Here’s the take away I get from being dabbling in the interwebz for more time than any of you...
(I’ve been involved in computer tech since ‘81 and was there when the original interwebz was nothing more than bb’s and character based communication with universities and gov’t installations)
As time moves on, the closet doors ripped away, gays are more and more emboldened after CENTURIES (or more) of persecution and ridicule.
And it turns out, yeah, there are waaaaay more gay (Okay, LGBT... I refuse to acknowledge the “Q” cuz... make a stand people) than anyone ever thought possible.
And with the newly found openness that the interwebz enables (anonymity breeds fantasy fulfillment) it emboldens those on the “fence” to express, somewhat more aggressively, their intentions.
I would hazard a guess that those who profess “20%-1%” gay have not disclosed this proclivity to their significant others.
The cyber forums allow these tendencies to be openly discussed without fear of discovery and reprisal.
I’ve been married and divorced twice. I took it on the chin that the root cause of the decline in my relationships was a basic incompatibility in our sexual desires. I have an exceptionally high libido that many partners cannot match.
I also have no problem displaying my manhood.
Couple that with pics that I enjoy displaying (cum on, if YOU had a cock like mine, wouldn’t you be proud to display it?) a certain level of male interest is to expected. Men seem to be more (desperate/aggressive) in their sexual desires and as such act out, especially when it is anonymous.
I have been on LPSG since ‘04 (my account got hacked, and I needed to create a new profile back in’15) and in general, the folks here are more restrained than sum adult dating sites I’m a member of. While watched and followed by men here, I am not deluged with men telling/asking/begging me for them to show me how a “real man” would make me feel.
Im not wired that way.
I have watched with curiosity as this site has become gay/bi/whatever dominated.
I applaud those men who are comfortable in their heterosexuality, and the amazing women here who endure the slings and arrows tossed their way by the cretins.
FACT(s):
Not all men are secretly gay and long for the affirmation of other men to slake their thirst for sex (Any sex...as long as they get their rox off)
There are many, MANY men who are completely comfortable in their 100% heterosexual tendencies.
Just cuz a man has a big penis does not automatically mean that he is omnisexual.
My sole interest in the male penis is in the ways I can pleasure a woman with it, no pain, no pounding, just incredible closeness and enjoyment of another human being.
My original interest in this site was that it was called “large penis SUPPORT group” where I would become more comfortable and knowledgeable in how I deal with being a hung, straight male.
Guys just seem to ignore/not acknowledge the rules when anonymity is their shield.
Let the slings and arrows commence.
Cheers,
RD