So “At Your Cervix” I would generally agree with you but am not really complaining. I would agree with the women. I want someone who I can engage with as well. The things you mention are important to me as well. I do not mind going out to dinner, movies, sporting events, shopping etc. I am looking for companionship as well as someone to just have sex with. I mean I would want something to talk about I slept with her. I have dated many attractive women, but they seemed to be caught up in themselves. It would be great to date one who was attractive and had a sense of humility.
I doubt most women want a guy to date them just because they look good or have a nice body, big boobs, big ass etc. Of course, it’s a two-way street. She must work on her personality if she wants someone to date her for more than her looks.
By the same token, I would not a woman to date me just because I have a big dick. Most of the women I have dated have not spent a ton to time commenting on the size. I think there is smattering of gamesmanship in that process. They do not want the guy to feel like he has something over them. On the other hand, if a woman likes big dicks then they should feel free to say so regardless of what society says.
A female friend of mine said something interesting. She said women like a big dick, not a gigantic dick, but she also said she had dated some guys who were big and some who were small. She said you must work with what they got. I would agree with that. I like busty women, but I would never not date a woman because she did not have a big chest.
So, I’m not that caught up in my dick size, but realize it’s a nice extra. Most of the women I have slept with have not gone crazy and made a lot of noise when I slept with them for the first time. Eventually, they must address the elephant in the room. After they feel comfortable and have been dating me for a while, they make some comments. Most of the women make at least a passing attempt to give me head. I’m pretty thick so only the real troopers do more than dabble in giving me head. The rest of them make some comments about sore jaws etc.
There was only one woman that I can remember who a size queen. She was a fixup from a female friend who thought she might make a nice date when I went back to my hometown to visit family. I did not have a photo, so I did not know what she looked like. I asked her what she thought her best feature was (this was a backhanded way to see if she had a big chest, lol). She said she thought it was her eyes, but that guys would say it was her chest (jackpot, it worked). I somehow mentioned my dick size and she said she likes big dicks and likes to feel it deep in her gut. So, I’m known more for my thickness rather than my length. We were making out on the couch and I pulled out my dick. She was surprised. She said your dick is like this wide and held her hands apart in an exaggerated size (ego stroke, lol).
I have a question to the general audience. We can generally see a woman’s physical attributes before sleeping with her. In other words, you know up front whether she has a big chest, big ass, nice figure etc. Do you think dating dynamics would change if there was physical sign from men that let them know that he has a big dick?
I have one more general question for the general audience. I have been meaning to ask this question for a while and have never seen it asked. I know how us guys like to stare at women’s chest. I have learned to do the quick glance, so they don’t see it happen. I noticed a phenomenon about 10-15 years ago where women will catch a quick glance of my crotch if they are interested. I am not shower, but probably a grower, so they have no idea I have a big dick. This mostly happens mostly at work. I have had my boss (female) and several other women in the office do this. Believe it or not, I have never slept with any women in any office I worked in. When they do this, I am close proximity to them, usually standing next to them or within a few feet. They allow me to see them do it. Have any of you guys ever had this happen and have you acted on it?
I doubt most women want a guy to date them just because they look good or have a nice body, big boobs, big ass etc. Of course, it’s a two-way street. She must work on her personality if she wants someone to date her for more than her looks.
By the same token, I would not a woman to date me just because I have a big dick. Most of the women I have dated have not spent a ton to time commenting on the size. I think there is smattering of gamesmanship in that process. They do not want the guy to feel like he has something over them. On the other hand, if a woman likes big dicks then they should feel free to say so regardless of what society says.
A female friend of mine said something interesting. She said women like a big dick, not a gigantic dick, but she also said she had dated some guys who were big and some who were small. She said you must work with what they got. I would agree with that. I like busty women, but I would never not date a woman because she did not have a big chest.
So, I’m not that caught up in my dick size, but realize it’s a nice extra. Most of the women I have slept with have not gone crazy and made a lot of noise when I slept with them for the first time. Eventually, they must address the elephant in the room. After they feel comfortable and have been dating me for a while, they make some comments. Most of the women make at least a passing attempt to give me head. I’m pretty thick so only the real troopers do more than dabble in giving me head. The rest of them make some comments about sore jaws etc.
There was only one woman that I can remember who a size queen. She was a fixup from a female friend who thought she might make a nice date when I went back to my hometown to visit family. I did not have a photo, so I did not know what she looked like. I asked her what she thought her best feature was (this was a backhanded way to see if she had a big chest, lol). She said she thought it was her eyes, but that guys would say it was her chest (jackpot, it worked). I somehow mentioned my dick size and she said she likes big dicks and likes to feel it deep in her gut. So, I’m known more for my thickness rather than my length. We were making out on the couch and I pulled out my dick. She was surprised. She said your dick is like this wide and held her hands apart in an exaggerated size (ego stroke, lol).
I have a question to the general audience. We can generally see a woman’s physical attributes before sleeping with her. In other words, you know up front whether she has a big chest, big ass, nice figure etc. Do you think dating dynamics would change if there was physical sign from men that let them know that he has a big dick?
I have one more general question for the general audience. I have been meaning to ask this question for a while and have never seen it asked. I know how us guys like to stare at women’s chest. I have learned to do the quick glance, so they don’t see it happen. I noticed a phenomenon about 10-15 years ago where women will catch a quick glance of my crotch if they are interested. I am not shower, but probably a grower, so they have no idea I have a big dick. This mostly happens mostly at work. I have had my boss (female) and several other women in the office do this. Believe it or not, I have never slept with any women in any office I worked in. When they do this, I am close proximity to them, usually standing next to them or within a few feet. They allow me to see them do it. Have any of you guys ever had this happen and have you acted on it?
