Said too much. How to retrieve the situation?

[nomju]

Damn, we've said too much.
Our best friends in the village are our son in laws parents. We obviously share a grandchild now, but we drink together, go to gigs and festivals together and smoke weed with them. They know about certain aspects of our lives and our past, but not all. They know about the naturism and my life modelling, and about our current and previous drugs use. As do both our grown up daughters.
But the other night, we were in their cellar drinking whisky and smoking weed when they asked us 'What are the crazy things you've done that our kids don't know about?'.
Not wanting to reveal anything, but drunk, I inadvertently said 'You wouldn't believe me if I told you.' I should have lied and said that loud sex, a big dick, naturism and casual drugs use was enough.
But you know how it is when you are drunk/stoned. The flood gates opened:
We've had 3somes, 4somes and even orgies, she's blown 5 men in one night,my big fat dick is pierced, and I do porn (I broadcast on chaturbate).
OMG. They thought maybe anal. Not this long list of deviance.
We are meeting them tonight for the first time since this all came out.
Radio silence?

 

[thickcockjames]

Hmmmmm, that does sound like a situation. I think the way to play it off would be to just continue being a person they seem to like and don’t be ashamed of your lifestyle.

I feel like if they see that you are not ashamed and you feel confident in yourself, and continue to be the kind of person they enjoy hanging out with, it really shouldn’t matter.

I’ve certainly been in that situation before. I played in a moderately successful rock band for about ten years, we toured the states for 3 straight years. You see and do a lot of wild shit in those kinds of environments, and sometimes some of the stuff I’ve done crosses a line with people. Through my actions I show them that even though I’ve done and do things you don’t align with, doesn’t make me a bad person. So far, it hasn’t ended any relationships.

Best of luck to you, hope it works out.

 

[playklax01]

Now that stuff is out of the bag, you need to own it. Don't bring anything up, and try to diffuse if it is brought up. Downplay it if you have to, but don't feel embarrassed by it. They likely have their skeletons too.

 

[Alex22876]

Just own it. Don’t brag, don’t bring it up yourself, but just be - just be you. They liked you before and they obviously like you enough to meet up again.

I would caution doing anything with them. Don’t shit where you eat. Sex is fun but momentary, family is for life.

 

[ILoveGames48]

There’s two things can do about it..
1 —-own up to it and don’t be ashamed of it.. you do stuff that makes you satisfied.. if your friends can’t understand that .. that’s their problem..


2– just say you were little drunk and just said all kinds of crap just to see their reactions ..

 

[goodjock]

Double down. Don’t mention it again under any circumstances. When THEY bring it up, which they eventually will, point out that they sure are curious about your interests. Remind them that whatever you had discussed is confidential. Then ask them if they have ever experienced something similar, or if they only fantasize about it.