Private messages

[Nudedad41]

Is there a way of sending private messages? Seems like everything is so public here . From what page you visit to what picture you like and what member you was looking at.

 

[Indelicate]

Go to the member's Profile Page. Underneath their avatar, you will see "Start a conversation". Click to private message the member.

 

[Nudedad41]

Hey thanks so much. Also is there a way of looking or liking something without the whole site knowing. Sry but a lil discretion is always nice

 

[kcrown1967]

No, that part is for all the world to see unfortunately. It is one of the things I don't like about the new layout. Enjoy your time here

 

[Nudedad41]

Hey Kcrown1967. Thanks for the answer.

 

[kcrown1967]

No problem, always happy to help a new member out

 

[LaFemme]

Is there a way of sending private messages? Seems like everything is so public here . From what page you visit to what picture you like and what member you was looking at.

You can also just click on the member's avatar and there's a shortcut to 'start a conversation'.

You can also set your own activity to be invisible on your settings page. I don't know if it hides what pictures you look at, but it does increase your level of privacy.

 

[brinzaulsschwul]

I like that you cannot hide, wanting to see someone without being seen sounds a little creepy and stalkerish to me. I'd hate someone following me and not knowing, just the same as in the street

The OP or any of us could be a sex offender, Murderer (clearly not caught yet) con artist etc, so for me who is just a regular guy enjoying the site I like the openness, it also makes it easier for all of us to police and keep ourselves and others safer

Brinz

 

[Nudedad41]

You can also just click on the member's avatar and there's a shortcut to 'start a conversation'.

You can also set your own activity to be invisible on your settings page. I don't know if it hides what pictures you look at, but it does increase your level of privacy.

I like that you cannot hide, wanting to see someone without being seen sounds a little creepy and stalkerish to me. I'd hate someone following me and not knowing, just the same as in the street

The OP or any of us could be a sex offender, Murderer (clearly not caught yet) con artist etc, so for me who is just a regular guy enjoying the site I like the openness, it also makes it easier for all of us to police and keep ourselves and others safer

Brinz

Its no

I like that you cannot hide, wanting to see someone without being seen sounds a little creepy and stalkerish to me. I'd hate someone following me and not knowing, just the same as in the street

The OP or any of us could be a sex offender, Murderer (clearly not caught yet) con artist etc, so for me who is just a regular guy enjoying the site I like the openness, it also makes it easier for all of us to police and keep ourselves and others safer

Brinz

Well its not about hiding as you put it.

 

[Nudedad41]

You can also just click on the member's avatar and there's a shortcut to 'start a conversation'.

You can also set your own activity to be invisible on your settings page. I don't know if it hides what pictures you look at, but it does increase your level of privacy.

Hi A few people have told me that thanks for your help

 

[Nudedad41]

Thanks to the people that answered and helped