Out and dl at the same time?

[Rockstar07]

New to this site and only very recently came out. I’m 40, married with kids. Happily my wife was very understanding and is supportive. My oldest kid knows, as do most of my close friends and a couple siblings. I’m not sure if I’m ready to be out to the world yet. The most important people know but somehow, acquaintances and strangers knowing is harder for me. I’m reprogramming from a lifetime of religious and conservative upbringing. I’m not too worried about social backlash as I’ve surrounded myself with increasingly progressive and kind people up to this point, starting with my spouse. But I’m not sure why I still have this hang up. Though I’ll tell anyone if they ask me directly.
I’m hoping some down to earth conversation may help me out.
Also, my wife is happy to let me fantasize on the internet all I want, and is even open to some 3 way play. Doesn’t want an open marriage though, neither do I really. Just want to explore this newly open part of me!

 

[LaFemme]

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[BigdongSE]

Hello and welcome

 

[Curious65]

New to this site and only very recently came out. I’m 40, married with kids. Happily my wife was very understanding and is supportive. My oldest kid knows, as do most of my close friends and a couple siblings. I’m not sure if I’m ready to be out to the world yet. The most important people know but somehow, acquaintances and strangers knowing is harder for me. I’m reprogramming from a lifetime of religious and conservative upbringing. I’m not too worried about social backlash as I’ve surrounded myself with increasingly progressive and kind people up to this point, starting with my spouse. But I’m not sure why I still have this hang up. Though I’ll tell anyone if they ask me directly.
I’m hoping some down to earth conversation may help me out.
Also, my wife is happy to let me fantasize on the internet all I want, and is even open to some 3 way play. Doesn’t want an open marriage though, neither do I really. Just want to explore this newly open part of me!

Welcome to the site. There are lots of kind and supportive people here. Don't forget to have some fun.

 

[Rockstar07]

Welcome to the site. There are lots of kind and supportive people here. Don't forget to have some fun.

Looking at your pictures is very fun! Thanks!

 

[swagger81]

Welcome! This is a great place and you should be able to find lots of support here. No rushing your journey. You are going through a lot. Wishing you the best and feel free to reach out for an ear.

 

[eddie63]

Welcome and Enjoy!

 

[saclove]

New to this site and only very recently came out. I’m 40, married with kids. Happily my wife was very understanding and is supportive. My oldest kid knows, as do most of my close friends and a couple siblings. I’m not sure if I’m ready to be out to the world yet. The most important people know but somehow, acquaintances and strangers knowing is harder for me. I’m reprogramming from a lifetime of religious and conservative upbringing. I’m not too worried about social backlash as I’ve surrounded myself with increasingly progressive and kind people up to this point, starting with my spouse. But I’m not sure why I still have this hang up. Though I’ll tell anyone if they ask me directly.
I’m hoping some down to earth conversation may help me out.
Also, my wife is happy to let me fantasize on the internet all I want, and is even open to some 3 way play. Doesn’t want an open marriage though, neither do I really. Just want to explore this newly open part of me!

Welcome to this new chapter in your life. Be thankful for an understanding wife, child and friends.! Enjoy yourself

 

[UKGay50]

 

[RJ5on1]

Welcome to LPSG!

 

[swimmerguydfw]

Welcome! I think that you'll find it's a continuous "journey"...and hopefully, that your interactions on this site can help you to come to terms with who YOU want to be. And, don't feel pressured about your "hang up". You can live a very rewarding life, sexually and otherwise, without advertising it to all the world.

 

[Kudo]

Welcome!

 

[AlextheRedhead]

Enjoy this site, a lot of erotic images and other useful information about many other things.

 

[mithyk]

New to this site and only very recently came out. I’m 40, married with kids. Happily my wife was very understanding and is supportive. My oldest kid knows, as do most of my close friends and a couple siblings. I’m not sure if I’m ready to be out to the world yet. The most important people know but somehow, acquaintances and strangers knowing is harder for me. I’m reprogramming from a lifetime of religious and conservative upbringing. I’m not too worried about social backlash as I’ve surrounded myself with increasingly progressive and kind people up to this point, starting with my spouse. But I’m not sure why I still have this hang up. Though I’ll tell anyone if they ask me directly.
I’m hoping some down to earth conversation may help me out.
Also, my wife is happy to let me fantasize on the internet all I want, and is even open to some 3 way play. Doesn’t want an open marriage though, neither do I really. Just want to explore this newly open part of me!

It's fantastic you really chose well your tribe and spouse... there must be some luck involved too! i'm glad to know these situations can actually co-exist! by the way welcome and happy permanence here!