Opinion

[soren10]

so guys some of you have been here for long, after seeing how men are treated in this place when they join and post in the female sections of this place. what do you make of it ? what is your opinion about those 2 subsections and about some of the women of this place ?

full disclosure imho they exhibit clear signs of misandry , at least some of them. they can't even pretend to be " objective ".

thoughts ?

 

[INCUBUS]

 

[thickcockjames]

Meh, don't like what someone has to say, engage in civilized conversation with them or move on to the next post.

 

[marriedasian]

my honest opinion is if we would ask some objective questions with meaningful facts and information, plus non-derogatory opinions then we would probably get some objective answers instead of subjective reactions. not only that, but i'm convinced at least 90% of us men here do not know what the "search" function is on this site. we keep asking the same questions over and over and over and over and over...

imagine you buy a lambo one day and your neighbor comes over and asked you why you bought it. you tell him. tomorrow, he asks you again why you bought it. you tell him. the next day he asks you the same thing; and the next, and the next, and the next, and so on... kinda get what the women here are going through?

just peruse some of the threads in the "ask a women" sub-forum and there is so much insecurity in there that it's not even funny. of those insecurity-related threads, we're indirectly asking the women here to validate our skewed view on the subject and when they spit out the truth, we can't handle it or call out the women for lying or whatever... women are not that hard to understand. go pick up a few psychology books on women and your eyes will open wide (and while you're at it, go pick up a few books on masculinity and being a man too).

there's many more examples but probably the worst one is when we guys assume to know what women want and/or need or should say or whatever... and then when they say otherwise to what we "think they should say", we attack them for lying because "all women love big dicks and there's no way ever that a women can ever love a small, i mean, why would they?!"... we also think all women are size queens, love dick-pics in their DMs, are all sluts, always promiscuous, etc... it's a wonder there's women here at all still answering our questions. what i'm trying to say is that the women here have already lost any conversation before they even think about replying to one.

lastly, to clear things up, i'm no beta orbiter or white knight trying to defend the women on here. i'm certainly not a misogynist either. don't even get me started on MGTOW. i love women overall. i do think women are a bit crazy at times however that's part of their nature and then we (men) through our interactions and conversations with them, amplify that craziness to no end or degree because we don't understand women.

i don't want us men to bow down to women, hell no; we're the dominant sex. i want us men to understand women and know how to put them in there place in a fashion that they will go there willingly (and trust me they will go willingly). i don't have enough time to even begin to explain this here. just go do the research yourself, it will be more meaningful that way.

 

[Hatt_101]

I’ve like the two sub sections that the women have and I notice that some guys either clearly don’t know how to follow the posting rules or just ask idiotically repetitive questions. That goes for some questions posted here as well in this sub forum.

The ask a women section it’s to ask them anything ya but when the exactly same thing gets asked over and over and over again it gets old.

The women issue section has many things that arnt issues and since it’s not ask a women lot of the time the questions are not answered by women.

When a normal question is asked it gets an appropriate response and answer which is the one thing I like most about this place. Because the women are actually helpful contrary to what some people may think.

 

[Hatt_101]

Also to add I know that the ask a forums are restricted to who can answer, (mainly because of some men who don’t understand subheadings.) but I feel that is ask a man, and all 3 forums that come with it, when a questions is involving a woman that the women should be able to respond in it.

Mainly because they most likely would not high jack the thread since their are less women here to begin with. And just looking at post history you can tell it would not go off the rails. Like it would if men were allowed to answer in ask a women.

@Mr. LPSG just a suggestion. Especially after that thread where TnJ and a guy were talking I each other but through different threads because women couldn’t post in this section.

 

[ronin001]

Imagine a typical family house where the woman / wife decorates the kitchen, the living room, the bed room, the bathroom, the den, the kitchen. Some men try to make a small corner of the house their domain / women keep out. I am referring to the sought after Man Cave . The man cave is a place where a guy can watch TV, play pool , drink beer, hide porn from his wife / GF. read sports illustrated swimsuit edition in peace ; and hang with the guys. Not have to wipe their feet, use coasters, curse at the game ETC.

But as LPSG is a predominantly male structured place, we men control and decorate most of the rooms / threads here. The women of LPSG have their version of the man cave. The she shed. The she shed is primarily tucked away inside the Ask a women, Women's issues threads. Pretty much there they rule, decorate and set the tone

My observation is that Men and women are wired differently. For example New member joins at 1PM, announces he has a 9 inch penis and who wants to Suck it. 1o members male will chime in me first Etc. Take that same man posting the same 9 inch resume to the woman's threads he will not receive the same reaction.

I can honestly say that in my years here, I have only had one tiff with a lady and it was not really even serious.

 

[Sagittarius84]

I don't buy that there's an issue. I have disagreements with the women that frequent said threads on a regular basis, but never have felt victim by misandrist dogma or whatnot, In fact I noticed if you keep a real authentic (non misogynist) energy, the only obstacles one comes across is healthy debate. Dont hijack threads nor post in places not geared to your specific gender expression..and if you feel so incensed or triggered as to what a woman might have posted in a section you cannot respond to, simply start a new thread where you can and refer to the matter there.
I for one appreciate the separation and the non confrontational nature of having gendered threads either may read but only matching gender can answer...makes discussions here less of a free for all melee and more like a strategic Battleship like game.

 

[Sagittarius84]

but i'm convinced at least 90% of us men here do not know what the "search" function is on this site. we keep asking the same questions over and over and over and over and over...

I can push back on this a bit to mens' benefit...
For all the non monolith talk women typically express when it comes to men interacting with them, I can imagine the frustration of a man that does a general or site specific search for common men's complaints only for 90%of the results coming back to a gynocentric, male faulted or derived conclusion.
It doesn't happen too often but every once and a while in a lot of these sex based questions 1-2 women will be more forthcoming and candid then the others, providing some little known insight at the expense of whatever societal advantage coyness typically offers.
Repetitive stresses in chosen locations tend to reveal underlying flaws and weaknesses.

 

[INCUBUS]

Well the line has been drawn. See how long this temp banned will last this time!?!?!

 

[1345864]

so guys some of you have been here for long, after seeing how men are treated in this place when they join and post in the female sections of this place. what do you make of it ? what is your opinion about those 2 subsections and about some of the women of this place ?

full disclosure imho they exhibit clear signs of misandry , at least some of them. they can't even pretend to be " objective ".

thoughts ?

I honestly have not run across any tangible examples of misandry from the women on here. I have seen some react with (justifiable) disgust at moronic/misogynistic posts. I have seen some that are weary/exhausted at some male behaviors, but still have not seen any real male-bashing.

With regards to the female-oriented corners of LPSG: I consider those their spaces and if I (and other guys) appear in one of those such as Women's Issues, it is as a guest.

From where I stand, if you want to be treated decently by them, it's pretty simple.
1. Don't act like a douchebag.
2. Don't condescend or mansplain to them when they opine on an issue (see #1).
3. If you ask a question specifically to them, don't get angry at them if you don't like the answer you're given. I'd rather hear the unalloyed truth than have someone yank my chain and blow smoke up my ass.

They seem to shoot from the hip and have a no-bullshit approach, which should be respected even if you don't necessarily agree with their assertions.

 

[casper72]

Todd987 couldn't have said it any better. Or plainer. These ladies have equal rights to an opinion as anybody, and in some cases discussed they are the unchallenged experts. Man, I love 'em.

 

[rbi99]

While I wouldn't call it a problem, the issue with women responses is that so few actually engage in any conversation here. Just throwing out a number, but what, maybe 12 women respond? Because of that, and as others have said, the same questions get asked repeatedly, we see the same responses. I'm sure there are a lot of women who definitely prefer a huge cock over smaller ones, or get excited when they see a guy's bulge, etc. It's just that the women who do respond don't put much emphasis on them and so they prioritize those kinds of things lower then what we guys might think they would. Certainly doesn't make us or them wrong, just that there isn't a very large sample size.

 

[japetty]

While I wouldn't call it a problem, the issue with women responses is that so few actually engage in any conversation here. Just throwing out a number, but what, maybe 12 women respond? Because of that, and as others have said, the same questions get asked repeatedly, we see the same responses. I'm sure there are a lot of women who definitely prefer a huge cock over smaller ones, or get excited when they see a guy's bulge, etc. It's just that the women who do respond don't put much emphasis on them and so they prioritize those kinds of things lower then what we guys might think they would. Certainly doesn't make us or them wrong, just that there isn't a very large sample size.

I feel that the number of female that respond to threads here would number fewer that 12. I could not put an exact number but I just don't see that many female responding. I see more female responding in "Photo Verification Requests" Forum than I see anywhere else. That tells me there are plenty of females lurking here. I do really like the responses of the females who do respond to many of the threads here. We all have our own reasons for being here and i respect that. We all have our own way of enjoying our time here.

 

[Gj816]

I generally like keeping my opinions to myself. Once it's out there you can't take it back.

 

[Rewardheragain148]

Eh, I don’t take it personal really.
I got my head bit off when I first joined LPSG but now I understand why; it’s usually the same questions over and over that get the women upset so I wouldn’t take that as misandrism .

The women on this board actually provide a nice contrast whenever I get lost in my insecurities or if another man gets lost in his insecure fantasy; the ladies do a good job of bringing us back to Earth ... if that makes since... I always appreciate a female opinion.

Also having female presence in general is nice too it add diversity to the board.