Size vs. Aesthetic

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Hey guys and girls. I'd like to start a discussion here. Is size really all that matters for you or do you also take the aesthetic of the cock in consideration when you're with someone?
I mean, would you still be into it if the cock was big but not so aesthetic pleasing? Do you not take the "beautifulness" in consideration just because the cock is big? Or would you turn down a hung guy simply because you didn't like the cock?

As a mostly gay guy I do take the aesthetic of the cock in consideration, even if it's not big. I really have to be attracted to a dick to suck it, regardless of the size...

I wanna hear your opinions!
 
Oh god a cock has to be pretty and uncut otherwise I've little interest. I don't want a cock that looks horrific and much prefer average and hot than big and not.
I feel like you just described how I feel about giant but ugly penises... good for nothing
 
Genitals are pretty low on my list of things to consider.
But I totally agree that looks are more important than size.
Personality is the most important, but not a priority.
Face is the highest priority, followed by figure, then personality, but if the personality is terrible, I won't consider the first two even if they score high.
If all three of the above pass my criteria, then that means I should like the guy quite a bit, and if he likes me enough too, then his dick size will no longer matter, and I can accompany him in exploring ways of having sex that are appropriate for his size and comfortable for each other.
But if the cock looks too weird ...... I might actually back off. But there would be very few people whose dick appearance could get to the point of weirdness. So it's okay.
(all of the above will be completely null and void if the hygiene is too poor or if there are STDs)
 
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For a while I had troubles getting hard with some guys. At first I thought it was about the lack of chemistry and I used to really try hard to please the other guy, trying to “look good and perform so I wouldn’t hurt the other guy’s feeling by rejecting him” Then I realized that 99% of the times it was because even through I was physically attracted to the guy persona, sexually I was turned off by circumcised men. The view of a cut dick to me it’s not appealing at all. I always look at a cut dick as a sloppy butcher job that left unwanted and unnecessary scars.
So yeah the look is important. Also I find it not appealing guys who pump their cock and then it looks like an amorphous thing.
In other words, uncut natural cocks with natural pubic hairs I find them the most attractive.
 
Aesthetics are a big consideration when it comes to which cocks I like. They have to look good, even if it’s just average size. I will look past some of the looks of a cock if it’s larger but I’d prefer it to be pretty.
 
Aesthetics are very big important part of why I like a cock. Size is really nice and it’s definitely an attention getter. But it’s the person the cock is attached to that is the most important
Same here. Haha I just said this but I should have scrolled up first!
 
Big is beautiful in many senses, but big ugly cocks do exist too as the OP said. So I think that means aesthetics are obviously important. To have a big cock in front of you but be displeased - that’s aesthetics talking. Or perhaps it’s performance / cock personality issues.
This is the third factor involved! Needed when falling for a nice cock for sure - cock personality is what a cock does and how it reacts to worship sessions. Sure, a big size might immediately score big points in cock personality - but here is always where foreskin comes in, vascularity traits, growing/showing, how moist it gets (too much, too little, just right?) and how the performance of the cock connects to the human up there. Very many things really!
So big is beautiful, but looks matter (and that appreciation can certainly change with time - growing to love it… maybe because you realize it feels so good, so when you look at it, it looks handsome to you haha). And let’s not forget cock personality/performance too!
 
Depends on what is ugly I suppose I would happily drop some aesthetics to have a much bigger cock I have a big dock already and it looks pretty good but I’d drop all that in a second to be bigger size trumps all to me
 
Hey guys and girls. I'd like to start a discussion here. Is size really all that matters for you or do you also take the aesthetic of the cock in consideration when you're with someone?
I mean, would you still be into it if the cock was big but not so aesthetic pleasing? Do you not take the "beautifulness" in consideration just because the cock is big? Or would you turn down a hung guy simply because you didn't like the cock?

As a mostly gay guy I do take the aesthetic of the cock in consideration, even if it's not big. I really have to be attracted to a dick to suck it, regardless of the size...

I wanna hear your opinions!
Oh yeah I can't suck a dick I think is ugly
 
My wife thinks my pumped cock is ugly, but she prefers to fuck it over my unpumped cock, so I guess size trumps aesthetics to her. By a lot, it seems.
 
In my opinion, aesthetic matters a lot. I tend to pay much attention to how a cock looks, maybe to an extent that it is more important than size. I love big cocks, but a big and beautiful cock is simply amazing. Little dicks sometimes are even more beautiful, and they look so adorable.
Another visual factor to take into account is the appearance of size. Some average or slightly above average dicks look big, while some actually big cocks look smaller than they are. Length to girth ratio can also cause that (thick cocks look shorter, thin cocks look longer), and foreskin too (uncut cocks with short foreskin usually look bigger to me than cut cocks).
 
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