I have had some incredible hot sex with guys I am old enough to have fathered. For me I think what makes it so hot is not just the age difference, but being much more muscular, physically bigger and of course having a larger cock - which is what excited and attracted the younger guy to me in the first place. One started at the gym with mutual cruising, another very memorable one began on Grindr with the young guy making the first text telling me how attracted he was to men who lift weights and have big muscle, so hot!
 
I have had some incredible hot sex with guys I am old enough to have fathered. For me I think what makes it so hot is not just the age difference, but being much more muscular, physically bigger and of course having a larger cock - which is what excited and attracted the younger guy to me in the first place. One started at the gym with mutual cruising, another very memorable one began on Grindr with the young guy making the first text telling me how attracted he was to men who lift weights and have big muscle, so hot!
Sounds like a good time! Your biceps are very impressive. Wouldn’t mind feeling them big strong arms myself
 
For me it’s just compatibility like any other age in terms of a relationship. My bf is 19, I’m 44. We’ve been together nearly a year. We get along well, same interests, outlooks, etc. But in terms of purely sex he enjoys me calling him Daddy. Which I find the younger guy being the more dominant one infinitely more interesting than the older dom Daddy. I prefer the power exchange of being a submissive to a guy I could have easily fathered. People usually mistake my bf for my son (I have no kids) which we always find amusing. I like seeing him develop in his sexual enjoyment with me as we try new things together.
 
For me it's the youthful exuberance, the smooth skin and the regenerative sexual prowess that attracts me to younger partners. I love the older/younger dynamic, and I prefer younger men that like to flip as opposed to adhering to one role.
 
Hello older gentleman! What about younger guys turns you on the most? Whether it be our bodies, sexual capabilities or our minds, what attracts you to us younger men?
By younger I presume you mean your age?
Probably the fact that we're not that far ahead of you, certainly not your sexual prowess but always live in the hope there is more between the ears than cock and balls. Possibly a younger guy who hasn't let himself go to much but not one addicted to the gym
 
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I am a 19 yr old white guy and I want to compare my average cock with an older man on Skype! Please message me with ur age and Skype ID :)
 
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for me, apart from the obvious 'youth, energy, body' type answer which is ok for a random shag, for a relationship, and as someone nearing 57 with a 25 going on 26 yo bf of 2.5 years, its far more about compatibility, positivity, the sense of adventure, that optimism of youth and being open and engaging and passionate about life.

to many older guys give up on their health/looks/appearance, slink into their slippers and lose that simple joy of discovery, they feel stale and stagant - obviously not all.

The sharing of experience and knowledge is great, being able to guide and teach a younger guy who wants to learn and understand things, but also the knowledge and understanding they bring too. It has to be a mutual thing in my mind.

oh and the sex is fucking amazing ;-)
 
If anyone is into young fit straight guys 18-21 and willing to chat about some guys i know in real life but can’t fantasize about with anyone in person, please message me. thanks
Hey hit me up . Older guy here
 
I'm currently in my 20s, and while I don't know the reasoning for others, I have my own reasons for being aroused by the older/younger dynamic. One of the first movies I ever watched that featured gay sex was the film Boy Culture. The scene featuring the very sexy Derek Magyar making love to the elderly man was perhaps what first peaked my interest in the idea of this dynamic.
Then a couple of years ago, I saw a film called Gerontophilia, where this cute teenage boy named Lake volunteers at a retirement home. While there, he becomes the object of lust for one elderly senile patient which clearly makes him uncomfortable at first. However a few scenes later, after getting high off stolen pills, Lake seeks out the old man, finding him horny in bed, and proceeds to seduce him by getting naked in front of him and climbing into his bed.
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Growing up with such easy access to internet porn has unfortunately made it very difficult for me to orgasm during sex, which has been an issue when having sex with other men my age in the past. However the few times I've been intimate with a man who was perhaps two or three decades older than me, were the times that I actually took note of the fact that I ejaculated; and the older men were completely patient with me, unlike younger guys who seem in a rush to cum.
So for me, I was first attracted to the older/younger dynamic because of seeing those films, which depicted the intimacy between the two partners as very raw and sensual. The contrast of the participants' age somehow made it seem even more erotic in my mind. I'm more turned on by the older/younger dynamic in film and literature, however in reality, my attraction for older men is mostly due to my respect for their ability to be patient and sensual.
Hope that makes sense.