So the sex life for me and the wife has come to a screeching halt, ive tried talking to her about it, ive tried not pressureing her about it, i constantly tell her how beautiful and sexy she is and how much she turns me on, and nothing works. Sometimes when shes had too much to drink i can get her revved up but thats rare these days. Im pretty sure its a body issue thing as she doesnt feel very secure with herself, So women what can i do?