Staying hard while being Fucked

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Curious bottom here, I love being fucked but the second I get penetrated I lose my erection. Sometimes able to maintain it with a dick pill or two, but is there a way to train myself to be able to be hard while getting fucked? My cock would look so good hard and bouncing on someone’s stomach…
 
Curious bottom here, I love being fucked but the second I get penetrated I lose my erection. Sometimes able to maintain it with a dick pill or two, but is there a way to train myself to be able to be hard while getting fucked? My cock would look so good hard and bouncing on someone’s stomach…

Sorry, I have the same situation. When I am being fucked, there are only two things in my mind:

1. The great feeling that the fucking is giving my ass and ( hopefully) prostate. Or, the terrible feeling from someone who obviously doesn't know how to fuck properly.

2. Making the top feel as good about fucking me as I feel getting it from him. I want to give him the most pleasure I can, so it will be a memorable experience. I am here to serve him.

With all of that, the last thing on my mind is having a hard cock; it's just not important. Would I like one? Yes, but the other things are more important. Enjoy the experience and celebrate the feelings that you do get. It will make for more satisfying sex. Good luck.
 
I have the same thing, I never stay hard and would usually be limp the whole time throughout (some guys love that btw). Never saw it as an issue (but my dick is very small so it would have the same visual as you) usually I would cum even when limp off my prostate is hit right. Don’t focus too much on how it looks just enjoy how it feels
 
i'm just the opposite. I get so hard I have to keep myself from cumming. But that brings up another point. Once I cum it's just all over. I really cannot have a dick in my ass any longer. Anyone else?
 
with my (bottom) bf whether he's hard or not depends massively on the position we're fucking in. If he's riding me then he'll have a good boner but in other positions esp doggy or flat on his front he tends not too. If we're having sex whilst spooning he's normally hard too.
 
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i'm just the opposite. I get so hard I have to keep myself from cumming. But that brings up another point. Once I cum it's just all over. I really cannot have a dick in my ass any longer. Anyone else?
same here. rock hard when getting fucked, but once I cum I'm over it.
 
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Positions that emphasize prostate stimulation will more likely keep you hard as well as orgasm.
Agree… mostly straight guy here that loves to bottom or take the real thing… I’ve grown to really know the feel of my body when my prostate is hit right. It started out with a using with a strong suction type dildo that’s preddy big in size. And rocking hips in a rhythmic motion till you find your spot… or if he’s talented he does it for you and I stay pretty rock hard
 
nothing hotter then a bottom with a limp cock ;)
Such a sexy thing

Limp cock is not a sexy thing during sex. And if you scan across most modern Porn you’ll find the scenes will often feature bottoms with erect cocks while being penetrated.
 
Limp cock is not a sexy thing during sex. And if you scan across most modern Porn you’ll find the scenes will often feature bottoms with erect cocks while being penetrated.
Every now and then I can multiples….the key is not stopping or letting him stop.
 
Could it be that you’re trying too hard to relax your sphincter, while taking cock? I feel like that happened to me once while taking a larger one. Lost my erection while trying to relax through the pain of it.
 
with my (bottom) bf whether he's hard or not depends massively on the position we're fucking in. If he's riding me then he'll have a good boner but in other positions esp doggy or flat on his front he tends not too. If we're having sex whilst spooning he's normally hard too.
As a bottom, Laying flat also causes me to lose my erection, and indeed, it’s mostly because I focus on enjoying my bf takeover/dominance in that particular position, as soon as we move to another position, rock hard right away.

We’re together for quite a while so its easy for us to sync orgasms, but as a bottom, most time I can still take it just fine post orgasm.