bobmackdaddy
Loved Member
We have a city rec center and they have a shower room in the men's locker room and thankfully family rooms completely separate. The shower room is completely visible from the locker area and I've been shocked by how many people openly stare at it while getting dressed/undressed. While they're staring at the room, I'm staring at them openly staring at the room LOL. I play basketball and pickleball there and sometimes get to see some of the guys showering afterwards. It's disappointing how many men will even in winter come dressed ready to play just to avoid changing/showering. It's so fun to banter about the game afterwards before we go eat lunch. I tend to keep my eyes up 99% of the time but still enjoy the sense that there are fewer barriers between all of us.