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I think of ones "orgasm-ability" as the average number of orgasms that you would or could have in one session and maybe something like average orgasm strength. Like most men, I peaked young - lets say 18 for this forum - and could have 3-4 in an hour every day. Now mid 40s I can still have 2 but I need 10-20 min rest in between to refresh and I can't have 2 orgasms two days in a row. My O's feel equally strong/good as at age 18. My wife is the opposite. When we met she could only have <1 per week. At 30 it was 0-2 per week and ~1 per session and now with mid-40s it is ~2 per session 2x per week and her orgasms are much stronger. I would like to think that I am better in bed - maybe my increased patience made a difference?? But I think that the real change happened as my wife learned to relax and allow herself to let go of control - she thinks so too. She also thinks that a body massage pre-sex is terribly important.
I would be interested to hear how other people's orgasm-ability changed throughout life and your thoughts about why. I posted in "ask a woman" because (1) most men follow a declining pattern, which is boring and depressing and (2) ask a woman is where the most thoughtful answers are likely to originate.
I would be interested to hear how other people's orgasm-ability changed throughout life and your thoughts about why. I posted in "ask a woman" because (1) most men follow a declining pattern, which is boring and depressing and (2) ask a woman is where the most thoughtful answers are likely to originate.