Hi all,
Just wondering if I can get some outside opinion on this.
Myself (29M) and my fiancé (33M) have been together for just over 4 years now.
Our relationship is great, I couldn’t be happier. Though our sex life has dried up a bit.
I recently walked in on my partner jerking off to porn (Even though I’ve been asking for sex for weeks) and instead of being annoyed/angry, it turned me on beyond my imagination?
This prompted me to ask him if he’d be interested in texting each other from separate rooms (so there’s no pressure to necessarily engage in physical sex) and jerk off together.
Have any of you ever sexted with your SO’s and sent porn etc and jerked off together without actually being in the same room? I am a bit conflicted and worried that my partner might think it’s odd so I’d like to know whether you guys think it’s strange.
I have always been turned on by my partner watching porn and we have both watched porn when giving each other head etc. But this is a bit different since we would be in separate rooms. In my mind, if I’m horny and I really would like sex but that’s not possible, I’d rather jerk off knowing my partner is doing the same thing, than me just watching porn by myself alone.
Just to note, we do have sex, it’s just not as frequent as it used to be. I want to respect my partners boundaries but at the same time, I would like to explore options to be more sexually involved and active with minimal effort so it feels “effortless”.
Long story short; have any of you ever sexted/sent porn to your SO and jerked off without actually being in the same room/AND has it improved your sex life overall?
Just wondering if I can get some outside opinion on this.
Myself (29M) and my fiancé (33M) have been together for just over 4 years now.
Our relationship is great, I couldn’t be happier. Though our sex life has dried up a bit.
I recently walked in on my partner jerking off to porn (Even though I’ve been asking for sex for weeks) and instead of being annoyed/angry, it turned me on beyond my imagination?
This prompted me to ask him if he’d be interested in texting each other from separate rooms (so there’s no pressure to necessarily engage in physical sex) and jerk off together.
Have any of you ever sexted with your SO’s and sent porn etc and jerked off together without actually being in the same room? I am a bit conflicted and worried that my partner might think it’s odd so I’d like to know whether you guys think it’s strange.
I have always been turned on by my partner watching porn and we have both watched porn when giving each other head etc. But this is a bit different since we would be in separate rooms. In my mind, if I’m horny and I really would like sex but that’s not possible, I’d rather jerk off knowing my partner is doing the same thing, than me just watching porn by myself alone.
Just to note, we do have sex, it’s just not as frequent as it used to be. I want to respect my partners boundaries but at the same time, I would like to explore options to be more sexually involved and active with minimal effort so it feels “effortless”.
Long story short; have any of you ever sexted/sent porn to your SO and jerked off without actually being in the same room/AND has it improved your sex life overall?
