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hi so i was wondering if you have a straight friend you can talk to like your gay friend or something. like that and how?

i’m cool with this one guy from a previous job but i know there’s thing i couldn’t talk to him about that i could with my gays.

so basically i would like to know is how y’all became so close? were you scared to open up to them about certain subjects and such? as many details as you want pls and ty!
 
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All my friends are male and straight. Never got around to being friends with another gay or befriending a woman. But I imagine if I ever did have a gay friend this is what it would be like.

My straight best friend, we’ll call him Adam, are probably as close as two friends can get. We’ve known each other for years. We naturally became friends I guess you could say. He was the first guy I ever came out to which I think made us very close. I still have an extremely tough time acknowledging my sexuality so for me that was a big deal. At this point, sexuality wise, he’s sent me sex tapes of him fucking his girl and I’ve told him all about my Grindr hook ups. (he was actually there texting me for my first one lol). We’re extremely open about our sexualities!

There were a lot of lows during our friendship, almost like a relationship, I remember distinctly we blocked each other on everything over the usual nonsense. It reminded me a lot like he was my boyfriend and that was very overwhelming. Maybe one time I cried? Idk Now that we’re older though I think he’s past that behavior as well as I am

How we become close besides that, I would say seeing each other every day at school and always talking on Xbox. We recently reconnected after a pause and now he always jokes that we were “dating”, which annoys me but I completely understand.

He’s a good looking guy, but, I would never fuck or date him and the thought of it kind of grosses me out. My other friend jokes I have a crush on him but in reality we just share a good bond.

genuinely I think straight men make the best friends… just my two cents lol. I’ve met a gay guy in a friendly situation and was best friends with a woman both bad experiences
 
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My best friend is straight and married. We were friends and roommates before he got married and talk nonstop about all kinds of sex and still jack off together. He says I’m the straightest gay guy he knows and is completely comfortable telling me everything and asking me questions about anal pleasure because he’s curious. I’m pretty sure he doesn’t speak to his wife about such things though. We’ve just known each other for many years.
 
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My best friend is straight and married. We were friends and roommates before he got married and talk nonstop about all kinds of sex and still jack off together. He says I’m the straightest gay guy he knows and is completely comfortable telling me everything and asking me questions about anal pleasure because he’s curious. I’m pretty sure he doesn’t speak to his wife about such things though. We’ve just known each other for many years.
how did you guys form such a close bond? if you’re able to pinpoint it
 
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tyfromtexas said:
My best friend is straight and married. We were friends and roommates before he got married and talk nonstop about all kinds of sex and still jack off together. He says I’m the straightest gay guy he knows and is completely comfortable telling me everything and asking me questions about anal pleasure because he’s curious. I’m pretty sure he doesn’t speak to his wife about such things though. We’ve just known each other for many years.
how did you guys form such a close bond? if you’re able to pinpoint it
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Had to sleep in his room once because mine was being painted. Caught him watching porn on his laptop and feeling himself so I said “Just do it already” and he started going at it and I joined in.
 
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Showering said:
One of my best buddies is straight... He is a womanizer. We are open with everything: sex, nudity, personal problems.... We talk about our experiences.

We know us since early days
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how did this come to be? how long after you became friends did either of you start sharing more with each other
 
I have friends that are gay and straight. My close friends you pretty much know their boundaries already. If a guy is truly completely straight as most of my straight friends are, I know enough to respect their boundaries. They don't want to hear about my sexual exploits and I don't really want to know theirs. Of course, if questioned I answer any of my friends honestly, but beyond that I pretty much keep my sexual life pretty private. My truly straight friends don't want to hear about my gay sex life and vice versa (respecting each others boundaries). Last thing I want to do is make my straight friends uncomfortable around me or feeling threatened that I'm coming on to them. There's a couple of my friends that I'd certainly share the sheets with, but that said, it's not going to happen and I don't fantasize over it. I enjoy their friendship and that's what matters. They know if they fall asleep at my place they don't have to worry and vice versa. Respect their boundary and they will respect yours. Last thing you want is a close friendship to end because you made them feel uncomfortable around you. Be yourself of course. They know I am gay and they also know that I won't cross that line and make them uncomfortable. We laugh, we touch (nonsexual touches) and sometimes at most a hug when they are leaving or arriving etc. It makes everyone more comfortable around each other.
 
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Before I met my husband, I had a very active sex life: random hookups in bathrooms or parks, hosting groups, attending sex parties, solo vacations to clothing optional resorts, etc. I never discussed this with any friend (either gay or straight) unless he was a fuck buddy that engaged in similar activities and I knew would be sympathetic (or at least non-judgemental).
 
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yes but not going to lie, a lot of them ended up being we had some kind of vague sexual connection that could have lead to some shameful sex and ultimately I ended up obsessing and fawning after them to the point where it drove them away. they would first become receptive to the attention, even sometimes showing me clear signs they wanted to do something sexual in a fleeting moment, but that would only encourage me to want to pursue them more and then do or say something that would push them away for good. not all my friendships with straight guys but a good number of my closest straight friends who were really hot, some of them were in the military did end like that
 
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yes but not going to lie, a lot of them ended up being we had some kind of vague sexual connection that could have lead to some shameful sex and ultimately I ended up obsessing and fawning after them to the point where it drove them away. they would first become receptive to the attention, even sometimes showing me clear signs they wanted to do something sexual in a fleeting moment, but that would only encourage me to want to pursue them more and then do or say something that would push them away for good. not all my friendships with straight guys but a good number of my closest straight friends who were really hot, some of them were in the military did end like that
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hmm i wonder if environment was a factor then
 
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