so I ordered an anal training kit and a 6” dildo.

The problem is I’m just not sure on how to use them? I start from the smallest, plugging it in and just leave it there… Is this what I’m supposed to do with it? I’ve been doing that for a few days and trying to work my way to the bigger sizes but I feel like I just cannot relax myself and always have the immense tension close to the opening. Is there any tips on how to relax it?

 

[17398591]

It takes time, a lot longer than a few days.
Since you wrote you’ve been playing with yourself for a few years, what’s the big rush all of a sudden?
Take your time & learn to relax, don’t give yourself hemorrhoids

 

[yumyam]

I just feel frustrated not making any progress and equally confused on how to make progresses

 

[chrisrobin]

Hi!

First and foremost, I’m a virgin and only have been playing with myself for years. Recently, I’ve been very much wanting to play with my hole (and also to prepare myself if I get down to the real stuff in the future) so I ordered an anal training kit and a 6” dildo.

The problem is I’m just not sure on how to use them? I start from the smallest, plugging it in and just leave it there… Is this what I’m supposed to do with it? I’ve been doing that for a few days and trying to work my way to the bigger sizes but I feel like I just cannot relax myself and always have the immense tension close to the opening. Is there any tips on how to relax it?

Try doing yourself with a smaller dildo after a long hot bath when you are relaxed.
Or be like me. One of my buds is also into dildos and we have an evening of doing each other in various positions. Its really sensual being fucked by a dildo you have just used on your mate on you knowing that shortly you'll be doing his ass with the same one again