Am I wrong in this?
AITA, for being mad at him f**king his gf in the next room.
Now a little backstory, I am DL bi and no one knows exempt my maybe my (best) friend who might also be bi but with a girlfriend.
Now he might know that I am but he doesn’t know
That I know that he might be bi.
Now this friend as a girls friend but has been teasing me sexuallly through out, I take as joking but he really pushes the limit sometimes and it’s confusing seeing as if he is bi himself (he likes chicks with dicks)
On my side, I’m dying on the inside since I do like him but he has a girlfriend, I try to keep my cool and my distance and he himself might suspect I like him which why I felt like he didnt mention her around me, I felt he knew what was going on with me and pulled back with the girlfriend talk.
I do feel bad but it is gut wrenching to here about her mind you I had never had any romantic feeling for a guy so a lot is going on with me.
Now as time goes by, he starts to not pull his punches anymore and talks a little more about her, I die on the inside but it’s his right if he wants to talk about her, all the while still teasing me sexually, like dirty talk, groping,simulating felacio and so on.
I try to move on from from him by avoiding him and finding other girls to talk to but several times he has cockblocked me, almost like I wasn’t aloud to move on from liking him, I do greatly want a boyfriend and if I can deal with him I chose to move on.
Now this is where the problem begins, last Saturday I come and he asks me if I’m going to be him tonight and I tell him yes, he tells that he had plans to bring his girl him tonight, I tell him well I’m going to be here and so he doesn’t reply.
One thing I should mention is I’m currently sleeping on his couch, because we had plans to move out together, his room is a wall away so if he weren’t to do anything I would k kw about it, especially fucking.
Now I’m thinking ok, he is probably going to fuck her in his cad or something.
He comes home with her and teases me by talking dirty slightly and basically telling me to take a hike, I indirectly tell him that I don’t want to but I know that he knows that I’d be uncomfortable, I mean I can’t go to any other room except the one next to his room so naturally I’m not trying to hear anything (even knowing is bad enough) especially since in some level I do like him and genuinely it makes me uncomfortable.
Clearly he didn’t care, he went on to his business for 3 hours basically leaving me stranded with nothing to do.
The love that I had for him is basically gone, he didn’t have to come home with her and do that, he basically rubbed it in my face knowing I might like him and when I indirectly expressed to him that I’d be uncomfortable and he didn’t care, matter of fact, it felt like he was gloating.
So as it stands, I lost all love and respect for him, I wi t say hi, I won’t look him in the eye, I won’t talk to him and frankly I’m looking to get the fuck out as soon as possible and limit contact as much as I can, I’m not exactly an emotional guy but I have been having crying spells at random times( probably because if repressed emotion).
But am I wrong In feeling what I’m feeling, am I the asshole in this??
AITA, for being mad at him f**king his gf in the next room.
Now a little backstory, I am DL bi and no one knows exempt my maybe my (best) friend who might also be bi but with a girlfriend.
Now he might know that I am but he doesn’t know
That I know that he might be bi.
Now this friend as a girls friend but has been teasing me sexuallly through out, I take as joking but he really pushes the limit sometimes and it’s confusing seeing as if he is bi himself (he likes chicks with dicks)
On my side, I’m dying on the inside since I do like him but he has a girlfriend, I try to keep my cool and my distance and he himself might suspect I like him which why I felt like he didnt mention her around me, I felt he knew what was going on with me and pulled back with the girlfriend talk.
I do feel bad but it is gut wrenching to here about her mind you I had never had any romantic feeling for a guy so a lot is going on with me.
Now as time goes by, he starts to not pull his punches anymore and talks a little more about her, I die on the inside but it’s his right if he wants to talk about her, all the while still teasing me sexually, like dirty talk, groping,simulating felacio and so on.
I try to move on from from him by avoiding him and finding other girls to talk to but several times he has cockblocked me, almost like I wasn’t aloud to move on from liking him, I do greatly want a boyfriend and if I can deal with him I chose to move on.
Now this is where the problem begins, last Saturday I come and he asks me if I’m going to be him tonight and I tell him yes, he tells that he had plans to bring his girl him tonight, I tell him well I’m going to be here and so he doesn’t reply.
One thing I should mention is I’m currently sleeping on his couch, because we had plans to move out together, his room is a wall away so if he weren’t to do anything I would k kw about it, especially fucking.
Now I’m thinking ok, he is probably going to fuck her in his cad or something.
He comes home with her and teases me by talking dirty slightly and basically telling me to take a hike, I indirectly tell him that I don’t want to but I know that he knows that I’d be uncomfortable, I mean I can’t go to any other room except the one next to his room so naturally I’m not trying to hear anything (even knowing is bad enough) especially since in some level I do like him and genuinely it makes me uncomfortable.
Clearly he didn’t care, he went on to his business for 3 hours basically leaving me stranded with nothing to do.
The love that I had for him is basically gone, he didn’t have to come home with her and do that, he basically rubbed it in my face knowing I might like him and when I indirectly expressed to him that I’d be uncomfortable and he didn’t care, matter of fact, it felt like he was gloating.
So as it stands, I lost all love and respect for him, I wi t say hi, I won’t look him in the eye, I won’t talk to him and frankly I’m looking to get the fuck out as soon as possible and limit contact as much as I can, I’m not exactly an emotional guy but I have been having crying spells at random times( probably because if repressed emotion).
But am I wrong In feeling what I’m feeling, am I the asshole in this??
