New to urinals, advice and etiquette.

[deleted26343771]

Hi, I'm a dude just turned 24 last year and I've never used a urinal only stalls. I would like some imput and advice on how to go about it. How can I learn to be a regular at the urinals and be a "man". How far back should one stand I've read about these etiquette's when using a urinal. Are these set rule's or more "common sence". I am gay and I am horny alot and I feel like I would pop a boner right away if I see attractive men. Is this something I need to work on aswell and not get a boner. Is it okey to look? For how long. I do not want to come of as a creep I just wonder since I wouldn't know where to look. If you're around my age or older, pref under 40's please let me know your "journey" so to speak with urinal's and your expiernce's. I know alot of straight dude's don't see the issue but as a gay young adult I feel way more uncomfortable because of obviou's reason's. Do straight men mind if I would take a peek or talk to them? While pissing. Currently I just use stall's for no.1 and I do sit at home aswell. How far do I pull down the pant's or do I just use the zipper and pull my dick out. If someone look's at my penis how do I react? I've read about "showing off" can you tell if someone like's to show of and invited you to look? I would also love to know if people can tell if you are new to urinal's, beginner vs verteran type of thing. Can someone tell if you're comfortable being there or if your uncomfortable. I want to be able to piss like other men and "bond" with this thing and not feel left out because I am pee shy and gay.

 

[techpump]

Don't look at other guys, if they are straight and not into guys and catch you looking, they could become offended. I can't stand when guys try to look at me at urinals. I don't care who they are or what they are into. Just keep your eyes on your own thing and pay attention to where your pee is going, don't let it hit the floor that's pretty gross!

If you want to use urinals to get aroused, you're using urinals for the wrong reasons. Maybe a gay-only bathroom kind of place works for this. But in public anywhere, I don't think its common for men to use urinals to find attractive guys and get hard, or to attract other guys. It surely happens, but again, it won't work everywhere.

Hard to tell how long someone's been using a urinal. Basically you walk up, you unzip your zipper, and carefully pull your dick out. Watch the zipper it can catch you! If you pull down more of your pants it will be awkward for everyone in there. If you have to undo your belt and button and zipper, its probably not that bad. You'll know how far back to stand based on where you make your pee hit the urinal bowl or wall, it can splash or splatter back at you, so you'll learn where to aim based on the kind of urinal design you're using. I walk up and go "oh, this kind" of urinal and know how to stand and where to aim at it.

I've never felt any "bonding" at urinals. Sometimes men talk to each other, which I've always found awkward. I can't talk to anyone and don't want to when I pee.

If you are feeling uncomfortable then its partially due to the idea you have that arousal happens, will happen, or should happen at a urinal. If you want to find a guy, I doubt the urinal wall is the best place to find one

 

[deleted26343771]

Don't look at other guys, if they are straight and not into guys and catch you looking, they could become offended. I can't stand when guys try to look at me at urinals. I don't care who they are or what they are into. Just keep your eyes on your own thing and pay attention to where your pee is going, don't let it hit the floor that's pretty gross!

If you want to use urinals to get aroused, you're using urinals for the wrong reasons. Maybe a gay-only bathroom kind of place works for this. But in public anywhere, I don't think its common for men to use urinals to find attractive guys and get hard, or to attract other guys. It surely happens, but again, it won't work everywhere.

Hard to tell how long someone's been using a urinal. Basically you walk up, you unzip your zipper, and carefully pull your dick out. Watch the zipper it can catch you! If you pull down more of your pants it will be awkward for everyone in there. If you have to undo your belt and button and zipper, its probably not that bad. You'll know how far back to stand based on where you make your pee hit the urinal bowl or wall, it can splash or splatter back at you, so you'll learn where to aim based on the kind of urinal design you're using. I walk up and go "oh, this kind" of urinal and know how to stand and where to aim at it.

I've never felt any "bonding" at urinals. Sometimes men talk to each other, which I've always found awkward. I can't talk to anyone and don't want to when I pee.

If you are feeling uncomfortable then its partially due to the idea you have that arousal happens, will happen, or should happen at a urinal. If you want to find a guy, I doubt the urinal wall is the best place to find one

Yes, I want to clarify that I do not mean to use urinal's to get aroused or to be a pervet, I ment it more in the sence of that I am just gay and if an attractive man is there it would be more of a struggle. I think I am just more uncomfortable and scared of the unknown idk. haha. I think it's just an idea that people will look, stare and judge. But I appreacite the comment alot! Didn't know about the different urinal's and that you need to "position" yourself differently.

 

[techpump]

Yes, I want to clarify that I do not mean to use urinal's to get aroused or to be a pervet, I ment it more in the sence of that I am just gay and if an attractive man is there it would be more of a struggle. I think I am just more uncomfortable and scared of the unknown idk. haha. I think it's just an idea that people will look, stare and judge. But I appreacite the comment alot! Didn't know about the different urinal's and that you need to "position" yourself differently.

Its cool! Well, if you are worried about attractive men and it might make you get excited and aroused, just try your best to not look at the guys at the urinal next to yours as you walk up to the one you want to use, and to new guys that come to use urinals next to you. Not that you need to completely ignore these men as if you are being mean or disrespectful, but if you just pay attention to yourself and your peeing, you can avoid any "accidents" down below with erections when you don't want them I really haven't encountered men staring at me or my penis as I pee, but sometimes I can sense they might check me out when they leave or as they walk up next to me. I can't do anything about it, I just try to not pay attention to them.

And yes, sometimes the bowl has water in it, sometimes it doesn't, sometimes there is like a plastic net kind of thing that makes your pee not splatter or splash, and of course there is a urinal cake a lot of the time. I don't pee on the cake, it can splatter and then you get the coloring on you, if its pink or blue it can show on your clothes, be careful of that! Peeing on the flat wall part higher up can also splatter pee back at you. You'll feel it on your hands when it happens. Personally, I aim for the rounded corners where the wall part of the urinal meets the bowl part. Something about it being curved makes no splatter happen, I hit it at a downward angle and the pee just hits it and runs down into the bowl smoothly. If the wall goes to the floor and the drain is down there at your feet I'd aim down the wall close to your knees. You want the pee stream to be at an angle to the surface you are hitting, if its straight on it'll splatter more strongly.

I hope these tips help you stay dry out there my friend!

 

[deleted26343771]

Its cool! Well, if you are worried about attractive men and it might make you get excited and aroused, just try your best to not look at the guys at the urinal next to yours as you walk up to the one you want to use, and to new guys that come to use urinals next to you. Not that you need to completely ignore these men as if you are being mean or disrespectful, but if you just pay attention to yourself and your peeing, you can avoid any "accidents" down below with erections when you don't want them I really haven't encountered men staring at me or my penis as I pee, but sometimes I can sense they might check me out when they leave or as they walk up next to me. I can't do anything about it, I just try to not pay attention to them.

And yes, sometimes the bowl has water in it, sometimes it doesn't, sometimes there is like a plastic net kind of thing that makes your pee not splatter or splash, and of course there is a urinal cake a lot of the time. I don't pee on the cake, it can splatter and then you get the coloring on you, if its pink or blue it can show on your clothes, be careful of that! Peeing on the flat wall part higher up can also splatter pee back at you. You'll feel it on your hands when it happens. Personally, I aim for the rounded corners where the wall part of the urinal meets the bowl part. Something about it being curved makes no splatter happen, I hit it at a downward angle and the pee just hits it and runs down into the bowl smoothly. If the wall goes to the floor and the drain is down there at your feet I'd aim down the wall close to your knees. You want the pee stream to be at an angle to the surface you are hitting, if its straight on it'll splatter more strongly.

I hope these tips help you stay dry out there my friend!

oh wow thanks for the information, it is alot.

 

[Adrian69702006]

I'm a little bit puzzled that you've got to 24 without using urinals. However they're definetly a place to respect other people's privacy and just concentrate on your own pee stream. If you can keep it off the floor, please do.

Although I may still use them occasionally, recently I've moved away from using urinals most of the time. This is because the nurse has put me on some new diabetes medication and part of the advice she's given me is to wipe when I pee, something I've not been habituated to do. Consequently I decided the easiest way to do that was to use a cubicle and seat down. As they tend to be cleaner, more spacious and more private, I favour disabled toilets for the purpose. I've had a radar key for emergency use for years, so that's not been too much of an issue so far.

 

[techpump]

I'm a little bit puzzled that you've got to 24 without using urinals. However they're definetly a place to respect other people's privacy and just concentrate on your own pee stream. If you can keep it off the floor, please do.

Although I may still use them occasionally, recently I've moved away from using urinals most of the time. This is because the nurse has put me on some new diabetes medication and part of the advice she's given me is to wipe when I pee, something I've not been habituated to do. Consequently I decided the easiest way to do that was to use a cubicle and seat down. As they tend to be cleaner, more spacious and more private, I favour disabled toilets for the purpose. I've had a radar key for emergency use for years, so that's not been too much of an issue so far.

I dot my pee hole with toilet paper when possible when I finish peeing because I wear a glans restoration sleeve and pee that still comes out while I'm wrapped back up in it makes my glans damp and it can be irritating; it also discolors the sleeve and makes it dirty quicker. So if I can I'll use a toilet to pee in so I can use toilet paper for a few seconds. If the urinals are busy and there's no partition wall I'll use a toilet stall so guys don't have to see me wrap my dick in a cloth sleeve and wonder what the fuck it is I'm doing!

 

[Topher the Gopher]

Just keep your eyes forward and your mouth shut. If you can avoid going to a urinal right next to one that's being used, do so. If you get a boner, just pee through it and ignore it.

I don't know if it's so in Europe, but in the US, it's pretty commonplace for urinals to have dividers between them, at least in my experience.

 

[Number 9]

I live way down south and I’ll keep it simple and safe for you if you ever find yourself in a public restroom down this way. Treat the urinal like it’s a damn voting booth. You can never be sure what anybody is packing in their emotional closet or how well balanced they are.

This rule can vary on a venue by venue basis but your run of the mill public restroom down here isn’t a place to try and pick someone up. Like I said, it’s a voting booth so don’t try to figure which way your neighbors vote and don’t try to peek at their candidate. So keep you eyes straight ahead while your casting your ballot.

Note: I’m not a political kinda guy but my standard barnyard animal themed analogy seemed way to close to icky given the subject matter this go round.

 

[Adrian69702006]

I dot my pee hole with toilet paper when possible when I finish peeing because I wear a glans restoration sleeve and pee that still comes out while I'm wrapped back up in it makes my glans damp and it can be irritating; it also discolors the sleeve and makes it dirty quicker. So if I can I'll use a toilet to pee in so I can use toilet paper for a few seconds. If the urinals are busy and there's no partition wall I'll use a toilet stall so guys don't have to see me wrap my dick in a cloth sleeve and wonder what the fuck it is I'm doing!

If you can access a disabled toilet for the purpose it's best. They're more, spacious, private and generally cleaner than regular stalls.

 

[techpump]

I live way down south and I’ll keep it simple and safe for you if you ever find yourself in a public restroom down this way. Treat the urinal like it’s a damn voting booth. You can never be sure what anybody is packing in their emotional closet or how well balanced they are.

This rule can vary on a venue by venue basis but your run of the mill public restroom down here isn’t a place to try and pick someone up. Like I said, it’s a voting booth so don’t try to figure which way your neighbors vote and don’t try to peek at their candidate. So keep you eyes straight ahead while your casting your ballot.

Note: I’m not a political kinda guy but my standard barnyard animal themed analogy seemed way to close to icky given the subject matter this go round.

Being in the south myself, this is so absolutely spot on!

 

[ronin001]

pissing in urinals help and advice

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[JBD_Mikk]

I expect once you've used one a few times the initial uncertainty or fear will subside. I stuck to stalls for a very long time as well before one day just thinking "I should try a urinal, it seems more efficient". The slight fear/excitement at the thought of using one immediately subsided as it became a mundane regular occurrence. I won't choose a stall anymore because a urinal is just so much more efficient (less undressing and less water use).

I only undo things enough to not constrict the flow - undoing the zipper and lowering the front of the waistband, but no more. I stand close enough to eliminate the risk of anything reaching the floor, and aim on one side (trying to hit at a shallow angle) to reduce splash-back. My focus is 100% on finishing without making a mess on either me or the wall/floor - which tends to leave no room for arousing thoughts (if I'd get any I'd subdue them since it's not the time or place).

 

[ILoveGames48]

I see a lot of guys talking about pissing and stuff but don’t see any groups talking about it more and posting videos.. is this something not allowed to be posted in here

 

[Topher the Gopher]

I see a lot of guys talking about pissing and stuff but don’t see any groups talking about it more and posting videos.. is this something not allowed to be posted in here

Judging from some of your other posts, I would guess that most people aren't as willing to take so many risks as you are and/or were.

Personally, I never had good luck doing such things; whenever I tried to get it on in public bathrooms, there was always unwanted interruption.

 

[Jon1971]

I see a lot of guys talking about pissing and stuff but don’t see any groups talking about it more and posting videos.. is this something not allowed to be posted in here

There are pissing videos all over this site.

 

[FrankieGuile]

Hi, I'm a dude just turned 24 last year and I've never used a urinal only stalls. I would like some imput and advice on how to go about it. How can I learn to be a regular at the urinals and be a "man". How far back should one stand I've read about these etiquette's when using a urinal. Are these set rule's or more "common sence". I am gay and I am horny alot and I feel like I would pop a boner right away if I see attractive men. Is this something I need to work on aswell and not get a boner. Is it okey to look? For how long. I do not want to come of as a creep I just wonder since I wouldn't know where to look. If you're around my age or older, pref under 40's please let me know your "journey" so to speak with urinal's and your expiernce's. I know alot of straight dude's don't see the issue but as a gay young adult I feel way more uncomfortable because of obviou's reason's. Do straight men mind if I would take a peek or talk to them? While pissing. Currently I just use stall's for no.1 and I do sit at home aswell. How far do I pull down the pant's or do I just use the zipper and pull my dick out. If someone look's at my penis how do I react? I've read about "showing off" can you tell if someone like's to show of and invited you to look? I would also love to know if people can tell if you are new to urinal's, beginner vs verteran type of thing. Can someone tell if you're comfortable being there or if your uncomfortable. I want to be able to piss like other men and "bond" with this thing and not feel left out because I am pee shy and gay.

First, regular guys, straight or gay, don't "bond" over peeing at urinals. They just do their biological business and resume their normal lives. Second, etiquette dictates you aim carefully, flush when you're done, zip up your pants, and wash your hands. I know none of the foregoing satisfies the true intent of your post, but it does answer the question you posed.

 

[ILoveGames48]

First, regular guys, straight or gay, don't "bond" over peeing at urinals. They just do their biological business and resume their normal lives. Second, etiquette dictates you aim carefully, flush when you're done, zip up your pants, and wash your hands. I know none of the foregoing satisfies the true intent of your post, but it does answer the question you posed.

You post a message like this is a perfect world that no one could possibly do more than piss at a urinal.. zip up.. wash hands and leave..


But you need to wake up and realize this is t the world you see through your eyes ..


If that was the case we all would be straight married and having babies and homosexuality wouldn’t exist in some peoples “perfect world”

 

[ILoveGames48]

I live way down south and I’ll keep it simple and safe for you if you ever find yourself in a public restroom down this way. Treat the urinal like it’s a damn voting booth. You can never be sure what anybody is packing in their emotional closet or how well balanced they are.

This rule can vary on a venue by venue basis but your run of the mill public restroom down here isn’t a place to try and pick someone up. Like I said, it’s a voting booth so don’t try to figure which way your neighbors vote and don’t try to peek at their candidate. So keep you eyes straight ahead while your casting your ballot.

Note: I’m not a political kinda guy but my standard barnyard animal themed analogy seemed way to close to icky given the subject matter this go round.

The reason why people do look and all is the rush of looking and getting caught.. and wondering what his reaction will be ..

 

[FrankieGuile]

You post a message like this is a perfect world that no one could possibly do more than piss at a urinal.. zip up.. wash hands and leave..


But you need to wake up and realize this is t the world you see through your eyes ..


If that was the case we all would be straight married and having babies and homosexuality wouldn’t exist in some peoples “perfect world”

I don't regard normal behavior as perfect behavior so my advice, once again, is to do your business and leave. Other guys don't care. Oh, and try not to ogle the other guys -- it's likely unwanted.