Pressure for a higher libido

[Tight_N_Juicy]

Just a bit of a vent based solely on the amount of cis men who always complain about their cis woman partners lack of sex drive. The number of questions we get about how to get a woman to be as horny as him as often is just.. frustrating. To put it very kindly.

I have a healthy appetite but not constantly throughout my rollercoaster of a life with my health issues. I'm very grateful my fella truly understands and doesn't make me feel like shit for not being able to get horny as hell all the time the way he does.

The guys who piss and moan about it, like bro we get it. It does suck. I know you're frustrated.. You think she's not?? The selfishness is just further off-putting and isn't going to help her what your cock in her.

To those dudes, truly put yourself in their shoes.. To be with someone who wants you to be horny but your body physically just can't get there and they RESENT you for it when you yourself wish you could get all the way into it. But you can't.. No matter how hard you try. You've tried all the possible options to raise your sex drive, but nothing works and it just makes you feel worse. Then your partner makes you feel worse.

To my fella, THANK YOU for never ever once making me feel inadequate for the times I just couldn't get horny with you. I fucking love you. You brown balled fucker you.

 

[AllieHeidi]

Let's not rule out the strong possibility that a lot of these men have partners who genuinely are no longer attracted to them nor desire them for reasons that they themselves have yet to articulate. And if that's the case there is nothing they can do but wait for her to finally figure it out and just leave.

Sometimes, there's some subconscious 'Barbara Rose shit' festering beneath the surface and even she doesn't realize it until she finally snaps. A lot of them are posting about women who may very well just be done.

 

[dreamer20]

I am astonished to see three individuals thought that clip was funny. Domestic abuse is no laughing matter. Grounds for her to be charged for assault and their divorce in reality.

 

[Tight_N_Juicy]

I am astonished to see three individuals thought that clip was funny. Domestic abuse is no laughing matter. Grounds for her to be charged for assault and their divorce in reality.

I actually didn't watch the clip. I thought what she said was funny. Just to clarify.

Domestic abuse is not a laughing matter. You're right.

 

[AllieHeidi]

Domestic abuse is no laughing matter.

He told her to do it. Very combatively. If an angry person tells you they have a desire to "smash your face in," don't get in their face, dare them to do it, and then get mad when they actually do it. You asked for it and you got it.

 

[Tight_N_Juicy]

He told her to do it. Very combatively. If an angry person tells you they have a desire to "smash your face in," don't get in their face, dare them to do it, and then get mad when they actually do it. You asked for it and you got it.

I can't disagree.

Still didn't watch the clip.

I always know when I post one it's probably not watched.. I'm gonna watch it now out of obligation.

Point of the thread: people who resent their partner who they claim to love (particularly married monogamous people) for not being exactly what they want 100% of the time, or over time are no longer able to be what they might have been in the beginning can fuck themselves for all I care.

It's emotionally abusive to intentionally make your partner feel bad for not being as horny as you. Gender irrelevant.

I'm specifically speaking on behalf of people who have genuine issues getting physically aroused and/or reaching orgasm. It's not voluntary. The same way BEING horny regularly isn't voluntary.

Humans are fucking stupid. Intelligent but so fucking stupid

 

[Evenflow618]

A lot of men need to do semen retention, instead of masturbating because their wife doesn’t give them sex. It’s all excuses by a lot of guys that they feel unsatisfied in a relationship because their wife or partner doesn’t give them sex any time.

 

[Scarletbegonia]

I can't disagree.

Still didn't watch the clip.

I always know when I post one it's probably not watched.. I'm gonna watch it now out of obligation.

Point of the thread: people who resent their partner who they claim to love (particularly married monogamous people) for not being exactly what they want 100% of the time, or over time are no longer able to be what they might have been in the beginning can fuck themselves for all I care.

It's emotionally abusive to intentionally make your partner feel bad for not being as horny as you. Gender irrelevant.

I'm specifically speaking on behalf of people who have genuine issues getting physically aroused and/or reaching orgasm. It's not voluntary. The same way BEING horny regularly isn't voluntary.

Humans are fucking stupid. Intelligent but so fucking stupid

God forbid people pay attention to the point of the thread.

 

[Haggard_Wisdom]

A lot of men need to do semen retention, instead of masturbating because their wife doesn’t give them sex. It’s all excuses by a lot of guys that they feel unsatisfied in a relationship because their wife or partner doesn’t give them sex any time.

Semen retention? Wouldn't release, even through 'unemployment hand-outs' to coin a phrase, be better? Retention, not edging but full-on retention, would just make the frustration grow, I'd imagine.

Semen retention: Are there benefits to not ejaculating?

 

[Evenflow618]

Semen retention? Wouldn't release, even through 'unemployment hand-outs' to coin a phrase, be better? Retention, not edging but full-on retention, would just make the frustration grow, I'd imagine.

Semen retention: Are there benefits to not ejaculating?

Releasing is making you weaker. The semen is vital and powerful fluid. Ejaculation needs to be released for pregnancy motive.

 

[freeballerlondon]

Semen retention? Wouldn't release, even through 'unemployment hand-outs' to coin a phrase, be better? Retention, not edging but full-on retention, would just make the frustration grow, I'd imagine.

Semen retention: Are there benefits to not ejaculating?

Don’t pay any attention to him. He spouts the same drivel all over this forum - it’s some sort of fetish of his. There is no such thing as ‘retaining’ semen and abstinence can potentially lead to all sorts of very real physical complaints other than the famous (and real) blue balls.
In fact, one of the most mis-diagnosed ailments in adolescent boys is aspecific (or idiopathic) prostatitis, which is caused - in part - by *under*performing.

Since there are more and more idiots spouting nonsense such as sperm being a life force or something (actually an old idea, rehashed, and often based on some religious delusion), we see a sharp increase in these problems

 

[Oldcowboy]

Rarely monogamous—and never misrepresent. I value upfront and honesty.

The idea that one individual—-or one sex—-could meet my sexual needs is unrealistic.

 

[cofrader]

God forbid people pay attention to the point of the thread.

I understand @Tight_N_Juicy there is a general whining about it for me is clear take the matter with your own hands or take the highway.
On a relationship since I been here for a while i assume i have the higher libido so I don't rush or pressure it.
My wife says I'm a boy scout always ready, once even with a broken arm we have sex.

 

[FrankieGuile]

I understand @Tight_N_Juicy there is a general whining about it for me is clear take the matter with your own hands or take the highway.
On a relationship since I been here for a while i assume i have the higher libido so I don't rush or pressure it.
My wife says I'm a boy scout always ready, once even with a broken arm we have sex.

You may be a boy scout, but you're no grammarian.

 

[Tight_N_Juicy]

You may be a boy scout, but you're no grammarian.

I don't think English is their first language, if I'm remembering correctly.

 

[cofrader]

I don't think English is their first language, if I'm remembering correctly.

Actually the third, but he is right I'm no grammarian on any language

 

[freeballerlondon]

Actually the third, but he is right I'm no grammarian on any language

Something tells me you’re most likely better at English, than he is at your (or any other) language.

 

[FrankieGuile]

Actually the third, but he is right I'm no grammarian on any language

At least you've got your sense of humor which is a credit to you.