I was reading a thread where someone wanted to get better at taking his partners cock which was about 7” and could never get passed the gag reflex. He found a trainer with his partner’s permission and the trainer explained that the reflex is natural and he could help him get passed that by getting him confident and winning his trust. The trainer guided him while placing his cock to the point of reflex and convincing him to take it further to the point he was able to push pass and take up to 7”. The point I picked up was once your at the reflex spot work it slow, your going to gag, and when you feel confident push it in with gentle force to passed that reflex point.
I experienced this last night for the first time. It was everything described by many on this site. The tears, gagging, fear. After a while and at the gag point I pushed my 6” dildo in and was stunned I got pass the first reflex point. I pulled it out and a sense of accomplishment came over me. I had to give it another go because I didn’t believe that i actually had it half way down my throat. The second entry I reacted with the same reflex but was able to pass it easier the second time, but I hit another gag point but did not feel I had to pull it out. At this point I decided to continue and to my surprise I got the entire dildo down my throat with a third reflex, cough, and lots of saliva when I slowly pulled it out. Success! Oh, had nothing to eat for 4hrs.