Sharing Your Gf With Others?

[Phil3tan]

Not sure if it's been a thread before.
Was hoping to share experiences, practices even post pics, videos..

How did the convo come up?
What are some rules?
Where do you guys look?
Film?
Condoms ?
Do you let your gf decide / talk to the guy without you knowing?
How open are you?

 

[libralover4u2]

A beautiful, wonderful, Asian woman and I had a special relationship for 11 years, and we swung about twice a month. It started several months after we were dating. We were in New York City and she saw the marquee, La Trapeze, as we were driving across town to go to a Broadway show. She asked what it was and I told her that it was a swing club. She asked, "What is a swing club?" After I told her she said that it might be fun to go there after the show. We did, but she said that we should only soft swap, no penetration.

We had a good time that night watching all the sex around us. We played with two different couples, including one where the guy was between her legs with his hard cock headed for her pussy, but she her eyes were glazed. I ended up stopping him from putting his cock in her. Afterwards she said that it was like she was in a trance and was happy I stopped him.

We talked about it for several weeks and then returned to the swing club. She said the same thing, "Soft swap, no penetration." But, this time we played with a very nice couple and after he went down on for for long time, he got between her legs with his hard condom covered cock and asked if he could fuck her. She looked at me and raised her eyebrows, asking me if it was OK. After a thousand thoughts went through mine in a second, I nodded, "Yes." She reached up and pulled his shoulders toward her, and he slid his hard cock all the way into her juicy pussy. After only 10 strokes he came, saying she was so tight he could not stop. He changed his condom and they fucked for about 20 minutes before he came again. He called her, "My Princess," a nickname that we used from then on related to swinging.

After going to swing parties and a number of other swing clubs we found we had more fun when we set up small swing parties with people who seemed compatible. We found them on the Internet swing sites, SLS, SDC, and AFF. We usually had another couple or single gal and enough single guys to have a 3 to 1 ratio, men to women. She liked to have three guys playing with her, one sucking each nipple and the third sucking her clit or fucking her. We also found that each woman could outlast and drain three guys during each session.

Working with her preferences, I found and qualified the people we invited to our swing parties, or that we met and swung with during our travels. I would usually exchange messages with them on the swing site, then have at least one phone conversation before the person was on the invite list.

For each swing party, we would meet the invitees at a restaurant, get to know them during lunch or dinner, and after an hour go to a nearby hotel and play for about 3 hours. The rules were: everyone gets nude when we get into the hotel room; each gal gets on one of the beds with the three guys she wants to start with; the guys first job is the give the gals at least one orgasm from oral; condoms are require for any penetration; and the guys are to do what the gals want.

I was the only one permitted to take photos or videos. That way I made sure that faces were not included in any photos or videos except at the specific request of the person whose face was shown, and those photos and videos were provided only to that person.

We only swung together, as we felt it would be better for our relationship, and it was. We never had any jealousy or disagreements about swinging, and enjoyed watching and hearing each other fuck others. We knew it was for sexual play.

We mutually decided to stop swinging and move on with our lives. We had agreed early on that even thought we were very fond of each other, we were too far apart in age to marry. I had four children by a previous marriage and she want to start a family. Years later we are each very happily married to our respective spouses. The spouses know about our swinging times but thus far are not interesting in swinging.

 

[Phil3tan]

A beautiful, wonderful, Asian woman and I had a special relationship for 11 years, and we swung about twice a month. It started several months after we were dating. We were in New York City and she saw the marquee, La Trapeze, as we were driving across town to go to a Broadway show. She asked what it was and I told her that it was a swing club. She asked, "What is a swing club?" After I told her she said that it might be fun to go there after the show. We did, but she said that we should only soft swap, no penetration.

We had a good time that night watching all the sex around us. We played with two different couples, including one where the guy was between her legs with his hard cock headed for her pussy, but she her eyes were glazed. I ended up stopping him from putting his cock in her. Afterwards she said that it was like she was in a trance and was happy I stopped him.

We talked about it for several weeks and then returned to the swing club. She said the same thing, "Soft swap, no penetration." But, this time we played with a very nice couple and after he went down on for for long time, he got between her legs with his hard condom covered cock and asked if he could fuck her. She looked at me and raised her eyebrows, asking me if it was OK. After a thousand thoughts went through mine in a second, I nodded, "Yes." She reached up and pulled his shoulders toward her, and he slid his hard cock all the way into her juicy pussy. After only 10 strokes he came, saying she was so tight he could not stop. He changed his condom and they fucked for about 20 minutes before he came again. He called her, "My Princess," a nickname that we used from then on related to swinging.

After going to swing parties and a number of other swing clubs we found we had more fun when we set up small swing parties with people who seemed compatible. We found them on the Internet swing sites, SLS, SDC, and AFF. We usually had another couple or single gal and enough single guys to have a 3 to 1 ratio, men to women. She liked to have three guys playing with her, one sucking each nipple and the third sucking her clit or fucking her. We also found that each woman could outlast and drain three guys during each session.

Working with her preferences, I found and qualified the people we invited to our swing parties, or that we met and swung with during our travels. I would usually exchange messages with them on the swing site, then have at least one phone conversation before the person was on the invite list.

For each swing party, we would meet the invitees at a restaurant, get to know them during lunch or dinner, and after an hour go to a nearby hotel and play for about 3 hours. The rules were: everyone gets nude when we get into the hotel room; each gal gets on one of the beds with the three guys she wants to start with; the guys first job is the give the gals at least one orgasm from oral; condoms are require for any penetration; and the guys are to do what the gals want.

I was the only one permitted to take photos or videos. That way I made sure that faces were not included in any photos or videos except at the specific request of the person whose face was shown, and those photos and videos were provided only to that person.

We only swung together, as we felt it would be better for our relationship, and it was. We never had any jealousy or disagreements about swinging, and enjoyed watching and hearing each other fuck others. We knew it was for sexual play.

We mutually decided to stop swinging and move on with our lives. We had agreed early on that even thought we were very fond of each other, we were too far apart in age to marry. I had four children by a previous marriage and she want to start a family. Years later we are each very happily married to our respective spouses. The spouses know about our swinging times but thus far are not interesting in swinging.

Wow! Great story . Too bad about the age/family thing . Atleast it was great while it lasted

 

[libralover4u2]

Wow! Great story . Too bad about the age/family thing . At least it was great while it lasted

Fantastic memories, photos, and videos! She was gorgeous, sweet, and attracted guys and gals like a human magnet. I could not have dreamed for anything better.

 

[aymenalexbob]

A beautiful, wonderful, Asian woman and I had a special relationship for 11 years, and we swung about twice a month. It started several months after we were dating. We were in New York City and she saw the marquee, La Trapeze, as we were driving across town to go to a Broadway show. She asked what it was and I told her that it was a swing club. She asked, "What is a swing club?" After I told her she said that it might be fun to go there after the show. We did, but she said that we should only soft swap, no penetration.

We had a good time that night watching all the sex around us. We played with two different couples, including one where the guy was between her legs with his hard cock headed for her pussy, but she her eyes were glazed. I ended up stopping him from putting his cock in her. Afterwards she said that it was like she was in a trance and was happy I stopped him.

We talked about it for several weeks and then returned to the swing club. She said the same thing, "Soft swap, no penetration." But, this time we played with a very nice couple and after he went down on for for long time, he got between her legs with his hard condom covered cock and asked if he could fuck her. She looked at me and raised her eyebrows, asking me if it was OK. After a thousand thoughts went through mine in a second, I nodded, "Yes." She reached up and pulled his shoulders toward her, and he slid his hard cock all the way into her juicy pussy. After only 10 strokes he came, saying she was so tight he could not stop. He changed his condom and they fucked for about 20 minutes before he came again. He called her, "My Princess," a nickname that we used from then on related to swinging.

After going to swing parties and a number of other swing clubs we found we had more fun when we set up small swing parties with people who seemed compatible. We found them on the Internet swing sites, SLS, SDC, and AFF. We usually had another couple or single gal and enough single guys to have a 3 to 1 ratio, men to women. She liked to have three guys playing with her, one sucking each nipple and the third sucking her clit or fucking her. We also found that each woman could outlast and drain three guys during each session.

Working with her preferences, I found and qualified the people we invited to our swing parties, or that we met and swung with during our travels. I would usually exchange messages with them on the swing site, then have at least one phone conversation before the person was on the invite list.

For each swing party, we would meet the invitees at a restaurant, get to know them during lunch or dinner, and after an hour go to a nearby hotel and play for about 3 hours. The rules were: everyone gets nude when we get into the hotel room; each gal gets on one of the beds with the three guys she wants to start with; the guys first job is the give the gals at least one orgasm from oral; condoms are require for any penetration; and the guys are to do what the gals want.

I was the only one permitted to take photos or videos. That way I made sure that faces were not included in any photos or videos except at the specific request of the person whose face was shown, and those photos and videos were provided only to that person.

We only swung together, as we felt it would be better for our relationship, and it was. We never had any jealousy or disagreements about swinging, and enjoyed watching and hearing each other fuck others. We knew it was for sexual play.

We mutually decided to stop swinging and move on with our lives. We had agreed early on that even thought we were very fond of each other, we were too far apart in age to marry. I had four children by a previous marriage and she want to start a family. Years later we are each very happily married to our respective spouses. The spouses know about our swinging times but thus far are not interesting in swinging.

hi sorry for bothering you, but my sweet wife is intersted in swinging and more in bbc, any tips ?
thank you

 

[thongboy]

My gf and I do a lot of 3 way, mainly MMF. Am I sharing her with others or is she sharing me with others — or does it really matter? What does matter is that because all three of us are always bi and because we plan long sessions, what takes place has lots of variety and is smoking hot. It's certainly sharing if she has one cock in her pussy and the other in her ass, or if I've lowered myself on my buddy's cock and she's giving me a nice slow blow job while he fucks me.

 

[deleted1846971]

Not sure if it's been a thread before.
Was hoping to share experiences, practices even post pics, videos..

How did the convo come up?
What are some rules?
Where do you guys look?
Film?
Condoms ?
Do you let your gf decide / talk to the guy without you knowing?
How open are you?

Your GF has a nice ass. Good luck on your swinging endeavors.

 

[clav]

What a lovely erotic story, and infused within a loving, respectful relationship. It’s great. I love the idea of swinging of occasional “hot wifeing” (I’m mostly sub by nature and wouldn’t mind that), but so far I’ve never been in circumstances with relationships that allowed it.

Thank you for sharing.

 

[Aety]

If my wife wanted to do it, I'd go along with it , but only if I got to watch live.

 

[Nakedslaveguy]

For what it’s worth and in case anyone’s interested, I used to share my last boyfriend with two other guys, though the two didn’t sleep with each other or me: it was just my bf who had sex with us all. Which was fine by me, it felt perfectly natural

 

[libralover4u2]

hi sorry for bothering you, but my sweet wife is intersted in swinging and more in bbc, any tips ?
thank you

If she is interested you are 80% there! Since she is busty and nicely shaped you are 90% there!
If you live near a swing club, that is a good way to cross the bridge. The first time both of you can just watch or get involved as much as you feel comfortable. After we had broken the ice and she had her first swing fuck, it was easy from there.

She asked me to be very selective about us being with our first BBC. I was and we had a great time with him. Actually he became a long term friend.

Internet swinger sites are very helpful in finding compatible folks for swing session. SDC and SLS are our favorites. SwingerBoard is full of suggestions and guidance from swingers about swinging.

Good luck! Love to see some photos on here of your success!

 

[witoutit]

I used to try to get my two ex wives to agree to a share night with some other man but neither would go for it. It wasn't because they didn't want to get fucked by another man. Both were in bed with another guy before our divorce was signed, my first wife was even pregnant already!

 

[bkbll2010]

I’ve been the third for about 3 other gf/bf, husband/wife. Being bi it can be a fun experience

 

[witoutit]

Being a girl, I can say that I absolutely love it that my boyfriend shares me with others! It has really added something extra to our relationship, and we both like to watch each other having sex with other guys and girls. So yes, I also share him with girls

For us, there is no jealousy at all, as it's completely different from having sex together. We do have some rules - We never date alone, and we don't kiss. For the rest everything is possible, including being shared with multiple guys which is my latest "thing"!

Do you have a sister?

 

[witoutit]

Not sure if it's been a thread before.
Was hoping to share experiences, practices even post pics, videos..

How did the convo come up?
What are some rules?
Where do you guys look?
Film?
Condoms ?
Do you let your gf decide / talk to the guy without you knowing?
How open are you?

I'm liking that ass.. alot!

 

[Motion-of-the-Ocean]

While I don't have a girlfriend, I do have a wife who was involved in swinging, so perhaps I can answer some of your questions.
First off though, I never "shared" her with anyone since that would imply ownership and everyone she had sex with (both men and women) were of her own choosing not because she was talked into it.
So as to the questions:

Our interest and subsequent conversation first came out after we got our first computer and I had stumbled onto sites that were personals for swingers. She had expressed interest prior to that of wanting to experience being with another woman and she knew that admittedly it was something I had always fantasized about as well. We made our own ad and after many frustrating dead ends and people playing games, we finally hooked up with an experienced couple where the female was bi and agreed to limit swapping interaction between the women.

Our rules starting out were very limiting but evolved over time as we got more comfortable. As stated, in the beginning neither of us were comfortable having the other interact with an opposite sex person, so with those first few couples, the only sex was either between her and the other woman or with each other while the other couple watched us and we them. Gradually this eventually changed to soft swap with the other couple with touching and oral, to eventual hard core penetrative sex with both her and the other man and myself and the other woman. Our rules also changed in regards from same-room sex to where we each could go off with the other person in separate rooms. In the later years, our only actual rule left was in that we would only not do with others what we didn't do between ourselves, such as anal. Our swinging was also a shared activity in that while we didn't have to be present in the same room together with the other person during sex, but we did have to be in the same location and one couldn't just simply go to the party, club or house of the other couple by ourselves.

Our two main methods of looking for others was either through personals on sites such as SLS or by going to swinger clubs. In the later years once we became regular partners with another older couple, we mainly met others through them and by attending private house parties they organized. While we knew a few couples who used Craig's List to meet up, I also heard too many negative things about that approach, so we never tried it.

Although we did once have a request from another couple to film our exploits, it was something we were not comfortable with at the time especially since we didn't really know them all that well at that point. It was never brought up again by anyone else and all the clubs had policies against cellphones and picture/video taking. I do wish in retrospect we had taken them up on it or took pics of some of our adventures, but so is life.

In the beginning once we started full swap, condoms were pretty much a must even if the other couple didn't care. But in our later years and especially once we become part of the aforementioned private group, bareback was the norm unless the other couple requested it.

The wife was free to talk to anyone at a club or party but if she was interested in playing with them I would have to be comfortable with the situation first as well which meant having a conversation with the other guy too. Of course the same applied to myself and another woman; neither of us could simply go off and be with someone without the other knowing and being ok with it.

I guess for each of us to be ok with the other having sex with different people we've been pretty open, but as stated our sex adventures are still a shared activity. We technically never had an "open marriage", since in the Lifestyle that usually implies meeting others for sex separately and sometimes without telling one's partner till afterwards.