Straight/curious men who like to be cruised/picked up by guys when in public.

[dfw051980]

Question for all the straight but curious, bi or DL dudes out there who like hooking up so long as its on the DL or secretive.

If you are in a public casual place like a bar or club and you lock eyes with another guy you wouldn't mind sneakin away with and having some fun so long as its on the DL how do you approach the encounter or how would you like the other guy to approach you?
Ive definitely had some fun cruising encounters with "straight" men that led to some great times whether it be sneaking to the bathroom to showoff our cocks at the urinal, maybe some secret dryhumping on the dark dance floor... or even sneaking away for a quick JO session or BJ.
But lately nowadays its really hard to read guys how down they are for some play and although the cruising dance itself can be really hot I never want the other dude to feel uncomfortable but wait to long and you can miss your moment.

So how do you Str8-curious, bi and DL guys like to initiate cruising encounters. What signals do you use? Do you like it when the other guy tries to approach or do you prefer to approach first if you feel comfortable?

 

[ronin001]

How can you tell straight man, from a Bi-Curious man, just by looking at him ?

I will try and answer your question. I will tell a story

I was once in a major department store, with 2 attractive ladies. I was stuck pushing around the shopping cart. Long story short, in one isle was a guy, probably in his 40s. I remember nodding as I passed him, as a way of politely saying excuse me. He must have taken my nod, even though I was with 2 women, as an invitation for i wanted a BJ. From that point on, no matter where we went , he was there. Food section, there. Shoe section, there. Feminine hygiene product section, he was there. I am a New Yorker, sooo yes I paid close attention to this person. Eventually the cart was full and we got on the line to pay. by then I had lost sight of the guy. I left my ladies and my credit card in the long line and excused myself to quickly go to the bathroom. I kid you not, as I was exiting, guess who was bolting through the door, with this leaving already look on his face.

I went back to the line, paid as quickly as possible and told my company, we had to go before I got angry and ended up in jail.

To the OP, just remember sometimes a look is just a look, a smile is just a smile

 

[dfw051980]

How can you tell straight man, from a Bi-Curious man, just by looking at him ?

I will try and answer your question. I will tell a story

I was once in a major department store, with 2 attractive ladies. I was stuck pushing around the shopping cart. Long story short, in one isle was a guy, probably in his 40s. I remember nodding as I passed him, as a way of politely saying excuse me. He must have taken my nod, even though I was with 2 women, as an invitation for i wanted a BJ. From that point on, no matter where we went , he was there. Food section, there. Shoe section, there. Feminine hygiene product section, he was there. I am a New Yorker, sooo yes I paid close attention to this person. Eventually the cart was full and we got on the line to pay. by then I had lost sight of the guy. I left my ladies and my credit card in the long line and excused myself to quickly go to the bathroom. I kid you not, as I was exiting, guess who was bolting through the door, with this leaving already look on his face.

I went back to the line, paid as quickly as possible and told my company, we had to go before I got angry and ended up in jail.

To the OP, just remember sometimes a look is just a look, a smile is just a smile

Thanks for sharing. Though trying to tell if someone is straight or bi just by looking at them wasnt what I was asking. But your story does have merit. There is a line that can go to making someone uncomfortable and “stalking” them. That’s not cool at all. The quickest solution is always by the second uncomfortable glare you get or if they followed you just say very sternly with no smile “can I help you?” and that will send the dude running fearing for his life.
But i actually think most not crazy guys can tell a simple friendly “hi” from “hi i see you checking me out and I like it” and the second group is whom this post is for, so you fellas sound off.

 

[deleted581546]

How can you tell straight man, from a Bi-Curious man, just by looking at him ?

I will try and answer your question. I will tell a story

I was once in a major department store, with 2 attractive ladies. I was stuck pushing around the shopping cart. Long story short, in one isle was a guy, probably in his 40s. I remember nodding as I passed him, as a way of politely saying excuse me. He must have taken my nod, even though I was with 2 women, as an invitation for i wanted a BJ. From that point on, no matter where we went , he was there. Food section, there. Shoe section, there. Feminine hygiene product section, he was there. I am a New Yorker, sooo yes I paid close attention to this person. Eventually the cart was full and we got on the line to pay. by then I had lost sight of the guy. I left my ladies and my credit card in the long line and excused myself to quickly go to the bathroom. I kid you not, as I was exiting, guess who was bolting through the door, with this leaving already look on his face.

I went back to the line, paid as quickly as possible and told my company, we had to go before I got angry and ended up in jail.

To the OP, just remember sometimes a look is just a look, a smile is just a smile

This guy sounds like a sexual predator. Maybe he has had success in the past in that store & thought he would try again. Imagine if you were a lone woman & a guy behaved like that?

 

[deleted581546]

Question for all the straight but curious, bi or DL dudes out there who like hooking up so long as its on the DL or secretive.

If you are in a public casual place like a bar or club and you lock eyes with another guy you wouldn't mind sneakin away with and having some fun so long as its on the DL how do you approach the encounter or how would you like the other guy to approach you?
Ive definitely had some fun cruising encounters with "straight" men that led to some great times whether it be sneaking to the bathroom to showoff our cocks at the urinal, maybe some secret dryhumping on the dark dance floor... or even sneaking away for a quick JO session or BJ.
But lately nowadays its really hard to read guys how down they are for some play and although the cruising dance itself can be really hot I never want the other dude to feel uncomfortable but wait to long and you can miss your moment.

So how do you Str8-curious, bi and DL guys like to initiate cruising encounters. What signals do you use? Do you like it when the other guy tries to approach or do you prefer to approach first if you feel comfortable?

Those "Straight" men that you have had fun cruising encounters with? They are not Straight!
Amazing how many times Gay members here have asked the exact same questions as you,have exactly the same "encounters & experiences" as you with "Straight" men, it's like this thread has been copied & pasted, carefully edited so that some words change slightly but the question is the same & then dumped into the Ask a Straight man forum.

 

[ronin001]

This guy sounds like a sexual predator. Maybe he has had success in the past in that store & thought he would try again. Imagine if you were a lone woman & a guy behaved like that?

Sad; but so very true

 

[cofrader]

Question for all the straight but curious, bi or DL dudes out there who like hooking up so long as its on the DL or secretive.

If you are in a public casual place like a bar or club and you lock eyes with another guy you wouldn't mind sneakin away with and having some fun so long as its on the DL how do you approach the encounter or how would you like the other guy to approach you?
Ive definitely had some fun cruising encounters with "straight" men that led to some great times whether it be sneaking to the bathroom to showoff our cocks at the urinal, maybe some secret dryhumping on the dark dance floor... or even sneaking away for a quick JO session or BJ.
But lately nowadays its really hard to read guys how down they are for some play and although the cruising dance itself can be really hot I never want the other dude to feel uncomfortable but wait to long and you can miss your moment.

So how do you Str8-curious, bi and DL guys like to initiate cruising encounters. What signals do you use? Do you like it when the other guy tries to approach or do you prefer to approach first if you feel comfortable?

This is ask straight men you could ask it on ask bi or ask gay. There is no str8 whatever section i guess the creator supposed that being online and anonymous wasn't necessary.

 

[Markyoung873]

Question for all the straight but curious, bi or DL dudes out there who like hooking up so long as its on the DL or secretive.

If you are in a public casual place like a bar or club and you lock eyes with another guy you wouldn't mind sneakin away with and having some fun so long as its on the DL how do you approach the encounter or how would you like the other guy to approach you?
Ive definitely had some fun cruising encounters with "straight" men that led to some great times whether it be sneaking to the bathroom to showoff our cocks at the urinal, maybe some secret dryhumping on the dark dance floor... or even sneaking away for a quick JO session or BJ.
But lately nowadays its really hard to read guys how down they are for some play and although the cruising dance itself can be really hot I never want the other dude to feel uncomfortable but wait to long and you can miss your moment.

So how do you Str8-curious, bi and DL guys like to initiate cruising encounters. What signals do you use? Do you like it when the other guy tries to approach or do you prefer to approach first if you feel comfortable?

straight but curious,

the word but is used to disregard the previous statement…

so your asking the curious?

which would be in the bi or gay (is there a curious section?) section?

 

[402keith]

For me it's all about eye contact then I confirm by adjusting my junk. If he does that too then you're good to go. It's worked for me with other married men at work, when I've been out walking the dog, at bars, etc.

 

[deleted581546]

For me it's all about eye contact then I confirm by adjusting my junk. If he does that too then you're good to go. It's worked for me with other married men at work, when I've been out walking the dog, at bars, etc.

So your Bi then.

 

[lapdog2001]

Question for all the straight but curious, bi or DL dudes out there who like hooking up so long as its on the DL or secretive.

<snip all questions irrelevant to the Ask A Straight Man section>

Straight men would never sneak away for sexual fun with another man, because they are straight and are attracted to women, and enjoy having sex with women.

Your question is better posed to the Ask a Bisexual Man section. Ask a Bisexual Man

 

[dfw051980]

Just want to say as the original poster I apologize about posting my question here. Didn’t realize it would be such a sensitive topic but i can see where some of you guys are coming from. I should have posted it in the general mens catagory here. Not the gay forum because it was not directed toward out gay men… it was directed toward men who consider themself straight but may like a like male on male action in the side. But whatever not gonna go down that road...
But lastly lets chill out some. If the topic isnt for you, you can just choose to ignore it. Sure you can say your 2 cents but thats just gonna keep the thread around longer. Also no need to make it more heated by directing negative energy toward each other.
If i could i would delete it but i cant so lets just let it die.

 

[deleted581546]

Just want to say as the original poster I apologize about posting my question here. Didn’t realize it would be such a sensitive topic but i can see where some of you guys are coming from. I should have posted it in the general mens catagory here. Not the gay forum because it was not directed toward out gay men… it was directed toward men who consider themself straight but may like a like male on male action in the side. But whatever not gonna go down that road...
But lastly lets chill out some. If the topic isnt for you, you can just choose to ignore it. Sure you can say your 2 cents but thats just gonna keep the thread around longer. Also no need to make it more heated by directing negative energy toward each other.
If i could i would delete it but i cant so lets just let it die.

You as the OP can delete the thread if you ask the Moderators, no one else can ask the Moderators to do this and I myself wouldn't anyway as the question itself has raised some good points.

You are right, we should all chill out.

 

[Kade94]

Just want to say as the original poster I apologize about posting my question here. Didn’t realize it would be such a sensitive topic but i can see where some of you guys are coming from. I should have posted it in the general mens catagory here. Not the gay forum because it was not directed toward out gay men… it was directed toward men who consider themself straight but may like a like male on male action in the side. But whatever not gonna go down that road...
But lastly lets chill out some. If the topic isnt for you, you can just choose to ignore it. Sure you can say your 2 cents but thats just gonna keep the thread around longer. Also no need to make it more heated by directing negative energy toward each other.
If i could i would delete it but i cant so lets just let it die.

No worries! Yeah, it would’ve been better if you posted the question in the Ask A Man section, but straight guys here need to relax. It’s not a big deal.

 

[lapdog2001]

No worries! Yeah, it would’ve been better if you posted the question in the Ask A Man section, but straight guys here need to relax. It’s not a big deal.

Well over 90% of this website is now Gay or Bisexual content. Please leave the very small Straight sections for straight content! It IS a big deal!

 

[dfw051980]

Hey guys so i reposted the topic here so if anyone would like to participate lets move the convo here!

Straight/Curious Men Who Like To Be Cruised By other Guys When In Public.

 

[notthatguy]

I consider it a compliment when a younger guy tries to cruise me an old straight guy like me...