Rules for oral-only hookups

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So I made a group on Romeo for oral-only hookups and decided to set out the rules...

Did I go a bit overboard? Lot of words there. Too many to read? This is supposed to be a fun thing, I don't wanna ... SUCK THE JOY OUT OF IT! 😀

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RULES:

This group is for two kinds of guys only:

1. SUCKERS: You ONLY want to suck cock. You do not want to get fucked, or any other kind of sex. You do not want the other guy to suck you in return, or do anything except enjoy what you are doing to him. You will swallow his cum and that will be all you need to be satisfied.

2. FEEDERS: You just want your cock sucked. You do not want to fuck the other guy, or any other kind of sex. You do not want to reciprocate the oral. All you want to do is unzip and let him suck you until you shoot down his throat. Cum and go.

RULES: Respect each other.

Feeders, be sure what the sucker wants in terms of attitude. A sucker may be submissive and may enjoy being dominated, or he may just enjoy the physical act itself. Don't give orders, tell him how to dress, slap his face, spit on him, or use insulting words unless you know FOR CERTAIN he wants that kind of treatment. If in doubt, ask. Until you know otherwise, be polite.

Unless you have agreed otherwise with the sucker, be clean. Have a shower and wear fresh underwear.

Most Feeders want to be sucked for a reasonable amount of time before cumming and most Suckers are happy to oblige. Try not to finish too soon unless you have agreed beforehand with the Sucker that you only want a quick session.

Suckers: Don't ask the feeder to do anything else apart from what you have agreed upon in advance. Do not pressure him to act in a dominant way if he is not comfortable with that.

Take your time and do not try to make him cum before he is ready. If he cums sooner than you expect, it might not be intentional. Take it as a compliment on your skills! Ask him if he would like to take a break and then go for a second session.

Suckers and Feeders: You might ALSO enjoy fucking or being fucked, but this group is for hookups with these specific roles in mind at that time. If you contact someone via this group, the understanding is that you are doing so for the purpose of meeting up to suck or be sucked. If you meet the other guy and then change your mind and decide that, actually, you want to go further, DO NOT put any pressure on him to do so. Do not even mention it until after the session. At that point you can ask him if he wants to meet you again, and if he wants more than sucking NEXT time.

You want to be a Sucker AND a Feeder? No problem as long as you make that clear from the outset.

Overall, be direct, honest and consistent.

Thanks and have fun!
 
So I made a group on Romeo for oral-only hookups and decided to set out the rules...

Did I go a bit overboard? Lot of words there. Too many to read? This is supposed to be a fun thing, I don't wanna ... SUCK THE JOY OUT OF IT! 😀

....

RULES:

This group is for two kinds of guys only:

1. SUCKERS: You ONLY want to suck cock. You do not want to get fucked, or any other kind of sex. You do not want the other guy to suck you in return, or do anything except enjoy what you are doing to him. You will swallow his cum and that will be all you need to be satisfied.

2. FEEDERS: You just want your cock sucked. You do not want to fuck the other guy, or any other kind of sex. You do not want to reciprocate the oral. All you want to do is unzip and let him suck you until you shoot down his throat. Cum and go.

RULES: Respect each other.

Feeders, be sure what the sucker wants in terms of attitude. A sucker may be submissive and may enjoy being dominated, or he may just enjoy the physical act itself. Don't give orders, tell him how to dress, slap his face, spit on him, or use insulting words unless you know FOR CERTAIN he wants that kind of treatment. If in doubt, ask. Until you know otherwise, be polite.

Unless you have agreed otherwise with the sucker, be clean. Have a shower and wear fresh underwear.

Most Feeders want to be sucked for a reasonable amount of time before cumming and most Suckers are happy to oblige. Try not to finish too soon unless you have agreed beforehand with the Sucker that you only want a quick session.

Suckers: Don't ask the feeder to do anything else apart from what you have agreed upon in advance. Do not pressure him to act in a dominant way if he is not comfortable with that.

Take your time and do not try to make him cum before he is ready. If he cums sooner than you expect, it might not be intentional. Take it as a compliment on your skills! Ask him if he would like to take a break and then go for a second session.

Suckers and Feeders: You might ALSO enjoy fucking or being fucked, but this group is for hookups with these specific roles in mind at that time. If you contact someone via this group, the understanding is that you are doing so for the purpose of meeting up to suck or be sucked. If you meet the other guy and then change your mind and decide that, actually, you want to go further, DO NOT put any pressure on him to do so. Do not even mention it until after the session. At that point you can ask him if he wants to meet you again, and if he wants more than sucking NEXT time.

You want to be a Sucker AND a Feeder? No problem as long as you make that clear from the outset.

Overall, be direct, honest and consistent.

Thanks and have fun!
What about for those who enjoy both. It seems mutual sucking, 69, taking turns is frowned upon nowadays.
 
Being a 'side' is getting more exposure now, and my group does allow guys to switch roles.
That’s cool. But I didn’t think that’s what being a “side” is? I thought a side was basically no anal but everything else.

I’m into everything 😅.
 
So I made a group on Romeo for oral-only hookups and decided to set out the rules...

Did I go a bit overboard? Lot of words there. Too many to read? This is supposed to be a fun thing, I don't wanna ... SUCK THE JOY OUT OF IT! 😀

....

RULES:

This group is for two kinds of guys only:

1. SUCKERS: You ONLY want to suck cock. You do not want to get fucked, or any other kind of sex. You do not want the other guy to suck you in return, or do anything except enjoy what you are doing to him. You will swallow his cum and that will be all you need to be satisfied.

2. FEEDERS: You just want your cock sucked. You do not want to fuck the other guy, or any other kind of sex. You do not want to reciprocate the oral. All you want to do is unzip and let him suck you until you shoot down his throat. Cum and go.

RULES: Respect each other.

Feeders, be sure what the sucker wants in terms of attitude. A sucker may be submissive and may enjoy being dominated, or he may just enjoy the physical act itself. Don't give orders, tell him how to dress, slap his face, spit on him, or use insulting words unless you know FOR CERTAIN he wants that kind of treatment. If in doubt, ask. Until you know otherwise, be polite.

Unless you have agreed otherwise with the sucker, be clean. Have a shower and wear fresh underwear.

Most Feeders want to be sucked for a reasonable amount of time before cumming and most Suckers are happy to oblige. Try not to finish too soon unless you have agreed beforehand with the Sucker that you only want a quick session.

Suckers: Don't ask the feeder to do anything else apart from what you have agreed upon in advance. Do not pressure him to act in a dominant way if he is not comfortable with that.

Take your time and do not try to make him cum before he is ready. If he cums sooner than you expect, it might not be intentional. Take it as a compliment on your skills! Ask him if he would like to take a break and then go for a second session.

Suckers and Feeders: You might ALSO enjoy fucking or being fucked, but this group is for hookups with these specific roles in mind at that time. If you contact someone via this group, the understanding is that you are doing so for the purpose of meeting up to suck or be sucked. If you meet the other guy and then change your mind and decide that, actually, you want to go further, DO NOT put any pressure on him to do so. Do not even mention it until after the session. At that point you can ask him if he wants to meet you again, and if he wants more than sucking NEXT time.

You want to be a Sucker AND a Feeder? No problem as long as you make that clear from the outset.

Overall, be direct, honest and consistent.

Thanks and have fun!
As a feeder only I agree to what you wrote. The one thing I would add if you say you can deepthroat then bury my manmeat in your throat. Many times over.
 
My rules - if you're sucking my dick, don't treat it like a piece of glass. It's not going to shatter in your mouth. Don't lick it like a lollipop. Put some effort into it and shove it down your throat. If you're too rough, I'll let you know. On the flip side, if I'm sucking your dick, have some respect. Never forget the position that you're in. I have your dick in my mouth, and I probably have my hands wrapped around your balls. If you slap me or spit on my face, it's going to end badly for you. I swallow on my terms, not yours, so don't think you'll get away with shoving my head down at the last second.
 
Thanks for your replies. Individual likes and dislikes are up for negotiation once the ground rules are established.
 

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Why no 69? Reciprocation makes everything better. It's a form of nonverbal communication that creates a feedback loop. Your sensory enjoyment multiplies exponentially.

If you are sucking my cock at the same time, my mouth will hone in exactly on what your body is asking for much more quickly.
 
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Why no 69? Reciprocation makes everything better. It's a form of nonverbal communication that creates a feedback loop. Your sensory enjoyment multiplies exponentially.

If you are sucking my cock at the same time, my mouth will hone in exactly on what your body is asking for much more quickly.

I'm sure versatility is wonderful if you like that kind of thing 🤔
 
Why no 69? Reciprocation makes everything better. It's a form of nonverbal communication that creates a feedback loop. Your sensory enjoyment multiplies exponentially.

If you are sucking my cock at the same time, my mouth will hone in exactly on what your body is asking for much more quickly.
69 is good in theory. But speaking personally the stimulation on my cock from that angle is not very good.
 
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The concept of a group for feeders and sucks I have trouble wrapping my head around. I think many, maybe most men who are into oral appreciate both sucking and being sucked.
 
So I made a group on Romeo for oral-only hookups and decided to set out the rules...

Did I go a bit overboard? Lot of words there. Too many to read? This is supposed to be a fun thing, I don't wanna ... SUCK THE JOY OUT OF IT! 😀

....

RULES:

This group is for two kinds of guys only:

1. SUCKERS: You ONLY want to suck cock. You do not want to get fucked, or any other kind of sex. You do not want the other guy to suck you in return, or do anything except enjoy what you are doing to him. You will swallow his cum and that will be all you need to be satisfied.

2. FEEDERS: You just want your cock sucked. You do not want to fuck the other guy, or any other kind of sex. You do not want to reciprocate the oral. All you want to do is unzip and let him suck you until you shoot down his throat. Cum and go.

RULES: Respect each other.

Feeders, be sure what the sucker wants in terms of attitude. A sucker may be submissive and may enjoy being dominated, or he may just enjoy the physical act itself. Don't give orders, tell him how to dress, slap his face, spit on him, or use insulting words unless you know FOR CERTAIN he wants that kind of treatment. If in doubt, ask. Until you know otherwise, be polite.

Unless you have agreed otherwise with the sucker, be clean. Have a shower and wear fresh underwear.

Most Feeders want to be sucked for a reasonable amount of time before cumming and most Suckers are happy to oblige. Try not to finish too soon unless you have agreed beforehand with the Sucker that you only want a quick session.

Suckers: Don't ask the feeder to do anything else apart from what you have agreed upon in advance. Do not pressure him to act in a dominant way if he is not comfortable with that.

Take your time and do not try to make him cum before he is ready. If he cums sooner than you expect, it might not be intentional. Take it as a compliment on your skills! Ask him if he would like to take a break and then go for a second session.

Suckers and Feeders: You might ALSO enjoy fucking or being fucked, but this group is for hookups with these specific roles in mind at that time. If you contact someone via this group, the understanding is that you are doing so for the purpose of meeting up to suck or be sucked. If you meet the other guy and then change your mind and decide that, actually, you want to go further, DO NOT put any pressure on him to do so. Do not even mention it until after the session. At that point you can ask him if he wants to meet you again, and if he wants more than sucking NEXT time.

You want to be a Sucker AND a Feeder? No problem as long as you make that clear from the outset.

Overall, be direct, honest and consistent.

Thanks and have fun!
I wish I could find guys like this. I literally ONLY WANT TO SUCK AND SWALLOW!!!
 
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The concept of a group for feeders and sucks I have trouble wrapping my head around. I think many, maybe most men who are into oral appreciate both sucking and being sucked.
I have to disagree. While I'll occasionally let myself be sucked by another man, I never actually desire anything beyond being the one doing the sucking. Once in a great while I'll make that concession but only if it's the only way I'm going to get a cock in MY mouth at that particular time. I also know there are many, many like me and I don't think we're the minority.

I know of a website like the OP is talking about and I've belonged to it for years. It's strictly for eaters and feeders and nothing else is allowed.
 
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I have to disagree. While I'll occasionally let myself be sucked by another man, I never actually desire anything beyond being the one doing the sucking. Once in a great while I'll make that concession but only if it's the only way I'm going to get a cock in MY mouth at that particular time. I also know there are many, many like me and I don't think we're the minority.

I know of a website like the OP is talking about and I've belonged to it for years. It's strictly for eaters and feeders and nothing else is allowed.
Share that info. I need a sucker near Knoxville Tn.
 
As whats on offer is fly popping oral pleasures and no full nudity(that would present other options) is this a group activity or one on one.
For sure sucking fun I go to a glory hole, a cock comes through the hole, I suck and it cums then goes. He's happy and I'm happy and waiting for the next cock to come through the hole.
 
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