Rate my... face?!

[LittleBlade]

Yes, I know we all come on here to see pictures of hot cocks and cute arses (so check out my Media for those! ), but...

I've never thought much of my looks, and since no guy in the real world has ever given me any indication to the contrary, I have this idea that I must be Quasimodo's less attractive brother! Don't get me wrong : I don't expect anyone to look at me the same way they would Henry Cavill, but it would be nice to know there's someone out there who might found me attractive.

So I'm taking a chance and posting my face pic here, and asking for your opinion. Give a 1-10 rating, 10 being "Hubba-hubba, put your pants on - I just wanna gaze into your dreamy eyes! " and 1 being "Ick, put your pants over your head - I'd rather look at your butthole! ". If you want to leave a general comment too that would be fine, but don't be cruel... my delicate ego isn't up to it!

For reference, I'm 59.

 

[Thyman]

I'd give you a 7. You givevthe impression of a worldy man.

 

[LittleBlade]

I'd give you a 7. You givevthe impression of a worldy man.

Wow, thank you - that's a higher rating than I was expecting! And thank you for being the first to respond!

 

[Yikes2311]

You're a 10 for me your smile is gorgeous

 

[LittleBlade]

You're a 10 for me your smile is gorgeous

Aaaww, you're so kind!

 

[Thyman]

Wow, thank you - that's a higher rating than I was expecting! And thank you for being the first to respond!

No problem sir. Everyone deserves a response.

 

[Nogbert]

I'd say 6. Your not a bad looking guy by any means, and considering your age even more impressive to be honest. Just not really my personal cup of tea. But you do have a very pleasant smile and kind eyes.

 

[LittleBlade]

I'd say 6. Your not a bad looking guy by any means, and considering your age even more impressive to be honest. Just not really my personal cup of tea. But you do have a very pleasant smile and kind eyes.

Thank you - that's very sweet, and I appreciate your honesty.I know I'm not going to appeal to everyone, but that's still a higher rating than I expected!

 

[LittleBlade]

Thanks to everyone for taking the time to check out this post, and for your lovely comments : they're a lot better than I was expecting, so I feel happier with my looks now!

So what was it all about?
Someone on here initiated a Conversation with me because he liked my content - I liked his, so I replied. Before long, he sent me - unprompted - a naughty picture, and I reciprocated... something I hadn't done before. It wasn't an issue : we were both very turned on by each other. Over the next few days, pictures became short videos, requests were fulfilled, and everything was great. He told me how sexy and hot I was, and how much I turned him on; it turned me on that he was aroused by me.
Then he asked for a picture of my face. I'd never intended to post pictures of my face here - part of the freedom of posting on here is the anonymity. But I thought why not? He'd seen every other part of me, it was just between the two of us, and it's not as if I'd told him I was an Adonis.
He said he liked it. But things changed, almost instantly. When I posted new Media, the Likes and comments that usually came from him stopped. My contributions to the Conversation would go unanswered, and not marked "Like" as before so I'd known they'd been read. I kept making excuses for his non-response, and the fact that he was still coming on here looking at and commenting on other people's stuff.
(Now you can probably see where this is going at this point. I could see where this was going at this point! But I didn't want to believe that something so good had turned so bad, so quickly.)
Everything changed since he'd seen my face. In my mind, I was so repellent to him that he could no longer associate it with the "hot" and "sexy" guy who turned him on so much, who'd exchanged cock, butt, and cumshot pictures and videos with him. And it made me feel like shit.
So I posted this thread. I wanted to know : was I so hideous? Well, judging from the comments I've had here... no, I'm not. He's the one with the problem.
Things came to a head yesterday. We had arranged to chat (and the rest ) on Sunday. Sunday morning came... nothing, no message asking if I was around. Again, I made excuses for him. Monday came... still nothing. I wanted to know what was going on, so I sent him a message. I asked if he was okay and that I was disappointed we hadn't chatted; I asked if I'd offended him in some way, or if my looks had turned him off; I reminded him of the fun we'd had and how much it meant to me, but that if he didn't want to chat anymore to just tell me and I wouldn't bother him again.
He visited the site that night, but didn't reply... he saved that until yesterday morning : a family member had died Saturday, so he didn't feel like chatting on Sunday. He agreed we'd had fun, but he wasn't in the right frame of mind to continue.
Yes, I know what you're thinking... I thought it too. But I didn't tell him that, just in case it was the truth. I told him I understood, and that if he did want to talk again, I'd be there.
What I didn't tell him was that a bereavement on Saturday didn't explain why he'd ghosted me for ten days prior to that; that he wasn't so upset by the bereavement that he still came on here on Sunday morning, but didn't reply to the message I'd sent on Friday telling him I was looking forward to our chat, or send a message telling me he wouldn't be coming on to chat that day.
What's most revealing is that he's now altered his profile settings so I no longer know if he's visited the site. Which says it all.

 

[Nogbert]

Thanks to everyone for taking the time to check out this post, and for your lovely comments : they're a lot better than I was expecting, so I feel happier with my looks now!

So what was it all about?
Someone on here initiated a Conversation with me because he liked my content - I liked his, so I replied. Before long, he sent me - unprompted - a naughty picture, and I reciprocated... something I hadn't done before. It wasn't an issue : we were both very turned on by each other. Over the next few days, pictures became short videos, requests were fulfilled, and everything was great. He told me how sexy and hot I was, and how much I turned him on; it turned me on that he was aroused by me.
Then he asked for a picture of my face. I'd never intended to post pictures of my face here - part of the freedom of posting on here is the anonymity. But I thought why not? He'd seen every other part of me, it was just between the two of us, and it's not as if I'd told him I was an Adonis.
He said he liked it. But things changed, almost instantly. When I posted new Media, the Likes and comments that usually came from him stopped. My contributions to the Conversation would go unanswered, and not marked "Like" as before so I'd known they'd been read. I kept making excuses for his non-response, and the fact that he was still coming on here looking at and commenting on other people's stuff.
(Now you can probably see where this is going at this point. I could see where this was going at this point! But I didn't want to believe that something so good had turned so bad, so quickly.)
Everything changed since he'd seen my face. In my mind, I was so repellent to him that he could no longer associate it with the "hot" and "sexy" guy who turned him on so much, who'd exchanged cock, butt, and cumshot pictures and videos with him. And it made me feel like shit.
So I posted this thread. I wanted to know : was I so hideous? Well, judging from the comments I've had here... no, I'm not. He's the one with the problem.
Things came to a head yesterday. We had arranged to chat (and the rest ) on Sunday. Sunday morning came... nothing, no message asking if I was around. Again, I made excuses for him. Monday came... still nothing. I wanted to know what was going on, so I sent him a message. I asked if he was okay and that I was disappointed we hadn't chatted; I asked if I'd offended him in some way, or if my looks had turned him off; I reminded him of the fun we'd had and how much it meant to me, but that if he didn't want to chat anymore to just tell me and I wouldn't bother him again.
He visited the site that night, but didn't reply... he saved that until yesterday morning : a family member had died Saturday, so he didn't feel like chatting on Sunday. He agreed we'd had fun, but he wasn't in the right frame of mind to continue.
Yes, I know what you're thinking... I thought it too. But I didn't tell him that, just in case it was the truth. I told him I understood, and that if he did want to talk again, I'd be there.
What I didn't tell him was that a bereavement on Saturday didn't explain why he'd ghosted me for ten days prior to that; that he wasn't so upset by the bereavement that he still came on here on Sunday morning, but didn't reply to the message I'd sent on Friday telling him I was looking forward to our chat, or send a message telling me he wouldn't be coming on to chat that day.
What's most revealing is that he's now altered his profile settings so I no longer know if he's visited the site. Which says it all.

People like that are just the worst. I'm sorry you experienced that. And I'm sorry that I've been one of those shallow people that have likely hurt people in the past in the same way.

I can't say I've changed exactly, other than to say that I've decided to be more open and honest. We can't help who we are or are not attracted to, but we can choose to find beauty in everyone and everything around us.

I am a fat man. I used to be much fatter (I've gone from 390 pounds to 268 as of this morning) and i always struggled because i never found men that looked like me attractive. But eventually i found my husband, and i was exactly what he was looking for, and he was exactly what i was looking for.

All that to say, I'm sorry you experienced the pain of that. I wish more people could recognize the effect this has on others.

 

[LittleBlade]

People like that are just the worst. I'm sorry you experienced that. And I'm sorry that I've been one of those shallow people that have likely hurt people in the past in the same way.

I can't say I've changed exactly, other than to say that I've decided to be more open and honest. We can't help who we are or are not attracted to, but we can choose to find beauty in everyone and everything around us.

I am a fat man. I used to be much fatter (I've gone from 390 pounds to 268 as of this morning) and i always struggled because i never found men that looked like me attractive. But eventually i found my husband, and i was exactly what he was looking for, and he was exactly what i was looking for.

All that to say, I'm sorry you experienced the pain of that. I wish more people could recognize the effect this has on others.

Thanks for your insight. What upset me most about it was that all he was interested in was the free, personalised porn he was getting : as soon as he saw my face, it was over. He loved my cock and my arsehole, but he couldn't get past my face. It's not even as if we were going to meet in person and do any of it for real - we're in different countries!
As for his excuse for not chatting anymore : well that's as lame as it gets, and just downright unpleasant to use a so-called bereavement!

 

[Jasonseele]

Thanks for your insight. What upset me most about it was that all he was interested in was the free, personalised porn he was getting : as soon as he saw my face, it was over. He loved my cock and my arsehole, but he couldn't get past my face. It's not even as if we were going to meet in person and do any of it for real - we're in different countries!
As for his excuse for not chatting anymore : well that's as lame as it gets, and just downright unpleasant to use a so-called bereavement!

Yes, I know we all come on here to see pictures of hot cocks and cute arses (so check out my Media for those! ), but...

I've never thought much of my looks, and since no guy in the real world has ever given me any indication to the contrary, I have this idea that I must be Quasimodo's less attractive brother! Don't get me wrong : I don't expect anyone to look at me the same way they would Henry Cavill, but it would be nice to know there's someone out there who might found me attractive.

So I'm taking a chance and posting my face pic here, and asking for your opinion. Give a 1-10 rating, 10 being "Hubba-hubba, put your pants on - I just wanna gaze into your dreamy eyes! " and 1 being "Ick, put your pants over your head - I'd rather look at your butthole! ". If you want to leave a general comment too that would be fine, but don't be cruel... my delicate ego isn't up to it!

For reference, I'm 59.

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Let’s state the obvious that we’re all thinking right off the bat… some people just suck. They’re shit. They’re bad. And they should never have any influence over any other persons self confidence or self perception. And you ended up chatting with one of them. It’s not your fault and it’s not a reflection on you AT ALL. Only on them.

Next…. You’re a good looking man with a very trusting demeanor and doing well for 59 too! Now do you have the Brad Pitt 10/10 face going for you? Nope. And neither do most of us. Myself included haha. I’ll say 6.5/7 cause I think that is objectively honest…. Not an exaggeration rooted in boosting you out of pity. You don’t want that anyway. None of us do. But the real truth…. At least for this more discreet straight guy haha… I like the fact that you have a gentler more average trustworthy looking face… because your cock absolutely gets my wheels spinning but it’s rather intimidating. Especially for the inexperienced haha… your face is reassuring and puts a little ease in my mind at least…. Id trust you to be gentle and kind with that huge manmeat you’re swinging if I encountered it in real life lol!

But here’s the most important thing you need to think about… you’re looking at this ALLLLLL wrong…

You were asked to video/photograph custom porn for a total stranger… they were so shocked and taken by your below the belt blessings… they couldn’t help but be forward and ask for something far beyond the norm…

The guy who asked you to make and send him those pics and vids…. He’s never had anyone ask him for anything like that. He’s never been so viscerally sexual and exhilarating from the sight of him alone that total strangers go nutty like he did for you… and make no mistake, that’s the case for most of us. We’ll never be that object of intense desire like you experienced with his requests. and we can deal with that.

But him? He’s sitting at home tonight staring at your digital prowess emvying you, being turned on by you, and feeling emasculated not just cause you’re packing lol but also because you’re not the cliche “model faced stud” he expected to see attached to such manly genitalia haha.

You burned your superiority into his memory for life and he can’t deal… man you have actual powers lol. Not fake Henry cavill Superman powers ;p

Seriously, your ego and confidence should be feeding off this - not feeling cut down.

I’m looking at your gallery now… you have way more reason to be feeling great rather than crap

 

[LittleBlade]

Let’s state the obvious that we’re all thinking right off the bat… some people just suck. They’re shit. They’re bad. And they should never have any influence over any other persons self confidence or self perception. And you ended up chatting with one of them. It’s not your fault and it’s not a reflection on you AT ALL. Only on them.

Next…. You’re a good looking man with a very trusting demeanor and doing well for 59 too! Now do you have the Brad Pitt 10/10 face going for you? Nope. And neither do most of us. Myself included haha. I’ll say 6.5/7 cause I think that is objectively honest…. Not an exaggeration rooted in boosting you out of pity. You don’t want that anyway. None of us do. But the real truth…. At least for this more discreet straight guy haha… I like the fact that you have a gentler more average trustworthy looking face… because your cock absolutely gets my wheels spinning but it’s rather intimidating. Especially for the inexperienced haha… your face is reassuring and puts a little ease in my mind at least…. Id trust you to be gentle and kind with that huge manmeat you’re swinging if I encountered it in real life lol!

But here’s the most important thing you need to think about… you’re looking at this ALLLLLL wrong…

You were asked to video/photograph custom porn for a total stranger… they were so shocked and taken by your below the belt blessings… they couldn’t help but be forward and ask for something far beyond the norm…

The guy who asked you to make and send him those pics and vids…. He’s never had anyone ask him for anything like that. He’s never been so viscerally sexual and exhilarating from the sight of him alone that total strangers go nutty like he did for you… and make no mistake, that’s the case for most of us. We’ll never be that object of intense desire like you experienced with his requests. and we can deal with that.

But him? He’s sitting at home tonight staring at your digital prowess emvying you, being turned on by you, and feeling emasculated not just cause you’re packing lol but also because you’re not the cliche “model faced stud” he expected to see attached to such manly genitalia haha.

You burned your superiority into his memory for life and he can’t deal… man you have actual powers lol. Not fake Henry cavill Superman powers ;p

Seriously, your ego and confidence should be feeding off this - not feeling cut down.

I’m looking at your gallery now… you have way more reason to be feeling great rather than crap

Thank you so much for your comments, Jason. 6.5-7 is a perfectly respectable rating, and as I've said before, better than I was expecting!
To be clear, we both sent each other pictures and videos. I might have gone a little further than I anticipated initially, but I don't regret them : I enjoyed doing them and I know he enjoyed seeing them, as much as I enjoyed seeing his. That's why it hurt when it all came to such a sudden halt.
It isn't going to stop me posting content on here, and if I felt comfortable with the person asking and it was a mutual thing, I'd be happy to share stuff with someone else.
My attitude is : it's his loss. If he's found someone else on here to share with, I hope they're as forthcoming as I was, otherwise he's going to regret what he's missing out on. Part of me hopes he'll message me at some point in the future and want to carry on as before. I'd be torn as to how I'd respond : I enjoyed showing and seeing, but it wouldn't be the same knowing he'd probably only use me as wank fodder for a few weeks before doing the same thing again.

 

[Jasonseele]

Oh

Thank you so much for your comments, Jason. 6.5-7 is a perfectly respectable rating, and as I've said before, better than I was expecting!
To be clear, we both sent each other pictures and videos. I might have gone a little further than I anticipated initially, but I don't regret them : I enjoyed doing them and I know he enjoyed seeing them, as much as I enjoyed seeing his. That's why it hurt when it all came to such a sudden halt.
It isn't going to stop me posting content on here, and if I felt comfortable with the person asking and it was a mutual thing, I'd be happy to share stuff with someone else.
My attitude is : it's his loss. If he's found someone else on here to share with, I hope they're as forthcoming as I was, otherwise he's going to regret what he's missing out on. Part of me hopes he'll message me at some point in the future and want to carry on as before. I'd be torn as to how I'd respond : I enjoyed showing and seeing, but it wouldn't be the same knowing he'd probably only use me as wank fodder for a few weeks before doing the same thing again.

I promise you he loved seeing them just like we all did

Definitely don’t allow this one to inhibit you from experimenting o it side your norm with others here… embrace the fun and opportunity haha!

It absolutely is his loss! I’ve been watching your other videos… holy fuck is it a big loss for him haha!

He doesn’t deserve you now nor in the future. And by then you’ll have a kind of worshippers begging for all your time and attention… deny him if he comes back around… that’s the move haha. And even still… if he used you like that again… I promise it will always bug him that never in his life has bye turned someone on enough to be wank off material for them haha… but you get that from plenty of people

 

[eventallerlad]

8! Very handsome and sweet looking

 

[LittleBlade]

8! Very handsome and sweet looking

Aaaww, thank you! That's the nicest one so far!

 

[eventallerlad]

Aaaww, thank you! That's the nicest one so far!

You’re welcome handsome! A Face Id love to sit on

 

[LittleBlade]

You’re welcome handsome! A Face Id love to sit on

 

[KeanusBigMixedCurvedDick]

Not the prettiest guy here but I’ll let you rate it

 

[LittleBlade]

Not the prettiest guy here but I’ll let you rate it

I'd say 7 - nice smooth skin. Even better if you were smiling!