Sex Questions for spicing up a relationship

Jesse479

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I was just wondering if someone knew how to make a guy’s dick throb just by using your tongue and/or mouth or any other sensual ways to do that? I want to try something new with my partner and I want to come at it from a place of sensuality and slow sex… maybe something like tantric… what I want to do is surprise them sexually and make their huge dick throb. I feel like me learning new ways to make them cum will spice up our sex life…. I’m here to learn. Thank you in advance for your time and help!
 
I often wonder .. so I’ll post it here and ask you when it comes to sex.. do you just go for the sucking and fucking part or do you do more than that before getting that far..

Kissing.. cuddling .. sniffing n tasting each others bodies from head to toes .. massage back chest and stuff like that.. before even roughing each others dicks?
 
I often wonder .. so I’ll post it here and ask you when it comes to sex.. do you just go for the sucking and fucking part or do you do more than that before getting that far..

Kissing.. cuddling .. sniffing n tasting each others bodies from head to toes .. massage back chest and stuff like that.. before even roughing each others dicks?

Yes we do usually go for foreplay first, we like foreplay; whether that be rubbing or caressing or light fingering. Sometimes I’ll lick my partners armpits and then lick their chest and nipples. Please let me know if I can provide any more info.
 
When I wanted things to spicen up between me and the guy I am with I tend to go toward bondage and stuff .. it was often funny as they’d never tell me they were into it until I tell them what I liked and didn’t like( which isn’t much I didn’t like)


The making out .. I can do that forever and not touch cock and asshole..

Then if I am going to run him I definitely spend a lot of time there .. as I love working that hole until I can slide my tongue inside it and fuck it with my tongue ..

A guy got me into the bondage n pain stuff and loved it ever since .. just hard to find others into it.. I think a lot of guys are too afraid to do it.. but if open their minds and explore the possibilities they’d see they’d enjoy it.. it was a thing I learned that from the spankings and belt and whips and cat n 9 tails he had modded for testing the person he is with their pain limits..

He also pierced my nipples and hooked things to them.. that was wild n fun..

But I learned that night that a man /person can orgasm/ ejaculate from the pain as I shit my load all over his floor


You don’t have to me extreme but just basic swats to sting a little makes your body feel alive
 
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With my buddy I like to start slowly. He comes to see me pretty much every week (sometimes twice), and we are not in too much of a hurry usually. I like to tease him with my tongue. When he gets to my place, I greet him with a strong hug and a kiss of course first. I love that hug!

The teasing with my tongue: He loves it when I lick the tip of his cock without immediately going down on him. I kiss his navel, work down with my tongue and kisses all around his member and nuts. Go between his nuts and thigh with the tip of your tongue (most men love that). His uncut dick allows foreskin licking as well. Hold his dick and allow most of his head to be covered, then take your tongue and circle all around where the head is peeking through.

I doubt you need a play by play but just set the tone as calm and sensual and nature really will just take it's course. This guy loves it and has for the past 6 years. Good luck and no doubt you have ways to turn him on with some tongue action. Yea, he will be ROCK hard and leaking pre!
 
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