Older women who try a big penis for the first time.

[deleted441226]

I’ve been a member for some time now, but finally decided to post. My topic is a subset of "Best reaction to your size the first time."

One thing that has really turned me on over the years is when I first have sex with an older divorced woman (not necessarily older than me) who has NEVER had sex with a big penis until me. I’m talking about women in their 30s, 40s or even 50s, with little or no sexual experience before marriage, who married men of below average to average size. For these women, because the size difference is so dramatic for them, they go nuts just simply looking at your penis. They almost always make a comment, and I toy with them by asking if their ex-husband had a big dick, knowing full well that was not the case. Because of their excitement, and knowing that I’m their first big dick, I do everything I can to make it a truly memorable expedience for them. I take it slow and easy during intercourse until I get the signal that they want it deeper and harder— no wham bam, thank you ma’am for these gals. It pays dividends. Most want return visits.

Anyone else what to share any similar experiences?

 

[D_Sully Sundial]

My experience was very similar but with a couple (the husband just watched). It was a great time and all parties were thankful, myself included!

 

[need2bsexy2]

I've responded to this question before. None of the following comments were solicited, they are all spontaneous responses:

Look at you, you’re huge!!!
My God, you’re even bigger than your pictures.
You know, you’re bigger limp than most guys are hard.
That’s because you’re sooo big!
You have the most beautiful penis I have ever seen.
You’re so big!
Oh my!

Forgot one:

very nice Dale, much bigger than my hubby

 

[8x6man]

When I was 21 living in a townhouse there was a divorced Chinese lady that was 37 years old. Our bedroom sliding doors were about 25ft apart I guess but in summer there was no doubting she could hear me fucking some of the chicks I use to pick up at clubs. I even caught her spying through the blinds sometimes when I would get out of the shower naked. She was always shy looking when we passed each other during the day, I had a fair inkling she had a crush on me. And she was a slim Busty 37 year old too. So I decided to invite her over for a drink or two one saturday afternoon. Skipping the details after 30 mins we were fucking on the couch. Biggest she had had was a touch over 5 inches, then from that straight to 8.5 inches. She was then a fuck buddy for about 2 years until I moved out. Must have fucked her about 300 times lol.

 

[B_quietguy]

After menopause, as a woman ages, her vagina becomes shorter and narrower. The walls of the vagina also become thinner and a little stiffer. Most women will have less vaginal lubrication as they get older because estrogen levels drop greatly after menopause. Estrogen helps keep the vagina moist. Changing estrogen levels also might affect a woman’s desire for sex. Older women also take longer to get aroused enough, and sometimes sex is more painful than before menopause.

A large penis will exacerbate all of these issues. If her vagina shortens, a long penis is more likely to hit the cervix. A thick penis may stretch her thinning vaginal walls beyond her comfort level to the point of painful intercourse. She may not produce enough natural lubricant to reduce friction and the vagina may feel dry and uncomfortable to both partners. If she has both dryness and increased friction by a thick cock against her vaginal walls, she will likely feel much less aroused from the pain and discomfort.

That's just the news about an older woman's vagina. She will lose muscle tone and limberness so some acrobatic positions may no longer be as fun - or even possible.

So my advice is to use lots of lube.
Set the mood well in advance.
Go slowly at first.
Let her set the pace and penetration.
Be gentle.

 

[BlkWthThk11]

I’ve been a member for some time now, but finally decided to post. My topic is a subset of "Best reaction to your size the first time."

One thing that has really turned me on over the years is when I first have sex with an older divorced woman (not necessarily older than me) who has NEVER had sex with a big penis until me. I’m talking about women in their 30s, 40s or even 50s, with little or no sexual experience before marriage, who married men of below average to average size. For these women, because the size difference is so dramatic for them, they go nuts just simply looking at your penis. They almost always make a comment, and I toy with them by asking if their ex-husband had a big dick, knowing full well that was not the case. Because of their excitement, and knowing that I’m their first big dick, I do everything I can to make it a truly memorable expedience for them. I take it slow and easy during intercourse until I get the signal that they want it deeper and harder— no wham bam, thank you ma’am for these gals. It pays dividends. Most want return visits.

Anyone else what to share any similar experiences?

I could write a whole book on sex with older women and their first experience with a large penis. I have been with several women in their 40's, 50's and even a few in their 60's, I have found they are not that old actually but their experience is varied. I have been with some alone and with some as couples. I have actually grown to really enjoy sex with older women that are experiencing sex with a large penis for the first time, no need to go into details here, but most all really get into the sex and get just as hot as an 18 year old.

 

[knowhow2useit]

very hot thread, wish I had a story to add, but love the thread. Hope it keeps going.

 

[Mrs. P]

Well any of you studs care to take care of a late 40's wife with an athletic hourglass figure? Email me at soccermomzready at gmail.

 

[moparmike]

Yes maam.

 

[Betty_Cocker]

After menopause, as a woman ages, her vagina becomes shorter and narrower. The walls of the vagina also become thinner and a little stiffer. Most women will have less vaginal lubrication as they get older because estrogen levels drop greatly after menopause. Estrogen helps keep the vagina moist. Changing estrogen levels also might affect a woman’s desire for sex. Older women also take longer to get aroused enough, and sometimes sex is more painful than before menopause.

A large penis will exacerbate all of these issues. If her vagina shortens, a long penis is more likely to hit the cervix. A thick penis may stretch her thinning vaginal walls beyond her comfort level to the point of painful intercourse. She may not produce enough natural lubricant to reduce friction and the vagina may feel dry and uncomfortable to both partners. If she has both dryness and increased friction by a thick cock against her vaginal walls, she will likely feel much less aroused from the pain and discomfort.

That's just the news about an older woman's vagina. She will lose muscle tone and limberness so some acrobatic positions may no longer be as fun - or even possible.

So my advice is to use lots of lube.
Set the mood well in advance.
Go slowly at first.
Let her set the pace and penetration.
Be gentle.

A thread that is 6 years old being revived by a Personal ad.

The reason I quoted this is because of the stereotype. This may be true of some.. even many women as they age. But. Not. Every. Woman. Ages. the. Same.

I don't think I'm unique. None of the above mentioned changes occurred after I went through menopause. I got hornier. I got wetter. I squirted for the first time in my life after menopause.

In fact, my husband and I didn't even start playing around until several years AFTER I'd gone through menopause. I was 50 when I had my first real big guy (almost 9"). (Married to my high school sweetheart with whom I was faithful from day one so no others to even compare. He's of average size.) Checked all the boxes in the original post. They guy was 12 years my junior and very happy to give me a memorable first experience. I was left totally speechless. He was a perfect first time guy. He was not so self absorbed that he made me feel like a whore. He knew he was big, he didn't have to remind me or fish for compliments. I was his first deep throat. So not only did I get a great first experience, I also was able to give my first.... his first.... and it wasn't painful at all.. sheer pleasure. I would be interested to hear his story (after reading some of the guys' interpretations of their experiences here.) I never got the impression that he was a braggart, but he was def not short on confidence.

 

[BaddJack]

A thread that is 6 years old being revived by a Personal ad.

The reason I quoted this is because of the stereotype. This may be true of some.. even many women as they age. But. Not. Every. Woman. Ages. the. Same.

I don't think I'm unique. None of the above mentioned changes occurred after I went through menopause. I got hornier. I got wetter. I squirted for the first time in my life after menopause.

In fact, my husband and I didn't even start playing around until several years AFTER I'd gone through menopause. I was 50 when I had my first real big guy (almost 9"). (Married to my high school sweetheart with whom I was faithful from day one so no others to even compare. He's of average size.) Checked all the boxes in the original post. They guy was 12 years my junior and very happy to give me a memorable first experience. I was left totally speechless. He was a perfect first time guy. He was not so self absorbed that he made me feel like a whore. He knew he was big, he didn't have to remind me or fish for compliments. I was his first deep throat. So not only did I get a great first experience, I also was able to give my first.... his first.... and it wasn't painful at all.. sheer pleasure. I would be interested to hear his story (after reading some of the guys' interpretations of their experiences here.) I never got the impression that he was a braggart, but he was def not short on confidence.

Just curious - was your first deep throat guy also girthy.

 

[Betty_Cocker]

Just curious - was your first deep throat guy also girthy.

girthier than my husband, yes... the most girthy? no.

 

[BaddJack]

girthier than my husband, yes... the most girthy? no.

Betty, I was hoping that you were in the chat room for a quickie.

Your shields are up so I can't see your profile or photos.

My wife has been unable do a deep throat on me since I grew beyond 5.5 inches in mid girth.

 

[Betty_Cocker]

My shields are always up!

 

[912164]

My shields are always up!

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You definitely have two beautiful shields.

 

[littleguyhugedick]

If you mean around 40 yrs old, YES! They go CRAZY over mine. They know what they are doing.

 

[BigBen]

A thread that is 6 years old being revived by a Personal ad.

The reason I quoted this is because of the stereotype. This may be true of some.. even many women as they age. But. Not. Every. Woman. Ages. the. Same.

I don't think I'm unique. None of the above mentioned changes occurred after I went through menopause. I got hornier. I got wetter. I squirted for the first time in my life after menopause.

In fact, my husband and I didn't even start playing around until several years AFTER I'd gone through menopause. I was 50 when I had my first real big guy (almost 9"). (Married to my high school sweetheart with whom I was faithful from day one so no others to even compare. He's of average size.) Checked all the boxes in the original post. They guy was 12 years my junior and very happy to give me a memorable first experience. I was left totally speechless. He was a perfect first time guy. He was not so self absorbed that he made me feel like a whore. He knew he was big, he didn't have to remind me or fish for compliments. I was his first deep throat. So not only did I get a great first experience, I also was able to give my first.... his first.... and it wasn't painful at all.. sheer pleasure. I would be interested to hear his story (after reading some of the guys' interpretations of their experiences here.) I never got the impression that he was a braggart, but he was def not short on confidence.

Very interesting post Mrs. Betty Cocker...and I agree with you. From what you shared, I don't think your experiences after menopause are unique from "most" women. From my experiences your "I got hornier. I got wetter. I squirted for the first time in my life after menopause." is not uncommon at all. Which is one of the reasons I prefer older women.
That, and many of them have had multiple children, so if they were not born with a naturally "big" or even "huge" vagina compared to "most" women...they might have been "stretched out" enough to be able to work with me and adjust to my width/circumference enough to eventually get me in deep enough to find their "bottom". Fortunately for the women and I...it usually takes quite a few "learner fucks"...to eventually get that deep...so multiple orgasms for them and I...yippee...LOL.

Oh, your profile is not viewable...I hope you change that. Take care...Ben

 

[BigBen]

girthier than my husband, yes... the most girthy? no.

Ms. Betty Cocker...your response begs the questions...how long and thick around was your first deep throat guy you mentioned? And how long and thick around is your husband? And since your first deep throat guy and your husband were not your most "girthy"...how long and how thick around was your most "girthy" and how many inches of him did you deep throat? And how long and how thick around was your longest guy, and how much of him did you take?

 

[Betty_Cocker]

First guy.. 8.5x6
Husband 5x4
Biggest 9x6.5

All the way.

 

[lapdog2001]

First, very impressive Ms. Betty! Those are very lucky men to have had the pleasure of your pleasures!

As to the original question, most of the women I've been with have been younger than me, by a year of two, sometimes more. Of course as years went by, 'younger women' was always relative to my own age. When I met the woman who is now my wife, we were both in our 40s, and yes, I was the biggest she ever had. No, she didn't go nuts, but she did make a comment on my size (she still does) and she certainly enjoyed our first time together, and our 2nd, and our 3rd, etc.

She is also only 1 of 2 women that could almost deep throat me, so I am very happy in many ways!