penetration advices

[Joyrex]

Hi, I'm gay and top most of the time, I'd love to try bottom and this excites me a lot, but each times i try, I feel too much pain and seems to be impossible. tho, as a top I know it's not.

where should I start and how can I be penetrate without this so much pain ( I can handle a little though)

 

[Scott8361]

Just start with practicing on yourself before a partner. Find safe objects to try in your hole. Learn to relax. Start small and woek your way up.

It's all about relaxation and learning to control your muscles down there. And self exploration can be fun and pleasurable on its own! Especially when one discovers and unlocks the pleasure of the prostate!

 

[curtdude]

lots of lube and go slowly allow your hole to slowly dilate open up to accept the object

 

[Joyrex]

thank you guys, I'll try slowly

 

[louparis10]

Start self practice with dildo. Small one first then you will see that you can get bigger

 

[thongboy]

play with your fingers or a dildo. Get a set of butt plugs of varying size. Use lots of lube. Learn to relax. And don't assume that the top is in total control. I always listen to what my bottoms are telling me. They may want me to go more slowly, use more lube or angle my cock differently to go go balls deep. A good ass fuck is a partnership thing

 

[goldscorpguy]

play with your fingers or a dildo. Get a set of butt plugs of varying size. Use lots of lube. Learn to relax. And don't assume that the top is in total control. I always listen to what my bottoms are telling me. They may want me to go more slowly, use more lube or angle my cock differently to go go balls deep. A good ass fuck is a partnership thing

As a bottom, I can only echo this great advice. I have this regime I follow when I know I'm going to be fucked. I get physically prepared, cleaning and using butt plugs. I try to condition my body to take him inside, that way any pain is kept to the minimum.

 

[tps87]

Before penetration, clench your hole really hard for 20-30 seconds. The muscles will become exhausted then when you relax they will tend to stay relaxed/be really relaxed for a couple minutes as they recover.