Prefer Hung Guys For Hookups?

[deleted1025121]

I'm just curious for the women out there. If you're just really horny and looking for a hookup online or wherever to you find one...do you prefer to find guys that are well-endowed rather than guys that are say on the small side?

Just watching shows like Sex and the City, etc where women clearly talk about the size of guys junk among themselves does it play a part in their attractiveness for said hookup?

I'm well aware size probably isn't a factor long term. Like for LTRs or husband material, etc. I know its deeper than that. But for just a hookup...does having a large wang help?

 

[Scarletbegonia]

Penis, Anal, Dirty Talk, And Toys: Frequently Asked Questions

 

[ArtAppreciation]

I haven’t used Tinder etc as I’ve always been in in long term relationships. But since I’ve been on LPSG, I think my standards have changed.

If I decided to have a hook up, he would definitely need to be packing. That really turns me on, so it would be important to me.

 

[LaFemme]

Sex and the City wasn’t a documentary. Lol! There’s a lot less of that type of discussion that portrayed in the media.

I don’t hookup anymore, but when I did, size was never a factor. Even a guy for a hookup, needed to be funny and smart. The person makes sex fun, not the size of his penis.

 

[Tight_N_Juicy]

I can cum without penetration at all. So, no. Being bigger didn't make a difference even when I wasn't looking for long term commitment.

 

[deleted1025121]

I see so many tv shows and movies of girls secretly talking amongst themselves about their bf's package that I always assumed it was a given. Same as gay men talk about their conquests size...or at least make jokes about it. So I was just wondering if that might be a requirement, or maybe just an advantage, when women go online looking only for a hookup. Or eve if a woman hires an escort, etc. I guess in real life its always luck of the draw meeting a guy at a bar or party, etc. You get what you get in that situation.

 

[Scarletbegonia]

I’m going to suggest that the male writers of such shows (and ongoing shows have writing teams) are using teenage habits and/or their own wish/hopes/dreams/fears in the plot lines.
And it’s fiction.
Stereotypes suck.

 

[deleted1025121]

I’m going to suggest that the male writers of such shows (and ongoing shows have writing teams) are using teenage habits and/or their own wish/hopes/dreams/fears in the plot lines.
And it’s fiction.
Stereotypes suck.

Haha. I agree with you there!

 

[Holly Doors]

I haven't dated for soooooo long, back when I was online cattle market dating didn't really exist either, I did look for guys who were packing tho back in the day but that's my personal preference, I simply don't get my pleasure from intercourse with average guys.

 

[deleted1025121]

I haven't dated for soooooo long, back when I was online cattle market dating didn't really exist either, I did look for guys who were packing tho back in the day but that's my personal preference, I simply don't get my pleasure from intercourse with average guys.

Just curious what "packing" was for you. Like over 8" or something? I assume avg guys you mean like 5-6"?

 

[Angie420]

I definitely factor it in but it’s not the most important factor

 

[MickeyLee]

My brain took this to a spoopy-Burton-Charles Addams place. I am kinda hecking into it.

 

[ArtAppreciation]

Just curious what "packing" was for you. Like over 8" or something? I assume avg guys you mean like 5-6"?

I know you were asking Holly, but I just wanted to say that thickness is more important than length in my humble opinion.

Length matters too, but it has to be proportionate. I’m not great with numbers. I just know what I like when I see it, and average doesn’t turn me on in the same way

 

[deleted1025121]

I know you were asking Holly, but I just wanted to say that thickness is more important than length in my humble opinion.

Length matters too, but it has to be proportionate. I’m not great with numbers. I just know what I like when I see it, and average doesn’t turn me on in the same way

I would agree with that. It seems the girth is more important than length in most situations. Unless the guy is like 3" long. Then it'd look just weird. Still needs to have some length for the penetration I would think.

 

[Mittimer]

I would agree with that. It seems the girth is more important than length in most situations. Unless the guy is like 3" long. Then it'd look just weird. Still needs to have some length for the penetration I would think.

3" is nothing to turn one's nose up at. Fingers feel great. My pointer finger is exact three inches of insertable goodness. Which means, my middle finger is a smidge more. Together, they are pretty darn great. A 3" dick with some thickness is still perfectly capable of getting the job done. It's may not be mind blowing, but it won't feel like a popsicle stick flapping around in there.

With that out of the way, I am a girth > length woman. I don't want a "hung" guy. "Small" is very subjective, especially around here. By small, I will assume you mean closer to 5"? You can correct me if I'm wrong, but it won't change the outcome of my ultimate statement. I don't need a dick to get me off. If I did, sex with women would not be nearly as fun as it has been in my life.

I don't prefer to casually hook up with men. So finding one online is rarely a thing for me. In the very few times I've met someone virtually before having a sexual relationship with them, their dick didn't come up. Not until we were literally in bed. One was average, perfect so. The other was slightly above with a thicc member. Both were an absolute blast to be with. Neither edged the other out. Thicker, longer, bigger etc does not work better and it is NOT superior, contrary to what a plethora of self proclaimed alpha bros would have you think around here.

We, as women have a stopping point inside of us. There's no negotiating with that physical wall that exists. Some can handle 8", others can handle 5" and yet another 10". I am someone who can easily handle 5"-7", anything beyond that and you're aggressively pounding into my cervix. A touch can be fine. An aggressive punch repeatedly to the cervix is however nauseating for some of us.

So, unless a well hung guy knows what the fuck he's doing, he is absolutely not in any way, shape or form appealing to be with.

TL : DR We don't talk about dick like they seem to do on TV, nor do we jump up and down with glee when a big d springs out of some dudes pants. No, I don't need or want a hung dude for sex. It does not appeal.

 

[Holly Doors]

Just curious what "packing" was for you. Like over 8" or something? I assume avg guys you mean like 5-6"?

Exactly hunni.

 

[lorenalopez123]

For me size is important. Is better feeling and I feel much more woman. Maybe is mental but i get much better when I have big size.

 

[Brianne_24]

sigh. The reality is just like with height there's definitely such a thing as too small (objectively, not always subjectively), though it's rare to hear socially and sexually active women be honest about it due to the social stigma such honesty provokes and the fact that it's a very niche preference. It also feels rude, weird and unsexy to point out to someone they literally have the dick of a small child, and that kind of dynamic certainly doesn't meet our needs very much aside from rent money.

If you've ever been with a man who's got two inches or less you'll know what i mean, but they're so rare that most don't realize penises that small exist. There's also such a thing as too big, but even men who are ridiculously huge will find more luck w/ hook-ups than men who are extremely small.

I used to think size never mattered (objectively) and was an overhyped construct entirely invented by men, and even though it really doesn't matter to me when long term relationships are concerned, regardless of how i feel there's a decent amount of quantitative evidence now that indicates it's fair to admit there's some objective precedent for why so many men feel left out because of this and even without researching the data, a few hours on tinder will give often you an idea of how common it is.

That said, there's also plenty of objective evidence that indicates being a creepy, bigoted, mean, insecure, etc person makes you far less desirable than anything else. Another thing to keep in mind is men compared to women have historically held social monopoly on getting to be open about what bodytypes, heights, etc turn them on. You might start seeing the opposite more frequently and if that genuinely upsets you, it might be good to do some soul-searching as to why.

 

[Scarletbegonia]

One thing, if your peen is small, lose the fat pad. Don’t turn 4 inches into two because of beer.

 

[Brianne_24]

One thing, if your peen is small, lose the fat pad. Don’t turn 4 inches into two because of beer.

True, but to be fair there are also men who are that tiny without being overweight! and four inches is pretty small too and is a niche preference in general.