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Regrets, I've had a few...

I regret that I've never sucked a cock and, at this point, most likely never will.

I regret that over many years of marriage, I have grown sexually and embraced my kinky side, but my wife has done neither.

What are your regrets?
 
I regret my young man angst that held me back experimenting with a bit more sexual partners.
But quality over quantity. And youth is always wasted on the young. ;)

Never regretted the times I did go after the men I wanted, even if the sex wasn't as good as I thought it would be or he/them weren't as fun as I hoped. The chase was always good....the joy of the hunt.

I regret that over many years of marriage, I have grown sexually and embraced my kinky side, but my wife has done neither.
Hmm... Sounds like 'regret' isn't the proper word for what you're feeling mate. Wouldn't use it when talking to the old ball and chains about your desires if I were you bro. Not saying you should though (don't know you're situation), just a friendly hint.

I regret that I've never sucked a cock and, at this point, most likely never will.
And true indeed... sometimes it's a better to have regrets about the things you did, than things one didn't do.
So any way you can still do the things you want? One is never to old to suck a cock. LOL

And thanks for posting. Good question!
 
most of my regrets were from before 25, not taking opportunities when presented with them, i bought into all the bullshit about how friends don't have sex, casual sex was bad blah blah blah. Hind sight being 20/20 i missed a lot of opportunities, i had a lot of very attractive close female friends and years later some even brought up our friendships and questioned why i never made a move when i could have and said they'd have gone along with it. I have been lucky enough to get second chances with a handful of them over the years but there were many where a second chance will never happen.
 
I don't believe in regrets. Everything decision you make, whether good or bad, can help you improve...but for the sake of this thread i'm going to say being so scared on insecure in high school. I missed out a lot of activities (non sexual) and most people were nice to me because they were scared of me
 
I have sexual regrets. Early on in marraige I should have thrown the towel in. I feel that my wife is so sexually inhibited that I've missed out on many things that could have been enjoyable along with the lack of frequentcy wasting my youth and sexually active years waiting for things to improve.
 
Spending too much money, not saving more money, not investing more money, not being smarter in business dealings. not finishing my higher education / professional licenses, not planning better for retirement, not taking better care of my over all health, not sleeping more, passing up some great relationship opportunities, working too much, not spending more time with family, time spent in bad / toxic relationships. being taken advantage of / being stupid . Etc>>>>>> But you can get an idea
 
Limiting only to sexual regrets...

I regret not telling my doctor that the antidepressant which helped me function as a human, also erased my libido.

If I'd asked to change meds, I might have had a chance at intimate encounters with my wife while getting my head screwed on straight, before her illnesses progressed and made sex difficult, then life-threatening, for her.

In retrospect, I can't help but think about how rejected she must have felt at the time.
 
That I was not braver to go to college when I was offered 3 full rides because I was afraid that, like my oldest brother, I would turn gay there. Realizing later that college is not what "turns you gay."
 
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Spending years in the wrong relationship because I thought it's rare to find someone so I'd better hang on to it. Could have had so many different experiences otherwise
 
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I should have sold my house and invested in Amazon 20 years ago.

Lol. I could tell stories about the 18 months or so that I was day-trading in the late 1990's. Made a ton of money and then lost most of it when the markets collapsed faster than I could react.
 
Regrets, I've had a few...

I regret that I've never sucked a cock and, at this point, most likely never will.

I regret that over many years of marriage, I have grown sexually and embraced my kinky side, but my wife has done neither.

What are your regrets?
Not buying bitcoins i laughed at someone who was bitcoin investing when it was dirt cheap i could ahve been a millionaire if i had invested the 10$ they were running a few pennies ea at the time
 
Spending too much money, not saving more money, not investing more money, not being smarter in business dealings. not finishing my higher education / professional licenses, not planning better for retirement, not taking better care of my over all health, not sleeping more, passing up some great relationship opportunities, working too much, not spending more time with family, time spent in bad / toxic relationships. being taken advantage of / being stupid . Etc>>>>>> But you can get an idea

I think I got them all too..you may have missed flossing