Sex toy for wife recommendation

[deleted116951]

I'm looking for some sort of recommendation for a toy that stimulates the clitoris during penetration. My wife only climaxes when I go down on her or finger her but never when we have actual sex. She's developed a bit of a complex around it - not cumming when I cum - so I'm trying to find some sort of toy to liven things up and get her climaxing at the same time as me.

Thanks ladies!

 

[MickeyLee]

there are so many clitoral stimulators on the market. Lelo makes the prettiest ones. They are also high performance. Very effective.
But you will pay for the quality.

What's fun is shopping with her. At your local perv emporium or online. There will always be customer reviews you can read through. Get an idea of what she is interested in. Look for external stimulators. They can be used in conjunction with PIV.

 

[Enid]

Second Lelo. Pricey, but well worth it!

 

[693987]

Lelo has Charlie Sheen representing at least one of their products and there have been some problems with reliability/durability of their condoms :/ Made me lose faith in their products.

I have had some vibrators from Evolved Novelties line called Roulette for years, with no issues. Nice quality silicone and varying strength of vibration, but overall a fairly simple, straight forward vibrator. No massive variety in ways it can vibrate like pulsing or anything.

 

[Holly Doors]

I have plenty of recommendations , however, if you don't really use toys as part of sex atm then take your partner to go choose for herself, or at least look online with her and choose. For a starter I would advise anything made by doc johnson from there ur3 range, it's a realistic feeling material that may help to put any nerves at ease. it also helps to warm the toy in a jug of hot water first to bring it up to body temperature.
What are you looking for, cliterol stimulation, deep stimulation, stretching, or all?

 

[deleted116951]

We've just started looking into toys as part of sex. She's had a vibrator since before she met me and we recently tried this little vibrating finger thing that really didn't do much. She's pretty guarded about it so I'm not sure I can get her into a shop to browse with me. Was hoping to surprise her with something and see where it goes.

Foreplay we can both handle without toys. We were looking for something to introduce during sex to give her more clitoral stimulation. I was looking at vibrating cock rings but to be honest I have no idea what makes a good/bad one!

 

[Holly Doors]

Try looking at the reviews on a good online sex shop hunni, like 'love honey' some really good reviews and tutorial vids on all their products xx

 

[EllieP]

Unless your wife already has toys please talk to her before you surprise her with one.

Two things you want to avoid: trying to make her like toys, and getting her a toy guaranteed to bring her to orgasm and she doesn't.

I'd recommend a joint adventure picking out a toy.

 

[deleted116951]

Unless your wife already has toys please talk to her before you surprise her with one.

Two things you want to avoid: trying to make her like toys, and getting her a toy guaranteed to bring her to orgasm and she doesn't.

I'd recommend a joint adventure picking out a toy.

We've definitely discussed it and started using them so it would be a "surprise, here's a big black dildo out of nowhere" situation. I just think she's too embarrassed to go to a shop and actually pick one out. Maybe online browsing.

I've been looking around myself and I think cock rings with the vibrator for the clit are pretty much exactly what we're looking for. I never knew there could be so many different types and brands though!

 

[CaribbeanBarbie]

I literally LOVE Lelo. You can't go wrong. Very powerful and discreet. She'll love them.

 

[deleted116951]

I literally LOVE Lelo. You can't go wrong. Very powerful and discreet. She'll love them.

I was contemplating either the Lelo Tor 2 or the Tenga SVR.

 

[nailz]

In most of these threads people recommend shopping for sex toys with your partner, or asking them exactly what kind of toy they want, but I actually love being surprised.. with one caveat: whatever toy a guy buys me, there's a very good chance it's also going to be used on him. Turnabout is fair play

 

[Mysticalangels]

Since someone mentioned lelo, I thought this was interesting! I cant ever imagine spending 15k on a vibrator, but ok....?!?!?!? lol

https://www.lelo.com/inez

 

[Tattooed Goddess]

After working for a store that carried Lelo and many other expensive products, I found that Lelo is overpriced and there are better made products. I recommend the Scarlet Luxe by NS novelties is a great little clitoral vibe. It's rechargeable like a lelo but it' much less expensive. I also really like the Womanizer. Look that one up on YouTube for reviews.

Also, she's completely normal not having orgasms during penetration. Orgasms don't have to happen at the same time to be special.

 

[AlteredEgo]

Lelo has Charlie Sheen representing at least one of their products and there have been some problems with reliability/durability of their condoms :/ Made me lose faith in their products.

I have had some vibrators from Evolved Novelties line called Roulette for years, with no issues. Nice quality silicone and varying strength of vibration, but overall a fairly simple, straight forward vibrator. No massive variety in ways it can vibrate like pulsing or anything.

https://www.lelo.com/blog/lelos-statement-charlie-sheen/

As recently as last year, the partnership between Lelo and Sheen was already 18 months in the past. They made that partnership with him despite his checkered history because he was the highest profile person living with HIV. When more recent allegations came out, as they inevitably would, Lelo stated that the relationship was not only long over, it would remain in the past, and never be reignited. Me? I didn't even know they made condoms. I still love their toys and lubes.

 

[AlteredEgo]

I've been looking around myself and I think cock rings with the vibrator for the clit are pretty much exactly what we're looking for. I never knew there could be so many different types and brands though!

I never could get those to line up usefully, and had some partners who didn't like what vibration they could feel. I hope you have better luck with them. Lots of couples do.

 

[deleted116951]

Postscript!

Got the Lelo Tor 2 and introduced it to the wife. She legit came the hardest she’s ever had. So thank you to those who recommended it!

It is now a staple in our play.

 

[AlteredEgo]

Thanks for the feedback and update.

 

[286798]

Thanks for the info! Can you give a bit of a product review? Any cons? Pros besides

Postscript!
She legit came the hardest she’s ever had.

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[deleted116951]

Thanks for the info! Can you give a bit of a product review? Any cons? Pros besides
?

The only con I can think of is that it does take a little maneuvering to find the right angle. Although half the fun is finding that angle I guess. For us it took a pillow under my wife’s butt and it was over. Came shortly after that.

Reviews say the ring is a little tight on the guy and I agree. Def recommend lubbing it up before sliding it on. Dry is a painful experience.

Other than those two minor things I haven’t experienced any problems with it. All pros