Semen, toilet plume

[Martin_1986]

Hello,
I do have an OCD regarding semen contamination. Before I was able to directly ejaculate into the toilet bowl, thinking this was a very clean way to dispose of semen. Then just flush.
However I only recently found out that when we flush the toilet small particles of what is inside get in the air, landing on everything in proximity to the toilet.
Now I am disgusted so much by myself, for doing this and I am not sure whether it is okay to keep doing it this way.
I close the lid now, but it is not air tight, so stuff still comes out.
Should I just ignore the semen in the toilet landing on me and everything nearby? Are other guys ejaculating directly into the toilet bowl and then just flushing?

I feel moral obligation to make sure no semen lands on anything.

Thank you

 

[deleted1253403]

I'd just lick it up from where it lands

 

[1222288]

Hello,
I do have an OCD regarding semen contamination. Before I was able to directly ejaculate into the toilet bowl, thinking this was a very clean way to dispose of semen. Then just flush.
However I only recently found out that when we flush the toilet small particles of what is inside get in the air, landing on everything in proximity to the toilet.
Now I am disgusted so much by myself, for doing this and I am not sure whether it is okay to keep doing it this way.
I close the lid now, but it is not air tight, so stuff still comes out.
Should I just ignore the semen in the toilet landing on me and everything nearby? Are other guys ejaculating directly into the toilet bowl and then just flushing?

I feel moral obligation to make sure no semen lands on anything.

Thank you

Hmm. I was going to go on a bit about the density of semen, and that the plume you speak of would (more likely than not) only consist of water, unless you had urinated as well. Then, I decided to shift the focus a bit because that isn't what this conversation is about.

You've accepted, or are at least aware you have OCD. Are you currently seeing a professional, or on medication, to help moderate your condition? If you are seeing someone, then this is where that conversation should happen. OCD centers around superstition, and irrational thought. No matter what is said here, you already have a well established, distorted focus that isn't going to change over a few words from these forum members.

So. I would suggest:

1. Talking to a therapist about your concerns.
2. In the meantime, perhaps ejaculating into a tissue, then flushing that tissue down the toilet. The semen would not become airborne that way, even though the likelihood of it being part of the plume is very remote to begin with.

 

[OKCLane]

Hmm. I was going to go on a bit about the density of semen, and that the plume you speak of would (more likely than not) only consist of water, unless you had urinated as well. Then, I decided to shift the focus a bit because that isn't what this conversation is about.

You've accepted, or are at least aware you have OCD. Are you currently seeing a professional, or on medication, to help moderate your condition? If you are seeing someone, then this is where that conversation should happen. OCD centers around superstition, and irrational thought. No matter what is said here, you already have a well established, distorted focus that isn't going to change over a few words from these forum members.

So. I would suggest:

1. Talking to a therapist about your concerns.
2. In the meantime, perhaps ejaculating into a tissue, then flushing that tissue down the toilet. The semen would not become airborne that way, even though the likelihood of it being part of the plume is very remote to begin with.

Thoughtful and outstanding advice on a sensitive topic.

 

[Martin_1986]

Thank you for your response, I did talk to my therapist and he dismisses it as nonsense, though I am still convinced it is not and that is why I decided to post here.

 

[OKCLane]

Thank you for your response, I did talk to my therapist and he dismisses it as nonsense, though I am still convinced it is not and that is why I decided to post here.

If your therapist is dismissive of your plight, find one who will help you.

 

[Gj816]

At first read I was taken aback by your post. But considering that this is real to you, I would be looking for another therapist.
I also agree with @420Canadian that you could ejaculate into tissue instead of the bowl itself.

You could also keep a can of Lysol around and spray it over the covered toilet as you flush to kill any gems that may escape from the plume.

I hope that you'll find the answers that you are looking for. Good luck @Martin_1986

 

[Martin_1986]

At first read I was taken aback by your post. But considering that this is real to you, I would be looking for another therapist.
I also agree with @420Canadian that you could ejaculate into tissue instead of the bowl itself.

You could also keep a can of Lysol around and spray it over the covered toilet as you flush to kill any gems that may escape from the plume.

I hope that you'll find the answers that you are looking for. Good luck @Martin_1986

Thank you, I decided to be brave and ejaculate directly into the bowl, in order to face my fears. Plus I always need to pee after ejaculation, so some semen will inevitably end up in the bowl, anyway.

 

[deleted1253403]

Thank you, I decided to be brave and ejaculate directly into the bowl, in order to face my fears. Plus I always need to pee after ejaculation, so some semen will inevitably end up in the bowl, anyway.

I'd still like to lick it back up after

 

[1222288]

If your therapist is dismissive of your plight, find one who will help you.

Took the words out of my mouth.

Therapists are a paid service provider. They aren't omniscient, or perfect, and can be just as biased and wrong as the next person. If one isn't giving you the quality of treatment you need, there are many others out there who would be more than willing to have your business.

I'd say it is time to go shopping.

 

[1222288]

Thank you, I decided to be brave and ejaculate directly into the bowl, in order to face my fears. Plus I always need to pee after ejaculation, so some semen will inevitably end up in the bowl, anyway.

I thought of another couple ways to deal with it:

If you lay out a couple strips of toilet paper across the surface of the water in the toilet, and ejaculate on that, the semen will adhere to it and not become airborne.

Also, if you flush just when you start to ejaculate, your semen will be pulled into the drain and suctioned down, rather than potentially becoming part of the plume.

Just a couple of ideas. I hope you figure something out.

 

[Acratopotes]

In another thread you have mentioned the potential for semen not to be sterile if the person from whom it comes has an STD. When it comes to your own, though, if you know you don't have an STD then what is to worry about? Or do you have an STD are are afraid to spread it. If you don't know one way or the other would it help to get tested? Even if you did have something you wouldn't be spreading it to yourself. If other people touch surfaces that have a tiny amount of your semen on they are unlikely to catch anything. When it comes to this toilet plume I'd be much more concerned about E.coli from people shitting in the toilet and even that doesn't seem to make people ill.

This does seem like a case of OCD and something for your therapist to address. How can you have a normal sex life if you can't get beyond thinking semen is something nasty that has to be contained? As others have said, if your therapist doesn't take this concern seriously, find one that does.

 

[Ciao Kemosabe]

maybe in the shower and just wash it down the drain