Did you know about 80% of women can't orgasm from penetration? There's probably a lot you don't know if you've pressured someone to come quickly it's really easy to be lied to I've lied to guys and told them that I came just to get them to stop doing a horrible movements they were doing they refused to take any kind of instruction or advice so I faked one out just to get him to stop you never know that could have happened to you too maybe not by your wife but I have never heard of a woman coming in 1 to 3 minutes from clitoral stimulation by anybody I have ever met and I hang out at the Kink Club
See this here, this is something I think the OP is missing.
Women aren't sex robots you can put tokens into for 3 minutes of clit rubbing and achieve an orgasm.
We are all different.
But a lot of women will say that that is not enough time *on average*
I have from rubbing or even as they say frottage (did I spell that right) pretty quickly, but that DOESN'T ALWAYS HAPPEN
Usually it takes much longer, esp with a partner who keeps time on it
If I am with someone who is SO focused on getting the orgasm to come under 5 minutes I am gonna sense that and be so out of there... and tell him on the way out the door "you are a bad lover"